Resiliance and Rebuilding: 2013 in Books, Music, and Writings on Sugarbutch

January 6th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


The Best Things I Wrote About Sex, Gender, & Relationships in 2012

December 30th, 2012 • 11 minute read • by


Anal Week Wrap-Up

June 15th, 2010 • 1 minute read • by


“Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity

September 17th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by


Holiday Ideas for Butches

December 16th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


“I’m kind of … insatiable.” My First Date with Kristen

December 15th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


Queer Eye Candy is back!

December 15th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


My Father’s Son

December 3rd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


A girl: my future wife

November 28th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Letter to myself: enough moping

November 7th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


On Love, Post-Election

November 5th, 2008 • 7 minute read • by


Marriage is so gay*

October 24th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


Vote NO on Prop 8

October 20th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Protected: image, exposed

October 16th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


On Matthew Shepard, and Not Getting Eaten Alive

October 11th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


On being a (gender) freak in New York City

October 8th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


about the calendar photo shoot

October 1st, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Her Best Line

September 25th, 2008 • 11 minute read • by


upon returning, a small complaint

September 24th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


On Pronouns, Mine

September 16th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


In Praise of Femmes: The Architecture of Identity

September 5th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


In Praise of Femmes: Hair & Shaving

August 28th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


On Butches: Hair

August 26th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


The Suspension of Heterosexual Belief (1 of 3)

August 19th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


The Difference Between Romance and Chivalry

August 11th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Sugarbutch Star Contest 2008: launch!

August 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Choice feminism & compulsory gender roles

August 1st, 2008 • 10 minute read • by


On Butch Style: Briefs

July 23rd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Creating Conscious Gender

July 18th, 2008 • 7 minute read • by


Review: Packing Cocks 101

July 14th, 2008 • 7 minute read • by


Intentional vs ‘Natural’ Gender

July 7th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Lesbian stereotypes, reclaiming language, and activism

July 1st, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


authority on the internet

June 30th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


More on Butch Bras

June 24th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


On Butch Breasts, Binders, & Bras

June 24th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


In Praise of Femmes: Trust

June 9th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


On misperceiving someone as femme or butch

May 8th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


Revised: Music To Fuck To

April 30th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


The Red Tie Night, Six Years Ago

April 17th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


How to take butch cock seriously

April 8th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


Tips for Dating via Personal Ads

March 15th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


In Response to a Rant Against Female Masculinity

March 14th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


Femininity & Heterosexism

March 4th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Nostalgia for the Butch/Femme Dynamic

February 26th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


On Privilege & Gender (Part Two)

February 22nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Passing, Privilege, & Butch/Femme

February 22nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


ask for what you want

September 7th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


if that’s what you’re into

September 3rd, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


Top 10 things I love about femmes

August 28th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


don’t you know it

August 27th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by