Protected: The Collaring Ceremony

November 6th, 2014 • 10 minute read • by


Resiliance and Rebuilding: 2013 in Books, Music, and Writings on Sugarbutch

January 6th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


Masocast podcast features … me! Also: Fancy Package on #subplay!

December 23rd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


The Great Reader Mini-Interview of 2013, Part 5: In which you recommend Stone Butch Blues & Fried Green Tomatoes, and give good advice

November 21st, 2013 • 1 minute read • by


The hottest parts of the hottest parts of the stories: The Big Book of Orgasms

November 1st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


The Great Reader Mini-Interview, part two

October 17th, 2013 • 1 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace: in which I (attempt to) explain what happened over these last eighteen months

October 2nd, 2013 • 15 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #19

September 20th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #16

September 13th, 2013 • 14 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #12

September 8th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #11

September 7th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #10

September 6th, 2013 • 6 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #7

September 3rd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Dominance & Power with Responsibility

June 24th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


“Let Them:” A Request To Help Keep Me Writing

May 10th, 2013 • 7 minute read • by


What Dyke Looks Like: Photographer Kristy Boyce is Visiting NYC

January 8th, 2013 • 1 minute read • by


The Best Things I Wrote About Sex, Gender, & Relationships in 2012

December 30th, 2012 • 11 minute read • by


Photos from the Dirty Queer Sex Tour: Dallas

December 27th, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Yarrow: Complex Organic Poly Web

December 10th, 2012 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Lifting: a little update on me, Kristen, poly, and grief

December 9th, 2012 • 6 minute read • by


One Year with Rife

November 27th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Thanksgiving in Texas

November 26th, 2012 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Everything Is Different Now

November 19th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Nothing Makes Me Feel Better Like A Sharp Butch Haircut

November 11th, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


Protected: Being with the hurt

November 7th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: So Then There Was A Hurricane

November 1st, 2012 • 5 minute read • by


To Do While Grieving List

October 28th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Grief. Also, Trying to Find My Awesome Place

October 23rd, 2012 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: I don’t want to tell you these things.

October 15th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Say Please Reading Tonight in New York City, And Sadly I Won’t Be There

October 5th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


“Baby You Make Me Burn / Hotter than Hell / Don’t Think I Don’t Know / I’m Under Your Spell” … Must Be Desire by Mojo Juju

September 29th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Power Blow Job Demo with Me & Kristen at Submit on Saturday Night in Brooklyn

September 28th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Unholy Harvest, Say Please Reading (Readers Needed!), & Bad Boys in Toronto

September 25th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Love Letter #26

September 13th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Love Letter #25

September 11th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Kink-Centered Photo Shoot by Bill Wadman

September 7th, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


Dirty Filthy Nasty

September 3rd, 2012 • 10 minute read • by


Protected: Love Letter #24

August 31st, 2012 • 6 minute read • by


Erotic Embodiment, Feminist Kink Workshops, Books to Read, and More New Things This Fall

August 31st, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


The Femme Conference in Photos

August 21st, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


See You At the Femme Conference

August 16th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Are You “Femme Enough” For the Femme Conference?

July 25th, 2012 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Love Letter #23

July 24th, 2012 • 5 minute read • by


Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 3: “How Can I Be More Open About Kink?”

July 6th, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


Dirty Queer Sex Tour: Next Stop, Atlanta!

June 29th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: Flying

June 28th, 2012 • 6 minute read • by


The Act of Creating Something

June 18th, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 2: “How To Have a Successful Threesome”

June 11th, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


The Three Minute Game

June 8th, 2012 • 7 minute read • by


The 24th Annual Lammys Brief Sugarbutch Recap

June 8th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by