Some other announcements

A little bit of a round-up post about things that you might be interested in … though I’ve been a little bit offline and not…

Giveaway: the Grip boy toy

As of 2/8/16 This product is no longer available at Babeland I know there’s been a lack of long, smutty, or gender posts lately –…

Sugasm #164: Slutty little girl.

This Week’s Picks  Confessional: Breaking the Girl “And that’s why I’ll love it, that’s what will fuel me to dig deeper.” Does Art imitate Life or…

Answers to some questions

Do you have a top five list of toys/accessories that you love and recommend? People’s sexualities are so different, so what’s best for me might…

Editor’s Pick of Sugasm #160

This Week’s Picks He beats me “I bite my lip in anticipation as I follow his direction.” Jerking Off: You’re doing it wrong! “However, I’m in it…

Best Sex Toy Reviewers of 2008

The Best Sex Toy Reviewers list was published today, and on it, at #7, with a bullet, is yours truly. Thanks y’all! I’m glad the reviews that I do are useful for you. So … now that I’m writing about sex toy reviews, I have a few things to say before getting on to the list.

Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy #15

Welcome to the 15th Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy! I’m your host, Monsieur du Sexsmith, as we wander around the sex, feminist, queer, and gender blogospheres to bring you some amazing reading, writing, introspection, self-reflection, and inspiration on the subjects of sexual freedom and sexual autonomy.

Shared Items – December 26, 2008

Some of my favorite posts this week from around the blogosphere … sex, gender, and relationships, queer culture, and more. Browse around, find some new reads.

Shared Items – December 19, 2008

Links and articles for the week of December 19th – feminism, sex, activism, and personal stories around the web and blogosphere that I enjoyed reading. Maybe you will like ’em too.

Shared Items – December 5, 2008

Links around the blogosphere for the week; what I’ve been reading, what has impressed me, great ideas, people in my community. Read & comment & show some love.

The Sexblogger Calendar Party

The New York City Sexbloggers Calendar release party is over. Now, five days later, the Twitter-loving on each other is fading, the blog posts are…

sugasm #149: editor’s pick!

Eileen’s Sugarbutch Star story is the editor’s pick at Sugasm #149 this week – thanks!! This Week’s Picks Art of the Cunt “The point of the abstraction…

sex blogger calendar 2009

I’m going to be one of the pinups in the The New York City Sexbloggers 2009 Calendar. This is a brainchild of Tess Danesi, aka…

top 100 sex bloggers

Uh … wow. I am kind of at a loss here. Rori at Between My Sheets emailed out last night that the Top 100 Sex…

Review: Goodfella

Yep, it’s the Goodfella from Vixen Creation’s Vixskin line. I have yet to come across any cock that is superior to the texture, feel, realistic-ness,…

why not buy a new cock?

So we all know I <3 Babeland, right? They are a feminist, sex-positive, not scary sex toy store that includes all sorts of gender-forward products…

authority on the internet

“Believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who has said it, not even if I have said it, unless it agrees with your…

femme conference 2008

The Femme Conference 2008, taking place in Chicago in August, is put on by the Femme Collective. Take a look at their mission statement: Femme…

editor’s choice in Sugasm #131

This Week’s Sugasm Picks Kink “A bill outlawing the possession of “extreme pornography” is set to become law next week.” M is for Mine “You comment on…

what I’m grateful for

Sugarbutch stands in an interesting place within online communities; I see it as touching on and fusing various subjects – activism, feminism, sex, gender, queer…

sugasm 97

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm…

sugasm #92

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. This Week’s Picks…

get fantasizin’!

The submissions are pouring in – by which I mean, I have six. They’re good ones, though, all of them. People, you’ve got today &…