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Dominance & Power with Responsibility

06/24/2013  |  2 Comments

As I've been exploring deeper into power theory, like D/s and M/s, and as I've been trying to understand how... more

Writing your story is “an investment in one’s self,” and more from Amber Dawn

05/21/2013  |  No Comments

I published a note about me & Amber Dawn reading some poetry this week earlier today, but I forgot that... more

“Conversations Build Communities”: BUTCH Voices To Hold 3rd Biennial National Conference in Oakland August 15-18, 2013

03/11/2013  |  No Comments

BUTCH Voices is still looking for volunteers for the Steering Committee, Board, and some sub-committees if you're interested in helping... more

Opportunities with the BUTCH Voices Media Team

02/27/2013  |  No Comments

In addition to teaching workshops and traveling everywhere, one of my other major jobs recently has been working as the... more

Open Relationship Mini Interview with Aida: Exercise the Love Muscle

02/07/2013  |  No Comments

Aida Manduley, www.smutandsensibility.com, @neuronbomb 1. What insight about polyamory/open relationships would you share with your younger self? Don't assume that because... more

Open Relationship Mini Interview with Sassafras Lowrey: “I live the queer life I’ve always dreamed of”

02/01/2013  |  No Comments

Sinclair's note: This concludes the open relationship mini interview series! I'm debating if I should do more of these mini-interviews,... more

Open Relationship Mini Interview with Nayland: “I finally am having the sorts of relationships that I’ve wanted all my life”

01/23/2013  |  2 Comments

Nayland Blake, naylandblake.net 1. What insight about polyamory/open relationships would you share with your younger self? That it’s entirely alright to discard... more

“Reading erotica is a GREAT way to explore your sexuality.” Tristan Taormino Interviewed Me On Sex Out Loud

01/14/2013  |  1 Comment

Laura Antoniou & I were guests on Tristan Taormino's Sex Out Loud podcast this past Friday, and the show is... more

Open Relationship Mini Interview with Katrina: People Are Adventures

01/11/2013  |  2 Comments

Katrina Elisse Caudle, www.kisskissdiary.com Today's mini-interview about open relationships with Katrina is in a podcast format! It's 17 minutes, and Katrina... more

Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman: “Being poly doesn’t make you more evolved”

01/10/2013  |  No Comments

Charlie Glickman, www.charlieglickman.com, www.facebook.com/charlie.glickman, gplus.to/CharlieGlickman, @charlieglickman 1. What insight about polyamory/open relationships would you share with your younger self? My partner and... more