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The Great Reader Mini-Interview, Part Four: “Shut up and get hit,” Communion, and fun erotica

11/03/2013  |  2 Comments

What's your relationship with sugarbutch.net and Sinclair? What advice would you give your younger self about sex, gender, or relationships? What one... more

The Great Reader Mini-Interview, Part Three: Personal accountability & self reflections, Kink, and Do Your Research

10/24/2013  |  No Comments

What's your relationship with sugarbutch.net and Sinclair? What advice would you give your younger self about sex, gender, or relationships? What one... more

To the femmes on whom I’ve crushed this past year

10/05/2013  |  19 Comments

If you think I'm not kicking myself for not making a move when I had the chance, you're wrong. I wish... more

Review: Jam Body Tank, aka Compression Tank, aka Faux-Binder

08/21/2013  |  5 Comments

Rounderwear contacted me offering products for review, and while their bubble-butt gay boy underwear is pretty cute, I wasn't sure... more

Dominance & Power with Responsibility

06/24/2013  |  2 Comments

As I've been exploring deeper into power theory, like D/s and M/s, and as I've been trying to understand how... more

Writing your story is “an investment in one’s self,” and more from Amber Dawn

05/21/2013  |  No Comments

I published a note about me & Amber Dawn reading some poetry this week earlier today, but I forgot that... more

“Conversations Build Communities”: BUTCH Voices To Hold 3rd Biennial National Conference in Oakland August 15-18, 2013

03/11/2013  |  No Comments

BUTCH Voices is still looking for volunteers for the Steering Committee, Board, and some sub-committees if you're interested in helping... more

Opportunities with the BUTCH Voices Media Team

02/27/2013  |  No Comments

In addition to teaching workshops and traveling everywhere, one of my other major jobs recently has been working as the... more

Open Relationship Mini Interview with Aida: Exercise the Love Muscle

02/07/2013  |  No Comments

Aida Manduley, www.smutandsensibility.com, @neuronbomb 1. What insight about polyamory/open relationships would you share with your younger self? Don't assume that because... more

Open Relationship Mini Interview with Sassafras Lowrey: “I live the queer life I’ve always dreamed of”

02/01/2013  |  No Comments

Sinclair's note: This concludes the open relationship mini interview series! I'm debating if I should do more of these mini-interviews,... more