The Personal Blog Is Not Dead

November 1st, 2017 • 4 minute read • by


2017 Sex Blog Lists

October 31st, 2017 • 2 minute read • by


Coming to your college campus (spring tour dates!)

December 9th, 2015 • 2 minute read • by


A peek inside Submissive Playground! The syllabus and Subplay “tracks”

September 17th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by


I Want You to Thrive: How to Use the Submissive Playground “Tracks”

January 16th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by


The Girl in the Red Dress (Excerpt from Sex Still Spoken Here)

July 20th, 2014 • 8 minute read • by


Happy Pride! Last Chance Submissive Playground Sale

June 27th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Submissive Playground Winner!

June 11th, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


Win a spot in the Submissive Playground ecourse

June 9th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Take the (new!) S-Type Quiz

June 3rd, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Announcing! Submissive Playground 2.0: Summer School

June 1st, 2014 • 3 minute read • by


The Identity Project: “Butch daddy poet” and “Genderqueer leather boy”

May 30th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Check it out: New “Cock Confidence Guide”

May 20th, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


Giveaway! Want a membership for Indie Porn Revolution? Of course you do.

April 25th, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


Ready to explore “embodiment”? Three workshop offerings in Seattle & San Francisco in March & April

March 4th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


On the road again … Portland + Princeton

February 4th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Didn’t you mention a marketing or business ecourse recently?

January 8th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Masocast podcast features … me! Also: Fancy Package on #subplay!

December 23rd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


eLust #53 includes my “Pick a Hole. You Know What Happens Next.”

December 17th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Come play at the Submissive Playground!

December 6th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


What’s in our sex den? Books, of course.

December 6th, 2013 • 1 minute read • by


Jiz Lee masturbating + a copy of Best Lesbian Erotica + snacks + wine + reading smut aloud + YOU = Queer Smut at the CSC next week ($20 cover)

December 6th, 2013 • 1 minute read • by


The Gender Book’s crowdfunding campaign is funded! But you should still go buy a copy for yourself right now

December 4th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Do you like queer smut? Next week, I bet we can make you blush.

December 2nd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


The quiz is here! What kind of s-type are you?

November 30th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Free eBook Download: BDSM murder mystery about dogs & neighbors

November 11th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Dirty Queer Sex Workshops in Seattle November 14-17

November 5th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


The hottest parts of the hottest parts of the stories: The Big Book of Orgasms

November 1st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


The Great Reader Mini-Interview, part two

October 17th, 2013 • 1 minute read • by


The Great Reader Mini-Interview, part 1: National Fisting Day, embracing gender complexities, and more

October 16th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Hey readers! I want to (mini-)interview YOU!

September 26th, 2013 • 1 minute read • by


Free download of Visible: A Femmethology Volume Two

September 18th, 2013 • 1 minute read • by


“Under the Desk” Featured in eLust #50

September 17th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


I’m about to go back on tour. 2013-2014 workshops! Bring me to your school!

September 13th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


BUTCH Voices 2013 conference starts tomorrow! “What are you doing after that, Sinclair?” “I’m going to Disneyland!”

August 15th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Want to promote your cool thing at the BUTCH Voices conference?

July 31st, 2013 • 1 minute read • by


New workshop in Albuquerque July 21: Pleasure Lab

July 1st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Want to attend the BUTCH Voices 2013 Conference for free?

July 1st, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Summer Internship Opportunity with Mr. Sexsmith

June 20th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


BUTCH Voices Call for Proposals due in two days!

June 19th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


“How Poetry Saved My Life” Reading with Amber Dawn (& me!) on Wednesday in SF

May 21st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Exploring Gender Through Photos: The new headshots by Meg Allen

May 17th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


More dirty things than you can read in one sitting

May 10th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


“Let Them:” A Request To Help Keep Me Writing

May 10th, 2013 • 7 minute read • by


Seven years ago, I started this project named Sugarbutch

May 1st, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


International Ms. Leather 2013 Begins Tonight! Say Please, Pack n Play Cocks, Happy Hour, More

April 18th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Feel into your own blooming: Celebrating the Body Erotic for Women in NYC

April 15th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Trans Women Belong at Smith, BUTCH: Not Like the Other Girls, and Lots of Other Things To Tell You About

April 5th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Smith College, Oh My!, The CSPH, UTK Sex Week, IMsL, and Where Else I’ll Be In the Next Few Months

March 25th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


“Conversations Build Communities”: BUTCH Voices To Hold 3rd Biennial National Conference in Oakland August 15-18, 2013

March 11th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by