6 Black Educators to Follow & Support on Patreon

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Breath as a Healing Tool During COVID-19 with M’kali-Hashiki

June 30th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


Some Notes That May Turn Into A Sex Manifesto

March 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


“There Are Others Like You:” Interview with Rowdy, rife’s Puppy

February 18th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Ready to Make Waves: Two Recent Inspirational Leather Speeches

January 31st, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by


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January 20th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission

December 31st, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


No, You Don’t “Get” Racism Because You Are Oppressed, Too

November 27th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by


Five Essential Apps for Sex Bloggers

October 31st, 2019 • 4 minute read • by


Bi-Erasure, Community, and Other Thoughts on Bisexual Visibility Day

September 23rd, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: Writing About D/s Online

August 29th, 2019 • 4 minute read • by


What Are You Going To Do With That Women, Gender, Sexuality Studies Degree?

August 5th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Methods of Control in Your D/s Relationship: Defining Rules, Tasks, Protocol, and Ritual

July 24th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


Decks, Books, & Spreads: Getting Started with a Tarot Practice

July 12th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


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June 28th, 2019 • 5 minute read • by


The Singular “They” Is Grammatically Correct, Dammit

May 16th, 2019 • 4 minute read • by


Dear (Cis) People Who Put Your Pronouns On Your “Hello My Name Is” Name Tag

April 20th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Fundamentals of the Protocol Game

April 15th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


The Outermost Bracket™: A Theory on D/s and Non-Monogamy

January 28th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


Creating a Submissive Training Plan for Yourself

December 31st, 2018 • 4 minute read • by


Introducing Erotix: Literary Journal of Somatics

July 29th, 2018 • 3 minute read • by


The Personal Blog Is Not Dead

November 1st, 2017 • 4 minute read • by


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September 29th, 2017 • 4 minute read • by


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September 17th, 2016 • 4 minute read • by


Femming the Strap-On, Guest Post by Artemisia FemmeCock

July 28th, 2016 • 3 minute read • by


How I Became A Daddy

July 23rd, 2016 • 4 minute read • by


Introducing View From The Top: My BDSM Journey

February 5th, 2016 • 2 minute read • by


On the Importance of Queer, Women Centered, & Feminist Sex Toy Shops (Map)

December 27th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


Microagressions & Misgendering: “Right this way, ladies.”

December 21st, 2015 • 8 minute read • by


The Best Queer Sex Blogs

November 15th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


The Exact Right Word: National Coming Out Day and Chosen Identities

October 16th, 2015 • 2 minute read • by


“Submission is mine to define for myself.” Interview with Miss Piggy

September 14th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


7 Tips For Flirting As A Submissive

September 11th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by


“I found a sense of clarity about my path:” Interview with Shiris

August 26th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


You’ll Never Find the Perfect Dominant

August 18th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


Queer Masculinity in Porn: Heavenly Spire, Stepfather’s Secret, & More

January 30th, 2015 • 11 minute read • by


“Healing comes through sex.” Sinclair Sexsmith interviews Sophia Chang

January 2nd, 2015 • < 1 minute read • by


Turn Your Rough Fantasies into Responsible Reality

December 29th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by


Follow your own Kinky Desire Map

December 18th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


Things I, as a white sex educator, do to foster inclusivity in this community

December 16th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


10 Tips for Tops

November 30th, 2014 • 7 minute read • by


Long Live the Butch

November 20th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


The Four Stages of Topping

October 30th, 2014 • 8 minute read • by


Dear Tops: Say Thank You

October 25th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


On Gender Perception, or: Break Your Eyes Open to Genderqueers

October 9th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


The Ten Sugarbutch Cock Commandments

September 26th, 2014 • 8 minute read • by


Do rough sex fantasies compromise your sex-positive ethics?

September 11th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Let’s Talk About Bleeding While Butch

August 31st, 2014 • 7 minute read • by


Is psychological kink play “healthy”?

August 25th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by


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