Archive for advice

Ask Me Anything: Non-Cheesy “Self-Help”

05/02/2011  |  2 Comments

J-femme wrote:Happy Anniversary! I think I’ve been reading almost that long!You posted something that looked like a pie chart... more

Ask Me Anything: Smut Day

04/29/2011  |  No Comments

Jen asked: How are you going to celebrate official smut day?By finishing this anthology! Or at least, finishing the manuscript... more

Happy 5th Anniversary, Sugarbutch! And: Ask Me Anything

04/29/2011  |  25 Comments

Today is Sugarbutch's 5th anniversary—I started this little personal online writing project five years ago, on April 29, 2006.... more

Ask Me Anything: Being Recognized & Dreaming About Sex

10/08/2010  |  2 Comments

Here's the last of the questions from the Ask Me Anything post on Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary! Thanks, everybody, for the... more

Ask Me Anything: Coming Out at Work

10/07/2010  |  9 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary:I’m completely femme and work in a very straight environment. A... more

Ask Me Anything: Becoming More Dominant

10/06/2010  |  6 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary:What are some tools/techniques that help someone to “try on” a... more

Ask Me Anything: Standards of Beauty

10/05/2010  |  26 Comments

While I was on the plane to Portland for Butch Voices this past weekend, I dug through my files and... more

On Being Left Out of Butch & Femme

08/13/2010  |  9 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary:a) I often find myself at a loss when trying to... more

Stories from My Youth

08/09/2010  |  12 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary:When you were a teenager, how did you feel about your... more

On Masculinity, Mine

07/05/2010  |  4 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary:I’m interested to know how you feel your masculinity and your... more