Archive for advice

Ask Me Anything: What to Wear to a BDSM Weekend?

09/14/2011  |  1 Comment

Via email, Katy asks:I will be going to my first BDSM convention next weekend ... I have a question.... more

Ask Me Anything: How to Give Blow Jobs Without Feeling Stupid

08/04/2011  |  3 Comments

Newbie asked:My partner and I are new to strap-on sex. We both love the idea of blowjobs, but I have... more

Ask Me Anything: What To Do With Old Sex Toys?

06/07/2011  |  2 Comments

Q asked:do you have any ideas for what to do with lightly used sex toys and accessories? They don't seem... more

Ask Me Anything: Strapping On For the First Time

06/01/2011  |  5 Comments

ExperimentallyCurious asked:What was your first time strapping like? What advice do you have for strap-on virgins? My butch just... more

Ask Me Anything: My Favorite Spanking

06/01/2011  |  3 Comments

A.A. asked:Can you tell us about your most favorite spanking you have ever given?Hm. I'm not sure I have a... more

Ask Me Anything: Queer Despite the Straight Relationship

05/31/2011  |  6 Comments

rhapsodyblue asked:I’m a FAAB genderqueer pansexual in a long-term monogamous relationship with a straight cissexual guy. I adore him, he... more

Ask Me Anything: How Not To Slip Out When Strapped On

05/24/2011  |  3 Comments

MSE asked:Like Tuesday, I also have a question about strap-on sex. Whenever my girl and I use a strap-on, the... more

Ask Me Anything: Strap-On Positions When Someone is Taller

05/23/2011  |  4 Comments

Tuesday asked:What’s your advice on positions that work for strap-on sex between people of very different heights? especially taller... more

Ask Me Anything: Confidence & Getting Girls Off

05/10/2011  |  7 Comments

Babybutch wrote:My girlfriend totally knows how to get me off, but I’m nervous that I’m not doing enough for her... more

Ask Me Anything: Origins of ‘Sugarbutch’, and Butch Identity Advice

05/03/2011  |  14 Comments

Kyle asked: Where did ‘Sugarbutch’ come from? Is it a nickname? A term of endearment? A random word paired with... more