Archive for advice

Ask Me Anything: Strapping On For the First Time

06/01/2011  |  5 Comments

ExperimentallyCurious asked: What was your first time strapping like? What advice do you have for strap-on virgins? My butch just... more

Ask Me Anything: My Favorite Spanking

06/01/2011  |  3 Comments

A.A. asked: Can you tell us about your most favorite spanking you have ever given? Hm. I'm not sure I have a... more

Ask Me Anything: Queer Despite the Straight Relationship

05/31/2011  |  6 Comments

rhapsodyblue asked: I’m a FAAB genderqueer pansexual in a long-term monogamous relationship with a straight cissexual guy. I adore him, he... more

Ask Me Anything: How Not To Slip Out When Strapped On

05/24/2011  |  3 Comments

MSE asked: Like Tuesday, I also have a question about strap-on sex. Whenever my girl and I use a strap-on, the... more

Ask Me Anything: Strap-On Positions When Someone is Taller

05/23/2011  |  4 Comments

Tuesday asked: What’s your advice on positions that work for strap-on sex between people of very different heights? especially taller... more

Ask Me Anything: Confidence & Getting Girls Off

05/10/2011  |  7 Comments

Babybutch wrote: My girlfriend totally knows how to get me off, but I’m nervous that I’m not doing enough for her... more

Ask Me Anything: Origins of ‘Sugarbutch’, and Butch Identity Advice

05/03/2011  |  14 Comments

Kyle asked: Where did ‘Sugarbutch’ come from? Is it a nickname? A term of endearment? A random word paired with... more

Ask Me Anything: Non-Cheesy “Self-Help”

05/02/2011  |  2 Comments

J-femme wrote: Happy Anniversary! I think I’ve been reading almost that long! You posted something that looked like a pie chart... more

Ask Me Anything: Smut Day

04/29/2011  |  No Comments

Jen asked: How are you going to celebrate official smut day? By finishing this anthology! Or at least, finishing the manuscript... more

Happy 5th Anniversary, Sugarbutch! And: Ask Me Anything

04/29/2011  |  25 Comments

Today is Sugarbutch's 5th anniversary—I started this little personal online writing project five years ago, on April 29, 2006.... more