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Favorites I Read Daily

Autostraddle
Dorothy Surrenders
Chelsea Girl
Figleaf’s Real Adult Sex
Kate Bornstein’s blog for Teens, Freaks, & Other Outlaws
Lesbian Dad
Rachel Kramer Bussel
S. Bear Bergman
Writing Dirty
WTF Cancer Diaries
Velvet Park
Kelli Dunham
Cheryl B.
Waking Vixen

Playin’ for My Team (other queer bloggers)
Don’t Let’s Talk
Essin’ Em
The Femme Show
Femme is my Gender
Green-eyed Girl
Just Like Jesse James
Packing Vocals
Sex Geek
Tongue Tied Blue

Sexblogs & Other Folks in this Community
24/7 Richard & Amy
Alison Tyler
Always Aroused Girl
Charlie Glickman
Debauchette
Devastating Yet Inconsequential
How Great Sex Made Me A Good Mom (Shar Rednour)
Hugo Schwyzer
Leather Yenta: Lolita’s Predictions & Predilections
Miss Calico
Mollena
Oh Megan
Pro-SM Feminist Sex Spaces
Pure as the Driven Slush

Community Sites
Bilerico
e[lust]
Filthy Gorgeous Things
Sex in the Public Square

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Bent Writing Institute
Savage Love Podcast
Scarleteen
RAINN
Woodhull Foundation

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    I'm Sinclair Sexsmith, the kinky queer butch top behind this site. I'm a writer, storyteller, and performer who studies critical feminist & gender theory, sexual freedom, social change activism, archetypes, and the tantric and buddhist spiritual systems. I am currently based in New York City. More about me →

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      • Interview with Jack Halberstam on LambdaLiterary.org Wednesday, February 1, 2012
      • Mr. Sexsmith Says: Get Off While Strapped On on SexIs Magazine Wednesday, February 1, 2012
      • Mr. Sexsmith Says: Don’t Worry, Be Kinky on SexIs Magazine Thursday, January 19, 2012
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      • Mr. Sexsmith Says: She Likes My Butch Breasts and I Don’t on SexIs Magazine Wednesday, December 21, 2011
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      • Afternoon Delight: Erotica for Couples
      • Best Lesbian Erotica 2006
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      • Love at First Sting: Sexy Tales of Erotic Restraint
      • Love Me Tender: Romantic Tales of Pleasure and Pain
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      • Secret Slaves: Erotic Stories of Bondage
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      • Stripped Down: Lesbian Sex Stories
      • Take Me There: Trans & Genderqueer Erotica
      • The Harder She Comes: Butch Femme Erotica
      • Visible: A Femmethology Volume II
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