Sugarbutch Star Winner: blacknblu, The Pink Dress
Alright it’s official, we have a winner: Congratulations, blckndblue! Thank you for the premise behind the story The Pink Dress. Over 100 people voted, and…
Alright it’s official, we have a winner: Congratulations, blckndblue! Thank you for the premise behind the story The Pink Dress. Over 100 people voted, and…
Once upon a time, I ran a little contest, and the “winner” got a little prize. The real point was to get me inspired to…
Three summers ago, I started a project called the Sugarbutch Star. Maybe you remember: I asked folks for submissions for story ideas, outlines of erotic…
Buy a Sugarbutch Star Chapbook! I’ve reprinted the Sugarbutch Star chapbooks from 2007! I know, I know, the 2008 contest isn’t done yet (SBC fans…
Sugasm highlights the top pieces on sexblogs by the bloggers who blog them. This Week’s Picks: The fundamental things apply… “If you can’t fuck me…
The Sugarbutch Star chapbook is DONE! I picked up the first fifty copies yesterday, and they will be making their debut at the Femme Conference…
Well, it’s that time again … I’m doing another Sugarbutch Star Contest! Here’s the deal: YOU send in the details for an erotica/smut story I…
I’m back from Salt Lake City & my short Southwest roadtrip! Lots of catching up to do. By a landslide: the winner of the 2007 Sugarbutch…
Review all the contest entries here! [poll=2] Polls close Friday, May 2nd, at 5pm EST.
I’m sorry to say, the form is cutting off entries. I’m working to rebuild it. Meanwhile, please email me your submission – aspiringstud@gmail.com. Include: name…
Here’s how you could be the next Sugarbutch star: Email me (aspiringstud at gmail.com), leave a comment, or fill out this form with your scene…
Once upon a time, I was struggling to become a butch. My first girlfriend called me “Sugarbutch” and it stuck. Though my college girlfriend and…
2022 was a huge transition year for me. In April, I changed the Patreon from per-thing to per-month, which significantly helped me work on longer…
Unsurprisingly, the dirty Daddy kinky queer smut continues to be the posts with the highest traffic this year — including a variety of guest posts. Thank…
Sugarbutch started on this day, April 29, 14 years ago in 2006. I had been in New York City almost a year. I was drifting…
Thank you. I want to write about how I’m on the list of sex bloggers that Kinkly released at the beginning of this month. And about…
I’ve been sharing more of my tarot practice (particularly on my personal Instagram) lately, and getting some questions. With the rise of self-publishing, artists from…
I’ve been teaching strap-on workshops for about six years now, and I’ve been strapping on for about fifteen. I also coach people to have more…
What do I pack with? Just about anything can be packed into your briefs and worn as a packer, but fear not! Plenty of queer…
is short hand for stuffing something in one’s pants or underwear to make it feel or look as though the wearer has a factory-installed dick….
Since I know some of you aren’t the type to make the first move, I’m going to be bold. Here’s a taste, a little tease,…
1. Read a fucking book Read fiction, sure—Carrie’s Story, The Marketplace series, Mr. Benson, The Leather Daddy and the Femme (these are some of my personal…
Sugarbutch turned 6 years old on Sunday, April 29th. It was in 2006 at a corporate office job I’d just started, after obsessively reading every…
Here it is! The sixth annual holiday gift guide for those of you who need some inspiration for the holidays. You’d be surprised how many…
Kyle asked: Where did ‘Sugarbutch’ come from? Is it a nickname? A term of endearment? A random word paired with ‘butch’? And, because I’m feeling…
Today is Sugarbutch’s 5th anniversary—I started this little personal online writing project five years ago, on April 29, 2006. Oh so much has changed since…
Another year is coming to a close, and aside from reflecting on my life personally, I’m reflecting on the accomplishments. I did a Year In…
The last few years, I’ve done a holiday gift guide of sorts, ideas for gifts. Last year I focused on non-gendered gifts, gifts that could…
I submitted my recent story Gabrielle, Guest Star to the elust sex blog roundup, since I write smut so infrequently these days I thought it’d…
It is always different to fuck somebody new. New skin, new lips, new way she kisses, new way she writhes, new way she comes. I…
The Butch Voices NYC Regional Conference is almost here! The conference itself is tomorrow, Saturday the 25th, with registration opening up at 9am and workshops…
Today, April 29th 2010, marks the fourth anniversary of beginning Sugarbutch! I’ve been going at this site nearly daily for four years straight, and it’s…
It’s long overdue, I know. Remember back in September, I posted something about how I’d like to fuck Kristen’s ass? Then there was a bit…
April 3rd is my birthday, I’m turning 31 tomorrow. I love being in my thirties (fuck those who-am-I finding-myself-bullshit twenties, I’m so ready to be…
Remember when I used to do monthly roundup posts? I only did the first three months of 2009, which I actually kind of miss. Perhaps…
There are some standard gendered gifts – belt buckles, cuff links, handkerchiefs, pocket or wrist watches, ties & tie accessories, makeup, perfume, jewelry, lingerie –…
As of 2/8/16 This product is no longer available at Babeland I am the biggest fan of Vixskin dildos out there. I should be president…
So, now that the trans discussion is calming down a little bit, I’m starting to get a slew of feedback about calling the *other* people…
It was three years ago today that I started Sugarbutch Chronicles, my latest in personal online writing explorations (aka “blogs”) since 1996. Since then, I’ve…
Welcome to Sugarbutch 4.0! I’ve made some changes around here in the past two months, and unless you’re a purely RSS reader who never comments, you’ve probably noticed. It’s no longer a typical blog layout with the recent posts displayed chronologically on the front page of the site – the layout is more magazine or newspaper style, with the most recent post for each of the categories displayed in different sections. Here’s a breakdown of how to navigate through the front page of Sugarbutch Chronicles 4.0.
This is my sexy eye candy. She is great at spoiling and loves to make me feel special. Who wouldn’t love to get lost in that…
Hey look! People have started tagging photos of hot butches as ‘sugarbutch’ on flickr. And by people I mean honey darling. Kind of makes you…
Today celebrates the second anniversary of the beginning of Sugarbutch Chronicles. Two years ago, I was stuck in a Lesbian Bed Death relationship and felt…
This Sugarbutch Star submission comes from Avah of Designing Intimacy. Thanks Avah! Fucking a Porn Star The girl knew how to submit. Even before Avah…
Last week, as I mentioned, Belle got two new tattoos, small ribbons tied in bows over her hip bones. I’ve been feeling particularly inspired to…
I “officially” emailed ALL of the folks who submitted Sugarbutch Star entries today. If you did not hear from me, and you did submit something,…
Soo, I’ve received a big of feedback about the header – glad y’all like it. The whole reason I created it, actually, is because I’m…
I’ve got a lot of performances coming up in the next few months in New York City. If you’d like to say hi, please do! I’ll have my spoken word CD and copies of the Sugarbutch Star Chapbook, if you’ve wanted to get your hands on those.
Anthologies Novella Series Short Stories Special Projects: Body Trust Anthologies which include my work Gender & Sexuality Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity…
This new essay is also the introduction to my new book, Sweet & Rough: Sixteen Stories of Queer Smut, available September 15th. Preorder it on…