Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith is “the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women” (AfterEllen), who “is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places” (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for the Lambda Literary Award. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and use the pronouns they, them, theirs, themself. Follow all their personal writings and all the updates through patreon.com/mrsexsmith.

72 thoughts on “The quiz is here! What kind of s-type are you?”

  1. Sophisticated submissive says:

    Hello!

    Nice test! I came here having already done the Submissive Playground quiz a long time ago – but I didn’t remember. My result was “bottom”, and it fits super well, even though I really have something for whips and darker, more dungeony bdsm gear that can get me “kinky fuck” instead.

    The thing is, I think I found a kink (yeah, yeah) in the questions. My whole bdsm tastes revolve around losing control and being disciplined, so that I obey and feel owned (it’s absolutely funishment, but often passed as genuine punishment in a scene).
    I’m not a kinky fuck (masochism is more of a consequence of my fantasies), and I don’t like having to provoke my partner to get the sadistic, dominating, merciless treatment I crave, so not a brat either. But on the test I did here, I got “brat” and I was surprised, but I think the reason for it is obvious: I picked the masochistic options and the punishment options very often, because of what I said above about my tastes. I’m not sure how the test could discriminate bratty punishment love vs self-control-relinquishing punishment love, but the results are very different. IRL, I’ve behaved like a brat sometimes because otherwise I didn’t get what I needed, but it feels very awkward to me and I don’t like having to do that. Do I actually fit as a bottom, as I suppose? Or is there actually another answer that I don’t get for other reasons?
    I hope the feedback helps, I liked it!

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