Archive for November, 2013

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?

11/27/2013  |  13 Comments

Dear Mr. Sexsmith,Have you tried the Spare Parts Tomboi Harness? I saw your review of the RodeoH and agree with... more

Coming Out Genderqueer: An Open Letter to My Family & Friends

11/26/2013  |  23 Comments

As published on Facebook, where I could tag at least 20 of 'em.Dear family & friends,Especially friends from my... more

Review: Rug Beater Paddle, independent toy maker on Etsy

Review: Rug Beater Paddle, independent toy maker on Etsy

11/22/2013  |  2 Comments

The first thing that comes to mind when I consider what to tell you about this handsome Rug Beater Paddle... more

The Great Reader Mini-Interview of 2013, Part 5: In which you recommend Stone Butch Blues & Fried Green Tomatoes, and give good advice

11/21/2013  |  2 Comments

What's your relationship with sugarbutch.net and Sinclair?What advice would you give your younger self about sex, gender, or relationships?What one... more

Video: Sinclair reads Five Blow Jobs (And oh yeah, hi)

11/21/2013  |  No Comments

Hello I'm back!I've returned from Seattle, after teaching a handful of classes and visiting friends and having a day-long... more

Protected: A poem I’ve been writing for eighteen months

11/20/2013  |  Enter your password to view comments.

The Objects I Took From My Dad's House the Week After He Died1. Black leather glasses case with a suede... more

Review: Bondage cuff and bow tie by Rand Leather

Review: Bondage cuff and bow tie by Rand Leather

11/19/2013  |  No Comments

Rand Leather (on etsy or on follow on tumblr) is a one-man-show out of Maine where Matthias Rand makes all... more

How things start to melt open

11/12/2013  |  4 Comments

After the poem "The Last Time I Slept in This Bed" by Sara PetersIf you’ve ever ripped apart your... more

Review: Love Bump, aka Shilo's Balls by New York Toy Collective

Review: Love Bump, aka Shilo’s Balls by New York Toy Collective

11/11/2013  |  1 Comment

I have long ranted and raved about Shilo, the pack and play dildo by New York Toy Collective, but I... more