1. What insight about open relationships do you wish you had when you started?
I now have less rules with my partners. Rules can’t balance out my insecurities. Instead I have become more self-confident and less controlling. If somebody is an asshole, they will be an asshole with or without rules.
2. What has been the hardest thing about opening your relationship, and how have you overcome that?
I have not opened up my relationships. They start out open and stay open. I would not do it any other way.
3. What has been the best thing about your open relationship?
I trust my partner. I don’t worry. Having no worries is very liberating.
4. Anything else you’d like to add?
There is no such thing as TMI between us. Sometimes it is tough to tell my partner things, but after it’s out in the open, it’s so much better.