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September 11, 2012 | Kristen, Rife

Tags: agreements, collect the data, coyote grace, dark odyssey, experiments, hey little girl, how we're navigating being a threesome in the same space, I'm on fire, joe stevens is on the top hot butches list (AND IDENTIFIES AS BUTCH AND A TRANS MAN), love letters to kristen, negotiations, open relationships, poly drama, summer camp, tantra principles for open relationships

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