Archive for August, 2012

Protected: Love Letter #24

08/31/2012  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Dear Kristen, As I'm sitting here staring at this blank box in which to write to you, you're doing the dishes,... more

Erotic Embodiment, Feminist Kink Workshops, Books to Read, and More New Things This Fall

08/31/2012  |  No Comments

Hello! The summer has flown by and I have barely updated this place. I have been traveling tons since March, if... more

Paws for Consideration: BDSM Mystery Scavenger Hunt Party Tomorrow in San Francisco

08/29/2012  |  2 Comments

One of my best friends, Amy Butcher, published a mystery novel this summer called Paws for Consideration. It's about a... more

The Femme Conference in Photos

08/21/2012  |  7 Comments

Kristen's Friday Femme Conference outfit Jessica Halem hosts FemmeSpeak, the spoken word night Fran Fucking Varian reads at FemmeSpeak my outfit for Saturday Kristen... more

Butch/Butch Erotica on the Girls Who Score Blog Tour

08/21/2012  |  No Comments

I've got an erotica story in a new anthology, Girls Who Score: Hot Lesbian Erotica edited by Ily Goyanes, and... more

You’re Invited to (Kinky) Summer Camp 2012

08/17/2012  |  1 Comment

So you've heard about Summer Camp, or at least, about how I met the boy there. And you heard about... more

See You At the Femme Conference

08/16/2012  |  1 Comment

So I got my hair cut at Tomcats, Kristen painted her nails with black-white-and-blue stripes and a red heart (wonder... more

Updates from BUTCH Voices: Events, Open Positions, Call for Bloggers

08/16/2012  |  No Comments

So maybe you've heard, but I've got an exciting (official) announcement: I'm on the board of BUTCH Voices working up... more

How To Unlearn Patterns

08/14/2012  |  6 Comments

I am a series of stories and stories and stories I tell myself and others secret truths and whole-hearted lies until they are more... more

Review: TranZwear Packing Undies

Review: TranZwear Packing Undies

08/11/2012  |  No Comments

TranZwear sent me three different packing undies—their most popular models—to check out: two different models of boxers, and one jock... more