Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 3: “How Can I Be More Open About Kink?”
Kristen & I answered Laura’s question on video this morning from Seattle … hopefully our colds don’t make us sound too weird.
Laura asks: “I am a kinky queer femme bottom/sub and have read your blog for a long time. The thing that strikes me most is how open you, and also Kristen, are about your explorations and your celebration of your gender and sexuality. I am only 23 but have known I was queer and a submissive since pre-adolescent years, and it feels like I will never be comfortable fully expressing myself or finding my voice except with my partners, because I still get ashamed/embarrassed about all of it sometimes, especially when I think about my family or straight and/or vanilla friends finding out. How did you overcome those feelings to be more open, if you ever had them?”comment on this
- 06/06/2014 • Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I’m a sub, but my partner is not a dom. What do I do?
- 04/18/2014 • Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I struggle with my feminist beliefs and my bedroom preferences … help!
- 03/19/2014 • Ask Mr. Sexsmith: How Do I Use My Girlfriend for My Pleasure?
- 02/03/2014 • Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning?