Archive for January, 2012

Femme Invisibility & Beyond

01/15/2012  |  15 Comments

I'm still receiving questions in the Ask Me Anything form; most of the time I am turning them into pieces... more

eLust #32 includes my story “The Pink Dress”

01/15/2012  |  No Comments

Welcome to e[lust], the sex blog round-up- The best posts from the hottest and smartest sex bloggers all in one... more

Protected: Love Letter #2

01/13/2012  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Dear Kristen,You have probably caught my cold and we are going to get pho tonight, because after years of living... more

“10 Hottest Butches of 2011″ & the End of the Butch Lab Project

01/06/2012  |  3 Comments

So this happened:Clipped from: (share this clip)What? Thank you, brand new Advocate website SheWired! I'm honored you noticed my... more

Protected: Love Letter #1

01/06/2012  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Dear Kristen,It's the end of the first week of 2012, the beginning of our fourth year together, and I'm starting... more

I Confess: Favorite Music from 2011

01/04/2012  |  10 Comments

This week, my horoscope said: "You are likely to thrive to the degree that you precisely identify and vigorously harness... more

It’s 2012, Let’s Have a Porn Party

01/03/2012  |  1 Comment

Remember how I used to throw a #pornparty on Twitter every once in a while? Let's do that again, that... more

Your Favorite Sugarbutch Star Smut Story—Vote!

01/02/2012  |  1 Comment

Once upon a time, I ran a little contest, and the "winner" got a little prize. The real point was... more

Sugarbutch Star: blckndblue, “The Pink Dress”

01/01/2012  |  8 Comments

Do y'all remember the Sugarbutch Star stories? It was a series where readers sent in a scenario and I wrote... more