Archive for January, 2012

Protected: Love Letter #4

01/27/2012  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Dear Kristen,So, it turns out that we've gotten to the point in our relationship where you laugh when I slap... more

A Hot Ride: Lovesong Playlist for Kristen

01/25/2012  |  2 Comments

So I'm one of those people that makes a lot of mixes. It used to be mixed tapes (where I'd... more

Back at Tomcats, Gotta Get a Haircut

01/25/2012  |  No Comments

Finding a new barber is always one of those daunting new city tasks, but I'm so glad I'm not going... more

Sugarbutch Star Winner: blacknblu, The Pink Dress

01/25/2012  |  1 Comment

Alright it's official, we have a winner:Congratulations, blckndblue! Thank you for the premise behind the story The Pink Dress. Over... more

Protected: Love Letter #3

01/20/2012  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Dear Kristen,I miss you while you're at work. Some weeks, by Friday afternoons, I want to ride the train all... more

Femme Conference Call for Workshops + Bay Area Event Tonight

01/20/2012  |  2 Comments

Now's the time to start saving to attend the Femme Conference in Baltimore in August, to start thinking about what... more

LSM = Awesome BDSM Education for Women & Trans Folks in NYC

01/19/2012  |  No Comments

I'm on the board of the Lesbian Sex Mafia these days as programming co-chair. It's been really fun to bring... more

Which Side Are You On? (The New Ani Difranco Album)

01/18/2012  |  13 Comments

I'm pretty excited about this album. I caught the preview when it was up at and it came out... more

Open Thread: Empowering Femme Sources Needed

01/17/2012  |  12 Comments

Here's another question from the Ask Me Anything inbox, and I hope y'all might be able to help me out.... more

Free Alpha Femmes #pornparty Tomorrow! And You’re Invited

01/15/2012  |  5 Comments

Y'all didn't forget about the #pornparty tomorrow, did you?All of you folks who are going, "I WISH!" right now, well—you... more