Archive for September, 2011

Ask Me Anything! No Really

09/28/2011  |  No Comments

I'm starting to write a new column on SexIs Magazine, this time it's an advice column called Mr. Sexsmith Says.... more

So Then There Was That Time I Left My Dick In the Laundry …

09/22/2011  |  15 Comments

Folks who live outside of New York City, you might not quite understand this one, but here in this ridiculous... more

The Boy at Summer Camp

09/21/2011  |  22 Comments

It started with an email with the subject line "butch at your service," and an offer for a blow job.... more

The “Bring Down the Chandeliers” Winner

09/20/2011  |  1 Comment

... is #23, Sabina! I'll contact you individually to follow up.Hope you all get a chance to see... more

Sex Positive Photography Photoshoot, aka I’m On A (House)Boat

09/19/2011  |  5 Comments

When I visited the Bay Area in the end of August I met up with Shilo McCabe, the photographer who... more

On Cheryl’s Birthday, Femme Earrings, and Social Media

09/19/2011  |  2 Comments

I've returned from Dark Odyssey's Summer Camp, which was phenomenal and I have so much to say about it, like... more

Ask Me Anything: What to Wear to a BDSM Weekend?

09/14/2011  |  1 Comment

Via email, Katy asks:I will be going to my first BDSM convention next weekend ... I have a question.... more

Thanks, Tomcats. I needed that haircut

09/13/2011  |  4 Comments

Gotta look snappy for Dark Odyssey! I thought I was going to head down to Baltimore tonight for that workshop... more

Review: Sheets by Vice Merchants

09/13/2011  |  2 Comments

Check out the Poppy Playground 400 thread count, 100% cotton sheets by Vice Merchants. They're airy, pretty, floral linens (also... more

Hey You! Want To Bring Me To Your Town?

09/13/2011  |  10 Comments

Dear friends & fans & folks who just happened across this website and have no idea who I am:As I... more