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  1. Zephyr
    Thursday, August 4, 2011

    Well, as someone who both gives and receives blow jobs I have to say that remembering the *visuals* are one of the hottest parts help me feel like I’m giving a good blowjob. Making eye contact, using my tongue all over, letting my face show how much I’m enjoying this … all of these help to make the experience awesome.

    If one has experience sucking biocock, it can be useful to remember that you can be a lot rougher with a strapon than most biococks enjoy. Of course, you can also tear silicone with your teeth (not recommended!) but I’ve found that gently grasping the cock with my mouth and using that to push against my partner’s body can be hot and give them a stronger physical connection that just running my mouth over their cock. A bit of humming can help transmit vibrations as well, though I always feel pretty silly doing that.

    Also, when you’re sucking cock, making occasional noises – growls, squeaks, moans, whatever suits you – can heighten the experience for yourself *and* your partner. When someone’s going down on me I like knowing that they’re having a good time, and I’ve found that making noises myself helps to raise my own arousal level.

    Also, I think remembering how awesomely overwhelmed I get when someone’s giving me a blowjob helps decrease my “I feel stupid” tendencies when I’m on the other end. If your partner’s anything like me, the “omg, my strapon’s getting sucked!” totally obliterates any ability to notice silly stuff like facial expressions or whatever.

  2. August
    Thursday, August 4, 2011

    I’d say both Kristen and Zephyr’s words are right-on. I’d also add that if there’s a clit at the base of the strap you can use your hand to push the dildo/ harness back onto it for added stimulation.

    And to reiterate what Kristen said, believe it. Don’t get it stuck in your head that your partner can’t feel it because they can. Maybe not in the same way as a bio cock would feel it, but no two bodies experience sex the same way anyway.

  3. Kristen
    Thursday, August 4, 2011

    Also! You can watch good queer porn that is NOT crappy and free, that you pay for, because you care about there being MORE good queer porn and you want to give queer performers money, if you want to see what it looks like. See previous post (ahem) for a good place to start. :-P

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