Archive for May, 2011

Ask Me Anything: Queer Despite the Straight Relationship

05/31/2011  |  6 Comments

rhapsodyblue asked: I’m a FAAB genderqueer pansexual in a long-term monogamous relationship with a straight cissexual guy. I adore him, he... more

Ask Me Anything: How Not To Slip Out When Strapped On

05/24/2011  |  3 Comments

MSE asked: Like Tuesday, I also have a question about strap-on sex. Whenever my girl and I use a strap-on, the... more

Second Annual Butch/Femme Pride Sideshow! June 14th

05/23/2011  |  No Comments

Join us at Sideshow on June 14th for our second PRIDE month celebration of butch and femme. Readers include... more

Ask Me Anything: Strap-On Positions When Someone is Taller

05/23/2011  |  4 Comments

Tuesday asked: What’s your advice on positions that work for strap-on sex between people of very different heights? especially taller... more

Happy 28th Birthday, Kristen!

05/20/2011  |  2 Comments

It's Kristen's 28th birthday tomorrow! I am as ever grateful for her in my life. I've never been so in... more

Mini Interview: Jiz Lee

Mini Interview: Jiz Lee

05/18/2011  |  No Comments

"My butch is generally easy-going, and brings me closest to my casual, gender-neutral life-style. Dress-up occasions tend to bring out the more flamboyant parts of myself, depending on the context, my butch helps me stand apart and express genderqueer visibility."more

Babeland’s New Gender Expression Category

05/18/2011  |  3 Comments

Babeland has launched a Gender Expression category! Which includes products for packing, dildos for strapping on, harnesses, accessories like chest... more

Returning from the Power, Surrender, and Intimacy Retreat

05/18/2011  |  3 Comments

I've returned from retreat, a three-day workshop at Easton Mountain called Power, Surrender, and Intimacy (PSI) through the erotic energy... more

Ask Me Anything: Confidence & Getting Girls Off

05/10/2011  |  7 Comments

Babybutch wrote: My girlfriend totally knows how to get me off, but I’m nervous that I’m not doing enough for her... more

Biggest Sideshow Yet! Genderqueer Tantra! So Much To Do

05/09/2011  |  2 Comments

This month's Sideshow: Queer Literary Carnival is the biggest yet! We have three poets, three comics, three guest judges, one... more