Elisha Lim: Mini-Interview

December 20, 2010  |  on butches

Elisha Lim, artist. newhearteveryday.blogspot.com

1. What is your relationship with the word or identity “butch?”

I’m a gay butch, I’m attracted to other butches. That seems to immediately abandon a lot of butch stereotypes. Domineering, possessing or even providing for a feminine person doesn’t profit me, and I hope I can always confront any accompanying butch sexism, in myself and my surroundings. I’m a proudly feminist butch.

2. What kind of words and labels, if any, do you use to identify yourself?

I’m queer, I’m trans, I’m a they, I’m a s/he, I’m easily confused, but one thing’s for sure, I’m always thrilled when you call me handsome. In other words butch forever.

3. What do you wish you could tell your younger self about sex, sexuality, or gender

Oh man, this question can bring tears to my eyes. You never needed to be a girl! You’re something else, and it’s okay, and it’s natural, and it’s as old and real and sure and plain as the birds and bees.

Bonus: Anything to add?

I’m working on 100 Butches, 100 Femmes (with Leah Lakshmi) and a wall calendar called The Illustrated Gentleman.

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2 Comments


  1. I’m really enjoying this series and the idea of being able to go back and speak to our younger selves is a pretty powerful notion.

  2. i wish a second response to ‘what do you wish you could tell your younger self’ could be ‘hey, there’s this girl lexy, and you should probably go find her.’ just sayin.

    i’m also always thrilled when i’m called handsome. this mini-interview warms my heart as it sounds just like me. thanks for that.

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