Archive for December, 2010

Fantasy: Titillating and Taboo Workshop at the Lesbian Sex Mafia

12/31/2010  |  3 Comments

I've been helping out with some of the programming for the Lesbian Sex Mafia based here in New York City,... more

Year In Review On Sugarbutch: 2010

12/30/2010  |  2 Comments

Another year is coming to a close, and aside from reflecting on my life personally, I'm reflecting on the accomplishments.... more

January’s Leave of Absence

12/27/2010  |  4 Comments

You know how sometimes, something happens, like an explosion, an emotional evening where you end up yelling and crying and... more

Femmes Needed for PhD Study

12/26/2010  |  No Comments

UPDATE: Matt has more than enough interviews for his study, thank you for helping! -- Why hello femmes, I have a request: One... more

Kelli Dunham: Mini-Interview

12/21/2010  |  2 Comments

"I don't have to fix cars or even be tough. I'm not tough, I cry at dog food commercials, I cry on the subway. I like that part of myself, and I'm glad as I've gotten older that I've been able to move away from needing to pretend to be the strong and silent type (which I ain't) in order to be butch."more

Elisha Lim: Mini-Interview

12/20/2010  |  2 Comments

"I'm a gay butch, I'm attracted to other butches. That seems to immediately abandon a lot of butch stereotypes. Domineering, possessing or even providing for a feminine person doesn't profit me, and I hope I can always confront any accompanying butch sexism, in myself and my surroundings. I'm a proudly feminist butch."more

A Queer, Divine Dissatisfaction

12/20/2010  |  12 Comments

You do not even have to believe in yourself or your work. You have to keep open and aware directly... more

Lesbian BDSM Erotica Anthology: Submissions Due January 1st

12/20/2010  |  No Comments

Reminder! I'm editing my very first anthology for Cleis Press of lesbian BDSM erotica to be published in fall 2011,... more

John Gagon: Butch Mini-Interview

12/18/2010  |  No Comments

"Butch also has a ballsy feel and while not necessarily rough and tough, it can be and it can be prone to a little anger. It's adventurous and playful, not overly ticklish. Can be emotionally sensitive but not too physically sensitve."more

Kestryl Cael Lowery: Butch Mini-Interview

12/17/2010  |  1 Comment

"I didn't learn what 'butch' was until I had been out for several years. It was the same summer I got my first motorcycle jacket, and a lover asked if I had read 'Stone Butch Blues.' "more