Archive for October, 2010

Ask Me Anything: Being Recognized & Dreaming About Sex

10/08/2010  |  2 Comments

Here's the last of the questions from the Ask Me Anything post on Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary! Thanks, everybody, for the... more

Ask Me Anything: Coming Out at Work

10/07/2010  |  9 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary:I’m completely femme and work in a very straight environment. A... more

Here is a story / to break your heart.

10/06/2010  |  3 Comments

I'm still working on more essays and ideas and thoughts in response to the recent gay suicides. My weekly column... more

Ask Me Anything: Becoming More Dominant

10/06/2010  |  6 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary:What are some tools/techniques that help someone to “try on” a... more

Ask Me Anything: Standards of Beauty

10/05/2010  |  26 Comments

While I was on the plane to Portland for Butch Voices this past weekend, I dug through my files and... more

Friday Reads: Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch/Femme Erotica

10/01/2010  |  1 Comment

In keeping with the tradition I started this summer, featuring a butch or femme book on Fridays to countdown to... more

The Bullying Continues: Responses and News

10/01/2010  |  3 Comments

I'm working on a longer essay about the recent teen gay suicides but meanwhile, here's some more headlines and information... more