Archive for March, 2010

Oh, Hi

03/17/2010  |  3 Comments

I tossed up a couple things yesterday without really giving a proper hello on my return from SXSW and Austin,... more

Spanking 101

03/16/2010  |  6 Comments

Someone emailed me recently with a question about starting to play with spanking, and after looking around online for a... more

Lambda Literary Nominees Featuring “This One’s Going to Last Forever”

03/16/2010  |  1 Comment

The Lambda Literary Award nominees were announced today, and as usual I'm making a checklist of ones I've read, ones... more

Countdown to SXSW: Tomorrow!

03/12/2010  |  4 Comments

I've been so damn busy this week, I haven't even had time to post about this weekend's exciting festivities! Kristen... more

Radical Masculinity: Reinventing Our Icons

03/12/2010  |  No Comments

“Have you seen the Dockers ads?” someone asked me recently at a conference, after I told them I write about... more

Review: The Njoy Fun Wand

03/12/2010  |  3 Comments

Let's have a review, shall we? I'm way behind on product reviews, I have a list and it kinda just... more

How Do I Let Go of a Past Hurt?

03/11/2010  |  17 Comments

After some strong realizations about what really is the strength and foundation of my relationship with Kristen, I've been thinking... more

Desperation & Dominance

03/05/2010  |  16 Comments

"Want to know what I was thinking about when I got off yesterday?" she asks. We're lying in bed, tangled... more

And the Lezzy Goes To …

03/05/2010  |  3 Comments

The 2009 Lezzy Awards are over, and you all voted Sugarbutch as the Best Sex/Short Story/Erotica site for the second... more

Love Letter #4 (Growing Pains)

03/02/2010  |  11 Comments

"Relationships take work," they say. But as someone who now knows I spent way too long in failed or failing... more