Comments on: Lesbian Sex Mafia Workshop! Gendering Power 2/19 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2010/02/lesbian-sex-mafia-workshop-gendering-power-219/ The sex, gender, and relationship adventures of a kinky queer butch top Thu, 09 Feb 2012 16:09:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: DK Leather http://www.sugarbutch.net/2010/02/lesbian-sex-mafia-workshop-gendering-power-219/comment-page-1/#comment-10731 DK Leather Sun, 07 Feb 2010 23:42:25 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=4341#comment-10731 you know, there are times I really resent not being in New York. lol ~doffs cap~ DK (you'll know me from the other one, dk-leather.blogspot.com, but I've migrated the adult stuff to the new url) you know, there are times I really resent not being in New York. lol

~doffs cap~

DK (you'll know me from the other one, dk-leather.blogspot.com, but I've migrated the adult stuff to the new url)

]]> By: Kate http://www.sugarbutch.net/2010/02/lesbian-sex-mafia-workshop-gendering-power-219/comment-page-1/#comment-10725 Kate Sun, 07 Feb 2010 14:52:23 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=4341#comment-10725 Can you elaborate a little? I got an email about this and found it baffling. Nearly every power dynamic has gender dynamic built in because pretty much everyone has a gender. Are we talking secretary-and-the-macho-boss style power play? Or, like, "Hey, I have noticed recently that you have a penis/some reasonable facsimile and I would like to humiliate you because it is small/does not satisfy me"? The phrase "spice up" makes me feel like we're talking costumes and Redbook magazine, but for dykes? Also, WTF is a "deep inner personal gender identity"? Like, Arrested Development's "The Man Inside Me"? Does every man have an inner woman? Can you elaborate a little? I got an email about this and found it baffling. Nearly every power dynamic has gender dynamic built in because pretty much everyone has a gender. Are we talking secretary-and-the-macho-boss style power play? Or, like, "Hey, I have noticed recently that you have a penis/some reasonable facsimile and I would like to humiliate you because it is small/does not satisfy me"? The phrase "spice up" makes me feel like we're talking costumes and Redbook magazine, but for dykes?

Also, WTF is a "deep inner personal gender identity"? Like, Arrested Development's "The Man Inside Me"? Does every man have an inner woman?

]]> By: Amanda http://www.sugarbutch.net/2010/02/lesbian-sex-mafia-workshop-gendering-power-219/comment-page-1/#comment-10709 Amanda Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:53:48 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=4341#comment-10709 LOADS of fun. trust me i've done it. try it LOADS of fun. trust me i've done it. try it

]]> By: Doodle http://www.sugarbutch.net/2010/02/lesbian-sex-mafia-workshop-gendering-power-219/comment-page-1/#comment-10707 Doodle Fri, 05 Feb 2010 14:20:39 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=4341#comment-10707 Damn. This looks like it would be awesome. Too bad I'm in Europe, huh? Damn. This looks like it would be awesome. Too bad I'm in Europe, huh?

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