Archive for February, 2010

Lezzy Finalist! Vote Daily Until March 2nd!

02/24/2010  |  6 Comments

Whoa! I'm a finalist for the 2009 Lezzy Awards in both the Best Lesbian Sex/Short Story/Erotica Blog & The Lezzy... more

SXSW and Austin Bound in March: Update

02/24/2010  |  1 Comment

I'm still heading down to Austin and will be there for a few short days, March 13-15 (with Kristen!). Thanks... more

Lesbian Sex Mafia Workshop: Revised (this Friday!)

02/15/2010  |  2 Comments

I already mentioned that I'll be doing a workshop at the Lesbian Sex Mafia this Friday, but I've got a... more

Consent Obsession

02/15/2010  |  6 Comments

I'm realizing that I'm a little bit obsessed with consent, in perhaps a way that is too much. I mean,... more

Bulldyke Chronicles, Saturday 2/20/10 in NYC

02/15/2010  |  1 Comment

Thanks to Kelli Dunham (who is currently in Haiti being all awesome and saving the world and stuff) and Phin... more

Nominate Sugarbutch for a 2009 Lezzy Award!

02/15/2010  |  5 Comments

I was so flattered to win the Best Gender Bender Blog and Best Lesbian Sex/Short Story/Erotica Blog categories in the... more

My Hands Are My Heart (Valentine’s Day)

02/12/2010  |  13 Comments

So ... what are you doing for Valentine's Day this Sunday? "My Hands Are My Heart," Gabriel Orozco, 1991 Remember what... more

Word of the Day: Antevasin

02/12/2010  |  No Comments

I'm not one who tends to read bestsellers. In fact, when I do pick up—and like—a bestseller such that I... more

“On Dichotomies that (No Longer) Jail Me” and More From KinkForAll Providence

02/09/2010  |  1 Comment

I really admire & adore Maymay. He is one of the big minds behind both KinkForAll, which is an "unconference"... more

Masculinity Icons: Happy Birthday, James Dean

02/08/2010  |  11 Comments

Today, February 8th, James Dean was born in 1931. I'm working on a piece for Radical Masculinity about masculinity icons, particularly... more