Whoa! I’m a finalist for the 2009 Lezzy Awards in both the Best Lesbian Sex/Short Story/Erotica Blog & The Lezzy Lifetime Achievement Award categories! Thanks so much for the finalist nominations, everyone who voted! Voting runs from February 22nd at 12:00 pm EDT to 12:00 am EDT March 2nd. I’m listed up with some freakin’ [...]
Posts from ‘February, 2010’
SXSW and Austin Bound in March: Update
I’m still heading down to Austin and will be there for a few short days, March 13-15 (with Kristen!). Thanks for all the fantastic suggestions for where to EAT while we’re there—I know we’ll be exploring many of those places. So! I’ll be on a panel on Saturday, the 13th, called Engaging the Queer Community, [...]
Lesbian Sex Mafia Workshop: Revised (this Friday!)
I already mentioned that I’ll be doing a workshop at the Lesbian Sex Mafia this Friday, but I’ve got a revised workshop description, so I’m reposting it here. If you’d like to RSVP for the event via Facebook, please do. LSM Presents: Gendering Power: How to Spice Up Your Role Play with Sinclair Sexsmith Where: [...]
Bulldyke Chronicles, Saturday 2/20/10 in NYC
Thanks to Kelli Dunham (who is currently in Haiti being all awesome and saving the world and stuff) and Phin Li Bookings (who has a new website, have you seen it?), I’m going to be appearing in Shelly Mars’ new venture Bulldyke Chronicles at Dixon Place in New York City this coming Saturday night, February [...]
Nominate Sugarbutch for a 2009 Lezzy Award!
I was so flattered to win the Best Gender Bender Blog and Best Lesbian Sex/Short Story/Erotica Blog categories in the Lezzy Awards, run by the Lesbian Lifestyle, last year. Help me defend my title, will ya? Nominate me again! Nominations will last from February 15-22 at 12:00 am EDT. The top 3 nominated blogs will [...]
My Hands Are My Heart (Valentine’s Day)
So … what are you doing for Valentine’s Day this Sunday? “My Hands Are My Heart,” Gabriel Orozco, 1991 Remember what Kristen and I did last year? I planned a little surprise trip up to a winery, which was lovely. This year, though, I’m broke and Kristen doesn’t like spending money, so we’re taking swing [...]
“On Dichotomies that (No Longer) Jail Me” and More From KinkForAll Providence
I really admire & adore Maymay. He is one of the big minds behind both KinkForAll, which is an “unconference” of folks coming together to skill-share and discuss topics relating to kink and bdsm, and also Kink on Tap, which is a weekly internet video show where participants and special guests discuss the week in [...]
Introducing: Mr. Sexsmith’s Other Girlfriend
I’m starting a second column, writing weekly for Eden Fantasys web magazine Sex Is called Mr. Sexsmith’s Other Girlfriend, focused on New York City. Mr. Sexsmith’s Other Girlfriend: A small-town Alaskan butch navigates queers, sex, and kink in her ongoing love affair with The Big Apple, a.k.a. The Naked City, New York. … Everyone knows [...]
