Archive for December, 2009

How to Wear Red Lipstick, from How to Sew A Button Author Erin Bried

12/17/2009  |  3 Comments

I was lucky enough to catch the book release party for Erin Bried's new book How to Sew A Button... more

Protected: Kristen’s Homework

12/14/2009  |  Enter your password to view comments.

For a while now, I've been giving Kristen homework assignments. Usually they are weekly, just so they are fairly short... more

Year One With Kristen (Happy Anniversary)

12/13/2009  |  13 Comments

Today, December 13th, marks the anniversary of my first date with Kristen. I didn't actually tell the story of how... more

The Dirtiest Kristen Stories

12/13/2009  |  1 Comment

Today is my one year anniversary of dating Kristen. There's another post coming shortly about our year together, but while... more

An Emasculating Truth

12/11/2009  |  3 Comments

Update: This documentary is part of the recent ad campaign by Dockers about masculinity. I tweeted about these ads recently,... more

Kiss & Tell on Tuesday, Dec 15 in NYC

12/10/2009  |  No Comments

I'll be reading at Abiola Abrams's new series Kiss & Tell here in New York City on Tuesday, December 15th... more

The Sugarbutch 2009 Holiday Gift Guide

12/09/2009  |  17 Comments

There are some standard gendered gifts - belt buckles, cuff links, handkerchiefs, pocket or wrist watches, ties & tie accessories,... more

My Favorite Scenes in Porn Flicks

12/08/2009  |  5 Comments

After I mentioned my favorite porn scene of all time in the Strap On Motel review the other day (which... more

Review: Black Cat G (Harness)

Review: Black Cat G (Harness)

12/08/2009  |  3 Comments

Are you getting sick of harness reviews yet? I hope not, because I still haven't found The Perfect Harness (which... more

Visions of Sexual Freedom

12/07/2009  |  10 Comments

Need a fabulous gift this holiday season? Don't know what to get your (least) favorite boss or your Grandma? Well!... more