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- “Evolution Has Nothing to Do With It,” Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman picked up by the Stranger’s Slog Friday, January 11, 2013
- “What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse?” Advice on What They Are Asking Tuesday, December 4, 2012
- The Three Minute Game on Good Vibes Magazine Wednesday, November 7, 2012
- Dirty Filthy Nasty on Good Vibes Magazine Thursday, November 1, 2012
- “How do I share my porn preferences with my long time girlfriend?” Video on What They Are Asking Wednesday, October 17, 2012
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- Butt Virginity Thursday, May 16, 2013
- You can’t wear that in a dungeon Thursday, May 16, 2013
- Fail Safe: Debbie Millman’s Advice on Courage and the Creative Life Thursday, May 16, 2013
- Countering Racism & Oppression in Holistic Healing Thursday, May 16, 2013
- Got A Minute? Tuesday, May 14, 2013
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Welcome back from wherever you went for the holidays. If you’ve got a minute, read the holiday comments on the Crash Pad Series giveaway post, because they are full of details about what queers (especially) go through in dealing with our sometimes very un-understanding families. They’re comforting, actually, in knowing you’re not alone in dealing with some of the hardships of marginalization.