Archive for December, 2009

Radical Masculinity #3: When Men Wear Skirts

12/31/2009  |  7 Comments

... is up at Carnal Nation! A little taste of what I discuss: One of my basic tenets of gender is the... more

Protected: Kristen’s Homework: At the End of the Year

12/29/2009  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Kristen has returned from spending a long five days with her family, and while I did my best to make... more

And the Crash Pad Membership Goes To …

12/29/2009  |  No Comments

Oops! Sorry about that, I am just now getting the winner chosen for the Crash Pad Series Giveaway. The winner... more

e[lust] #4: Reconciling Butch Top + Feminist in the Top Three!

12/29/2009  |  No Comments

Thanks to the lovely judges over at e[lust], my post Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top is featured... more

Yes, No, and Consent

12/28/2009  |  10 Comments

In much of the workshops and trainings around sexuality and sexual expression that I have attended, we have often started... more

Review: Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage (DVD)

12/26/2009  |  3 Comments

Midori's Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage DVD is directed by Tristan Taormino and written & hosted by sex expert and... more

Crab Tie (Review: Red Bondage Rope)

12/24/2009  |  4 Comments

Kristen, tied with the crab tie from Chanta Rose's book Bondage for Sex. The red bondage rope was sent to me... more

Happy Solstice Crash Pad Series Membership Giveaway

12/23/2009  |  71 Comments

Though I did grow up celebrating Christmas, my family is not particularly religious. I've been to Christian church services probably... more

Protected: Kristen’s Homework: Holiday Version

12/22/2009  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Well, it's Tuesday, which means I'm already one day late to update you on Kristen's weekly homework. First off, last week's... more

Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top

12/18/2009  |  16 Comments

I received quite a few questions about my recent post, Kristen's Homework, especially around how the power imbalance asymmetric balance... more