Archive for November, 2009

On Femme Invisibility

11/23/2009  |  43 Comments

G at "Can I Help You, Sir?" asked about femme invisibility recently, and the topic has gone around the gender/queer... more

Want to write some smut with me?

11/17/2009  |  5 Comments

This just in! Stop the presses! Last minute announcement of how to stalk me this week ... As if I... more

Scarleteen: Help Lift Sex Ed to a Higher Plane

11/17/2009  |  1 Comment

I've written about the sex education network Scarleteen before, calling for support and donations to help keep this invaluable resource... more

Review: Buck

Review: Buck

11/14/2009  |  5 Comments

Oh, Vixskin. (Sigh & swoon.) I often get questions about which cocks I recommend, and I always say Vixen Creation's line... more

Review: The Big Cock

11/12/2009  |  4 Comments

I don't know if this sucker has another name. I've just been calling it The Big Cock. Because, well:   You... more

Fucking & Making Love

11/11/2009  |  11 Comments

She looked so damn hot yesterday. I don't know what it was exactly. She was in an outfit I've seen, tight... more

Radical Masculinity: How to Make Masculinity Stop Hurting

11/11/2009  |  No Comments

It's up! My second Radical Masculinity column for Carnal Nation is titled How to Make Masculinity Stop Hurting. Here's the beginning:... more

Truer: Sophia Wallace’s work in NYC

11/11/2009  |  2 Comments

Sophia Wallace, one of my favorite photographers, has a collection called Truer: An Autobiographical Love Story, which has been included... more

Fucking in Public in Liberator Lingerie

11/09/2009  |  13 Comments

Kristen and I dispute how many times we've been to the particular play party that we attended on Halloween. I... more

Review: Seven Minutes in Heaven (DVD)

11/02/2009  |  2 Comments

On Friday, Kristen and I sat down to watch No Fauxxx's latest DVD from Reel Queer Productions, Seven Minutes in... more