Archive for September, 2009

“Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity

09/17/2009  |  12 Comments

Back in April, for Sugarbutch's third anniversary, I offered up an "ask me anything" thread where readers could ask any... more

“I feel kind of … honored.”

09/16/2009  |  7 Comments

All the episodes of the 1994 short-lived one-season series My So-Called Life are on Hulu.com, and I spent the last... more

Free Copy of Ivan Coyote’s book Loose End

09/15/2009  |  10 Comments

Ivan E. Coyote, Top Hot Butches Number Six and amazing storyteller, writer, and performer, has a new book out... more

Definitions of Butch & Femme

09/11/2009  |  22 Comments

Way back in April, for Sugarbutch's third anniversary, I offered up an "ask me anything" thread where readers could ask... more

Review: Lonestar

09/08/2009  |  1 Comment

I am the biggest fan of Vixskin dildos out there. I should be president of the Vixskin Fan Club. I... more

Guy Named Joe

09/04/2009  |  6 Comments

Because that piece I published earlier this week broke through some things, I'm apparently posting like crazy. So here's a... more

Cocks & Harnesses Recommendations

Cocks & Harnesses Recommendations

09/04/2009  |  3 Comments

This arrived in my inbox recently: Dear Sinclair, I'm transgendered so when I strap although some of the cocks are tempting to... more

On Getting Girls Off

09/03/2009  |  15 Comments

There’s something I want to clear up, especially for those folks who have only been reading Sugarbutch for the last... more

Queer Books Saved My Life

09/02/2009  |  3 Comments

I have a new piece on Carnal Nation called Queer Books Saved My Life. An excerpt: I have always been a... more

Masturbation is Great! (Review: Off With Your Head Hitachi attachment)

09/02/2009  |  5 Comments

You know what sucks? Not getting off. And I really didn’t realize how often I did (ahem, just about daily)... more