Comments on: How To Begin Playing with BDSM

By: body loving blog-o-sphere 08.02.09

body loving blog-o-sphere 08.02.09 — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 17:55:10 +0000

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By: alphafemme

alphafemme — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 18:11:49 +0000

thanks so much for the tips, sinclair, and others! I will definitely check out the exiles, and I’ve already gone ahead and ordered the topping book and the bottoming book. I think reading’s a great place to start. and definitely some light bondage is in order.

it’s like a whole world is opening up…

By: Birdie

Birdie — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 15:10:05 +0000

Here is a general calendar of kinky events and workshops in the Bay Area http://soj.org/calendar/

And The looking Glass in Oakland has monthly workshops and women’s parties. Ask to get put on their mailing list to get updates http://www.myspace.com/thelookingglassdungeon

By: Lolita Wolf

Lolita Wolf — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 06:03:06 +0000

The femme top beat me to it, so I will second her in saying the place for women who want to find out more about BDSM and meet other women in San Francisco is definitely The Exiles!

By: Laura

Laura — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:51:01 +0000

Thanks for answering a question I was too chickenshit to ask. This advice ought to get me started.

By: gingerbeer

gingerbeer — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 04:53:08 +0000

In addition to Good Vibes, another good local resource for classes is The Citadel: http://www.sfcitadel.org. They have classes on a range of kink/BDSM topics, as well as discussion groups. The Center for Sex and Culture (http://www.centerforsexandculture.com/) has classes, too, on a broader range of topics than just kink.

Enjoy!

By: the femme top

the femme top — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 02:15:15 +0000

Hey Alphafemme, you may want to check out some of the Exiles’ programs: http://www.theexiles.org/

They are a SF women on women bdsm group that often runs programs catering to beginners and women curious about kink.

By: Sexual Buzz

Sexual Buzz — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 19:10:17 +0000

Thanks a lot for this article. I really enjoyed it. I had lots of more adventurous friends who did all this stuff but for a long time I had no personal experience. Thus I once I finally got into a relationship where I wanted to experiment with BDSM I had all the ‘book smarts’ so to speak from what I had learned from my friends but neither me nor my boyfriend had any real experience with it. I t was tough because I wanted him to just take control but it took a little work with both of us in order to feel comfortable with it. Also just wanted to let you know, I officially added you to my blogs I read list!

By: occupying power « Alphafemme

occupying power « Alphafemme — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 17:40:29 +0000

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By: Laroo

Laroo — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 17:02:50 +0000

I just found your blog and find it so intriguing. I am almost certain I need BDSM in my life. I’m married and we have a pretty great sex life. He ties me up to the bed, spanks me, put clamps on my nipples, etc. I just so get off on the roughness and teasing. I would like it to be more mental and more pain. I want to go deeper into it. I don’t know to talk about it with him. Because if he knows I like it, wouldn’t he push some of the pleasures further. It’s been pretty much the same type of acts. Would love to introduce more.