Archive for July, 2009

Sugarbutch Star: Green-Eyed Girl

07/31/2009  |  11 Comments

Here is number 4 of 5 of the 2008 Sugarbutch Star stories! In case you need a reminder of the... more

How To Begin Playing with BDSM

07/30/2009  |  9 Comments

Recently, this came into my inbox: I'm in a relationship now with a wonderful person and I'm really intrigued and turned... more

Keeping a Leather Harness Clean

07/28/2009  |  18 Comments

I recently got a new harness, the Commando by Aslan Leather, which has quickly become my new favorite (full... more

Kristen & A Spreader Bar

07/27/2009  |  8 Comments

Kristen, featured here with the spreader bar, Liberator Throe, leather ankle cuffs, and Spartacus leather paddle. You can’t see it... more


07/24/2009  |  16 Comments

this is how I want you:slow. deliberate. measured. languorous. torpid bordering on excruciating, with kisses that keep you counting the millimeters between our... more

Review: Liberator Throe, “a moisture-proof playscape for sex”

07/21/2009  |  5 Comments

I’ve seen the Liberator Throe on various sex blogs in the last year or so, and it’s intriguing, but I... more

KinkForAll2 in New York City!

07/16/2009  |  1 Comment

KinkForAll2 is coming to New York City!In just a few short weeks, there will be a reprise of the... more

A Butch Roadmap

07/16/2009  |  8 Comments

Ivan Coyote (#6 in the Top Hot Butches list), has just released a piece on his column for called... more

I’m On Vacation – See You Next Week!

07/07/2009  |  7 Comments

(Photo reprinted without permission from A. Clauset)I'll be on vacation for the next five days.I'm heading to a tantra workshop... more

“Can I come? Please?”

07/07/2009  |  5 Comments

Kristen gets off easily. When we were discussing it last night, she said there's a point after we've been fucking... more