Archive for June, 2009


06/16/2009  |  7 Comments

These are some of the moments I remember, some of the flashes of motion that still play in my mind.Her... more

Two podcast interviews: sex, sex, and more sex

06/15/2009  |  1 Comment

I'm still behind on, well, everything, so this is just links for now, no commentary. I had fun recording these... more

Grip: boy toy winner!

06/15/2009  |  1 Comment

Thanks to the random integer generator at, comment #8 has been chosen as the winner of the Grip, and... more

Giveaway: the Grip boy toy

06/11/2009  |  13 Comments

I know there's been a lack of long, smutty, or gender posts lately - I've got some deadlines and some... more

Winners! FYN cases giveaway

06/08/2009  |  1 Comment

In addition to four small condom cases and one foot long, I also have two five-inchers. Here are the winners,... more

Vote for the lesbian film “Pariah”

06/07/2009  |  4 Comments

I just saw the trailer for the film Pariah, which looks amazing. It's part of the Netflix Find Your Voice... more

Review: the Famous Fleshlight

06/03/2009  |  3 Comments

This episode of fucking with gender is brought to you by Babeland, one of the most fabulous feminist, woman-friendly, gender-friendly,... more

Label me, Genderstats

06/03/2009  |  18 Comments

Hello My name... more

For Your Nymphomation sex toy cases giveaway

06/02/2009  |  44 Comments

For Your Nymphomation makes "private storage for your pleasurables," faux leather cases with water-resistant nylon lining, which is easily wiped... more

Reading on Monday 6/8 in NYC – Carol’s in town!

06/02/2009  |  No Comments

I'll be doing a reading - by which I mean, I'll be reading, in person, some smut that I wrote... more