Comments on: A few finer points of the Top Hot Butches list http://www.sugarbutch.net/2009/06/a-few-finer-points-of-the-top-hot-butches-list/ The sex, gender, and relationship adventures of a kinky queer butch top Thu, 09 Feb 2012 16:09:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Crezman http://www.sugarbutch.net/2009/06/a-few-finer-points-of-the-top-hot-butches-list/comment-page-1/#comment-8184 Crezman Fri, 03 Jul 2009 01:53:34 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=3472#comment-8184 You missed a couple. You missed a couple.

]]> By: afroTitty http://www.sugarbutch.net/2009/06/a-few-finer-points-of-the-top-hot-butches-list/comment-page-1/#comment-8079 afroTitty Thu, 25 Jun 2009 19:08:26 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=3472#comment-8079 It would be fierce if you showed a teensy bit of compassion for the victims of Kael Block's violence. Its obvious that you are removing him just to save your reputation, but I guess that I expected more than that, as you are a self proclaimed feminist writer. The reason that this is all “he-said-she-said,” is because we live in a rape culture where his victims will probably never get the justice they deserve especially not within our "criminal justice" system. <em>[ You're right, that write-up did come across like that. There are so many problems with the blame-the-victim rape culture, I absolutely agree, and my write-up was not necessarily respectful. His removal was not only to 'save my reputation' but to say that that is clearly something wrong, and not hot. - ss ]</em> It would be fierce if you showed a teensy bit of compassion for the victims of Kael Block's violence. Its obvious that you are removing him just to save your reputation, but I guess that I expected more than that, as you are a self proclaimed feminist writer.

The reason that this is all “he-said-she-said,” is because we live in a rape culture where his victims will probably never get the justice they deserve especially not within our "criminal justice" system.

[ You're right, that write-up did come across like that. There are so many problems with the blame-the-victim rape culture, I absolutely agree, and my write-up was not necessarily respectful. His removal was not only to 'save my reputation' but to say that that is clearly something wrong, and not hot. - ss ]

]]> By: Cheryl http://www.sugarbutch.net/2009/06/a-few-finer-points-of-the-top-hot-butches-list/comment-page-1/#comment-8078 Cheryl Thu, 25 Jun 2009 18:52:16 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=3472#comment-8078 I think the conversations around the inclusion of trans men have been interesting, informative and a critical necessity in the dialogue on gender identity, not least because of your very thoughtful responses. However, here's the question I've been asking myself since I read the first comment in the blogosphere: Would there have been anything like this furor if - without changing anything else about the descriptors, explanations or rules - the list had been entitled " The Sugarbutch Hot List." As long as I"ve been pulled out of lurker-land, anyway, Ivan E. Coyote is at the top of my personal pantheon of hotness. I think the conversations around the inclusion of trans men have been interesting, informative and a critical necessity in the dialogue on gender identity, not least because of your very thoughtful responses. However, here's the question I've been asking myself since I read the first comment in the blogosphere: Would there have been anything like this furor if – without changing anything else about the descriptors, explanations or rules – the list had been entitled " The Sugarbutch Hot List."

As long as I"ve been pulled out of lurker-land, anyway, Ivan E. Coyote is at the top of my personal pantheon of hotness.

]]> By: E http://www.sugarbutch.net/2009/06/a-few-finer-points-of-the-top-hot-butches-list/comment-page-1/#comment-8076 E Thu, 25 Jun 2009 17:28:26 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=3472#comment-8076 Just a heads up, your links for Ian, Silas, Bear, and Lynnee are broken because they point to 25-50 instead of 26-50. Just a heads up, your links for Ian, Silas, Bear, and Lynnee are broken because they point to 25-50 instead of 26-50.

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