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		<title>By: sinclair</title>
		<link>http://www.sugarbutch.net/2009/05/top-hot-butches-of-2009-help/comment-page-2/#comment-7821</link>
		<dc:creator>sinclair</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 15:11:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh no the comments are still there - I think past 50 it puts them on a 2nd page?? you can click &quot;older comments&quot; and get back to the rest. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh no the comments are still there &#8211; I think past 50 it puts them on a 2nd page?? you can click &quot;older comments&quot; and get back to the rest.</p>
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		<title>By: undercover punk</title>
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		<dc:creator>undercover punk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 14:57:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You took all the comments??? I guess The List&#039;ll be a better surprise then, eh? 
 
Such a tease you are. ;) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You took all the comments??? I guess The List&#039;ll be a better surprise then, eh?</p>
<p>Such a tease you are. ;)</p>
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		<title>By: zoe</title>
		<link>http://www.sugarbutch.net/2009/05/top-hot-butches-of-2009-help/comment-page-2/#comment-7747</link>
		<dc:creator>zoe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 21:37:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what</p>
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		<title>By: zoe</title>
		<link>http://www.sugarbutch.net/2009/05/top-hot-butches-of-2009-help/comment-page-1/#comment-7743</link>
		<dc:creator>zoe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 21:04:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh man, I didn&#039;t read the &quot;something significant in 2009&quot; part until after I posted.  ignore my two dead nominations :) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh man, I didn&#039;t read the &quot;something significant in 2009&quot; part until after I posted.  ignore my two dead nominations :)</p>
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		<title>By: J</title>
		<link>http://www.sugarbutch.net/2009/05/top-hot-butches-of-2009-help/comment-page-1/#comment-7727</link>
		<dc:creator>J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 11:55:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Totally agree with all the suggestions so far, but surprised no one has put up Skyler Cooper, who played Othello!  How&#039;s that for butch! 
  &lt;a href=&quot;http://bp2.blogger.com/_Pg5B42oQLmM/SDL3brkEuJI/AAAAAAAAFQ0/ERmxXtMl-qg/s1600-h/GenderBlurrrr.jpg&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://bp2.blogger.com/_Pg5B42oQLmM/SDL3brkEuJI/A...&lt;/a&gt;  
 
Drool.... </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Totally agree with all the suggestions so far, but surprised no one has put up Skyler Cooper, who played Othello!  How&#039;s that for butch!</p>
<p>  <a href="http://bp2.blogger.com/_Pg5B42oQLmM/SDL3brkEuJI/AAAAAAAAFQ0/ERmxXtMl-qg/s1600-h/GenderBlurrrr.jpg" rel="nofollow"></a><a href="http://bp2.blogger.com/_Pg5B42oQLmM/SDL3brkEuJI/A.." rel="nofollow">http://bp2.blogger.com/_Pg5B42oQLmM/SDL3brkEuJI/A..</a>.  </p>
<p>Drool&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: aj</title>
		<link>http://www.sugarbutch.net/2009/05/top-hot-butches-of-2009-help/comment-page-1/#comment-7726</link>
		<dc:creator>aj</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 11:24:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tig Notaro. Her humor is not necessarily everyone&#039;s cup of tea but she&#039;s hot. 
  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.brightestyoungthings.com/interviews/byt-interview-tig-notaro/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.brightestyoungthings.com/interviews/by...&lt;/a&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tig Notaro. Her humor is not necessarily everyone&#039;s cup of tea but she&#039;s hot.</p>
<p>  <a href="http://www.brightestyoungthings.com/interviews/byt-interview-tig-notaro/" rel="nofollow"></a><a href="http://www.brightestyoungthings.com/interviews/by.." rel="nofollow">http://www.brightestyoungthings.com/interviews/by..</a>.</p>
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		<title>By: Thanks!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Thanks!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 11:02:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh of course, Samantha Ronson! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh of course, Samantha Ronson!</p>
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		<title>By: Thanks!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Thanks!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 11:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank-you, thank-you, thank-you!!  When I read so many queer sites, such as afterellen, I feel so invisible!!  Every post seems to be in lusty praise of a feminine celebrity, who are beautiful and sexy, but the focus is so redundant with straight focused websites (with the exception of perhaps a greater inclusion of older femme women and femme women of color).  As a femme who who mostly dates gender queer/butch lesbians, I already feel invisible in lesbian bars, where based on the attention I receive, I feel as though I am &quot;lesser&quot; or not as &quot;good as&quot; than androgynous ladies.  Ironically in the gay community I often hear the traditionally masculine men are the most prized/respected,with feminine men being &quot;less desirable&quot; (this is based on anecdotes from friends, so feel free to completely contradict this), but within the lesbian community it seems likewise--that more &quot;masculine&quot; women are more respected compared with &quot;feminine&quot; women (likewise ONLY anecdotally based on my femme friends&#039; and I&#039;s observations), with the exception of the media where it the opposite, including many queer websites, where almost exclusively traditionally beautiful women are discussed and objectified.  Anyways, that&#039;s my main contribution, since the women I have to nominate already have been: Chris Pureka, Jenny Shimizu, Clea DuVall (in But I&#039;m a Cheerleader), Michelle Rodriguez, Pink (these last two however, are self-identified straight but are always accused of being gay because of their lack of complete gender compliance, so I would almost feel bad putting them on such a list and perpetuating these gender expectations), Daniela Sea, Shane from the L-Word (blanking on her real name), the trans character in Itty Bitty Titty Committee (sorry again for the lack of real name)...and sadly that&#039;s all I can think of off the top of my head...Thanks again however!! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank-you, thank-you, thank-you!!  When I read so many queer sites, such as afterellen, I feel so invisible!!  Every post seems to be in lusty praise of a feminine celebrity, who are beautiful and sexy, but the focus is so redundant with straight focused websites (with the exception of perhaps a greater inclusion of older femme women and femme women of color).  As a femme who who mostly dates gender queer/butch lesbians, I already feel invisible in lesbian bars, where based on the attention I receive, I feel as though I am &quot;lesser&quot; or not as &quot;good as&quot; than androgynous ladies.  Ironically in the gay community I often hear the traditionally masculine men are the most prized/respected,with feminine men being &quot;less desirable&quot; (this is based on anecdotes from friends, so feel free to completely contradict this), but within the lesbian community it seems likewise&#8211;that more &quot;masculine&quot; women are more respected compared with &quot;feminine&quot; women (likewise ONLY anecdotally based on my femme friends&#039; and I&#039;s observations), with the exception of the media where it the opposite, including many queer websites, where almost exclusively traditionally beautiful women are discussed and objectified.  Anyways, that&#039;s my main contribution, since the women I have to nominate already have been: Chris Pureka, Jenny Shimizu, Clea DuVall (in But I&#039;m a Cheerleader), Michelle Rodriguez, Pink (these last two however, are self-identified straight but are always accused of being gay because of their lack of complete gender compliance, so I would almost feel bad putting them on such a list and perpetuating these gender expectations), Daniela Sea, Shane from the L-Word (blanking on her real name), the trans character in Itty Bitty Titty Committee (sorry again for the lack of real name)&#8230;and sadly that&#039;s all I can think of off the top of my head&#8230;Thanks again however!!</p>
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		<title>By: Cand86</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cand86</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 10:35:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh yeah, and most definitely Samantha Ronson- an eensy bit for speaking out against hate crimes, but mostly for simply bringing a little butch visibility to the media for dating Lindsay- showing that butches can be and are sexy and desirable, and also perhaps for giving us a taste of butch fashion, the realization that boyish girls don&#039;t have to be sloppy dressers but can really rock the look.  Sam has definitely been in the public eye lately, so I think that wins her some points for getting people talking. 
 
Same goes for Christine Marioni, for bringing butch desirability (and the reality of butch/femme) into the public eye via her relationship with Cynthia Nixon- Lord knows I&#039;ve seen enough ridiculous articles and threads along the lines of &quot;WTF?  She&#039;s dating her?&quot;, so it&#039;s definitely gotten into the mainstream and made people talk. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh yeah, and most definitely Samantha Ronson- an eensy bit for speaking out against hate crimes, but mostly for simply bringing a little butch visibility to the media for dating Lindsay- showing that butches can be and are sexy and desirable, and also perhaps for giving us a taste of butch fashion, the realization that boyish girls don&#039;t have to be sloppy dressers but can really rock the look.  Sam has definitely been in the public eye lately, so I think that wins her some points for getting people talking.</p>
<p>Same goes for Christine Marioni, for bringing butch desirability (and the reality of butch/femme) into the public eye via her relationship with Cynthia Nixon- Lord knows I&#039;ve seen enough ridiculous articles and threads along the lines of &quot;WTF?  She&#039;s dating her?&quot;, so it&#039;s definitely gotten into the mainstream and made people talk.</p>
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		<title>By: Justyn Ashley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justyn Ashley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 10:22:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kate Moennig: 
 
&quot;When asked if playing a lesbian might change people&#039;s perceptions of homosexuality, Kate Moennig replied in Girlfriends Magazine: &#039;I certainly hope so, I mean, considering the day and age that we&#039;re in, and all the crap that we deal with. Even if people aren&#039;t initially open to it, i would hope this would give them some insight, help them to realize that love is love, you know?&#039;&quot; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kate Moennig:</p>
<p>&quot;When asked if playing a lesbian might change people&#039;s perceptions of homosexuality, Kate Moennig replied in Girlfriends Magazine: &#039;I certainly hope so, I mean, considering the day and age that we&#039;re in, and all the crap that we deal with. Even if people aren&#039;t initially open to it, i would hope this would give them some insight, help them to realize that love is love, you know?&#039;&quot;</p>
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