Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password

Sugarbutch Chronicles has two different mailing lists, and one way to get the password to the protected posts. Since I’ve had a few more password posts than usual lately, I’ve had some folks asking, so it’s about time to put up a new explanation.

1. The Newsletter

The newsletter is the once-a-month mailing list where I send out announcements about the site, special offers (sometimes I have passwords or offer codes from some Sugarbutch sponsors), and general updates. Email me – aspiringstud[at]gmail.com – to get on this mailing list, or leave a comment with your valid email address in the comments of this post.

2. Sugarbutch Daily to your email inbox

If you aren’t really a “blog person,” if you don’t read half the internet every day (like I do), if you don’t subscribe to RSS feeds and spend a lot of your time on the web, but you still love reading Sugarbutch, you might want to consider subscribing via email.

Entering your email address in below will send you ONE email per day with the text of all the posts that have been published that day. If there are no posts, you won’t get an email.

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3. Password protected posts

The password protected posts tend to be more personal, often musings about my own self-awareness, emotional processes, or the details of my relationships, which often feel vulnerable in a way that writing about sex does not (I know, weird, but that’s how it is). (Sometimes they are very smutty, dirty stories, with kinks or explorations that are dark and difficult to reveal – so it’s not all omphaloskepsis, there is some sex stuff too, sometimes.) Leave a comment in this thread with a valid email address and a link to your blog, your myspace, your facebook, or some other way to verify that you are a real person. If you ask for the password, I’ll also add you to The Newsletter mailing list.

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ‚ÄčTheir short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for the Lambda Literary Award. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert.

346 thoughts on “Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password”

  1. k k miller says:

    I have no website,facebook,etc. but would appreciate the password. Reading your site has helped me embrace and accept my butch genderqueer self. I now understand myself . P.S. My beautiful femme of 20 years is also greatful.

  2. carrie says:

    I love your blog. Can I get the password for the password protected posts please?

  3. bifemmefatale says:

    Hi, we've exchanged emails once before. I'd love the password to your protected posts, as the relationship between bdsm, feminism and gender presentation is something I think about a lot from the femme sub side.

  4. Krys J says:

    May I have the password? Pretty please???

  5. collagen says:

    hi, love reading your posts and would love the password. my tumblr is kind of weird, but i promise that i'm a human.

  6. Airish says:

    I've been a reader/fan for a very long time. Can I please have the password? I don't have a blog of my own YET- but I think this will be my year.

    I am a real person. Thank you for all of your work on this blog.

  7. Katie says:

    Would LOVE the password. Can't wait to start reading. :)

  8. Arienne says:

    I've loved reading your stuff for a few years now & enjoyed a number of the stories, but never bothered with the more private posts.. but now I'm curious about a few! ;)

    I don't have facebook or anything, just email. I hope that's ok.

    Password please?



  9. Johanna says:

    Would love the password…thanks ;)

  10. Sully says:

    I am a real person, though I don't have a facebook account, or a myspace account.

    I do have a fetlife account. I'm sully69. Will that get me the password?

  11. Gina says:

    love your blog…it inspires me. please send the passwords for the protected posts. thanks.

  12. hrafn says:

    I'd like to get the password, too, please!

  13. Sofy says:

    hey, cant stop reading you! Do want more hehe :)

  14. M says:

    password please?

    have left website link as proof of real personhood.

  15. Jen says:

    i'm real!! :) password please?

  16. Lain says:

    been trying to comment, but it hasn't been working – apologies if this is a multiple post! am fascinated by your writing (though from the opposite point of view…) and would love to read more. may i have the password?

    link here: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6802701&am

  17. Mel says:

    Just started to read and love your writing style. Would be thrilled to read the newsletter & the password-protected posts.

    Real-person credentials above.

  18. Jen says:

    my comment on 1/7 was approved, but i have not received a email containing the password…did i do something incorrectly? :)

  19. Tree says:

    Password? I heard you speak a few weeks ago – it was wonderful. I'm real. I promise.

  20. RB Axtell says:

    Could I get the password please? Thanks.

  21. Andie says:

    Password please? I have read so many wonderful things that have really hit home with some of the issues I have been working through recently.

  22. meldyke says:

    may i have the password please? real email from my real personness above; you can also try http://tinyurl.com/ycwkugn. :) thanks!

  23. Madeleine says:

    May I have the password for protected posts?

    Thank You!

  24. Ariel Chance says:

    A friend just linked me to your site and said that you were her new blogger crush. Reading your posts, I can see why. I'd love the password and Newsletter, please!

  25. b says:

    Could i please have the password?

  26. Meadhbh Hamrick says:

    i too am a real person. well. okay. i'm a real enough person to read about freewill and wonder whether the absence of freewill makes me a real person. okay. that's my last comment about freewill and predetermination. honest. unless i'm predestined to say another one.

  27. Ciara says:

    I've never had a myspace or facebook. I've been reading here for at least a year and am very curious about the protected posts, though. Email me if you're going to give me the password or not. I'll prove myself for it.

  28. xuuya says:

    Your smut is thought-provoking and your gender theory musings are hot. Password, please.

    facebook: di couz

    Thanks for writing.

  29. Michael says:

    Everything I read here is a heady mix of smart, dirty, compelling, and fascinating. I have been tempted to go through the archives and read from the beginning, and I'd love to see everything that's available to be read. Thanks!

  30. Jenny says:

    I've been lurking here for awhile now, and really enjoying everything you've written. I'd love to be able to read the password protected stuff, too. Also, I am a real person: http://www.facebook.com/chrematisai?ref=name


  31. RM says:

    I'd like the password, please. This never used twitter account is the best I can do.

  32. Monica says:

    Hi there! Very much a real femme lady. I've been enjoying reading your entries very much. It's given me a wonderful insight into the mind of a butch. I have a blog on Live Journal under the name cherishedfemme if you want to check it out. All I mostly do is ramble about how much love my own sweet butch. Here's a handy link. I always welcome new friends.


  33. Annie says:

    I’ve got no website, myspace etc., but I really love your writing and would love even more to get the password – and I’m reallyreallyreally real!

    Femmy thanks from Germany!


  34. Theresa says:

    Password, please?


  35. Cait says:

    I'm a real person, promise! Passwork please?

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