Shared Items – December 5, 2008

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• Here, Now, This

December 4, 2008

• 6 Holiday Style Tips For Men

December 4, 2008

• "One of the Guys"

December 4, 2008

• Equality School Musical

December 4, 2008 – I haven’t heard of whiteknot.org before – I like it! I need to get one of those ribbons.

• Why I believe in DIY PR

December 3, 2008

• Healing

December 3, 2008

• The U-Haul Rap

December 3, 2008 – “don’t be a tease … put your hands on your box, and beeeend … from your kneeeeeees.”

• "Prop 8 – The Musical" starring Jack Black, John C. Reilly, and many more… from FOD Team, Jack Black, Craig Robinson, John C Reilly, and Rashida Jones

December 3, 2008 – Star-studded indeed.

• you know you’re in a ltr when…

December 3, 2008

• Words

December 3, 2008

• Extreme pinup hotness on Flickr

December 3, 2008

• Reach out and touch…yourself

December 3, 2008

• What should I name my column?

December 2, 2008

• Our Bodies, No Babies

December 1, 2008

• Monogamy

December 2, 2008

• Savage Love Episode 111

December 2, 2008

• Growing Up in Public

November 30, 2008

• Rape Play / Forced Submission

November 28, 2008

• Comment on Letter to myself: enough moping by butchrebel

November 28, 2008

• Personal Stories

November 28, 2008

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