eye candy: the gay prom
Posted on September 2, 2008 in eye candy | 20 Comments
I’m getting a PhD in political science,
and the time I don’t spend actively fucking with gender
I’m usually in a coffeeshop. – lc
LC also included a couple more shots from a recent gay prom celebration, including a hot shot against a brick wall and dancing with a hot redhead femme.
20 Comments | Category: eye candy | Tags: accessories, butch, dancing, fedora, gay prom, necktie, photographs, vest
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September 2nd, 2008 @ 10:00 am
Seconding the love for the suit. And the -hat.- Hats are so goddamn sexy.
September 2nd, 2008 @ 10:09 am
um…yeah tooo HOT…I think I need to go take a break from working…. ;)
September 2nd, 2008 @ 10:11 am
Much love for the waistcoat going on here, I want one like that. The dance picture's lovely as well.
September 2nd, 2008 @ 10:20 am
The hat, the smile, those eyes … all together she is way too cute for words!
September 2nd, 2008 @ 11:00 am
that's so hot. and the linked picture against the brick wall?
nice. i mean it, lc… nice.
September 2nd, 2008 @ 12:27 pm
That suit is insanely hot. Nice.
September 2nd, 2008 @ 12:47 pm
Oh my, oh my.
September 2nd, 2008 @ 11:57 am
brilliant suit. and hat. very sexy altogether!
September 2nd, 2008 @ 2:30 pm
Mmmm. Delicious!
September 2nd, 2008 @ 5:51 pm
whoa whoa whoa
btw the links are switched…brickwall photo is linked to 'dancing with redhead' and vs versa
[Oh thanks! I didn't notice that, I'll fix it. - ss]
September 2nd, 2008 @ 9:22 pm
FINE-O-RAMA! I must agree the hat and the suit are sexy hot!!
September 3rd, 2008 @ 12:42 pm
Blowing a kiss to the dashing LC. Amazing suit, tie, and hat and you wear it all with verve!
September 3rd, 2008 @ 2:35 pm
Adorably dashing.
September 3rd, 2008 @ 6:44 pm
What femme doesn’t positively swoon for a handsome butch in a [very dapper] suit doing the famous butch lean against a brick wall?
xxx
September 3rd, 2008 @ 6:57 pm
Ahem. Niiiiice :)
September 3rd, 2008 @ 9:54 pm
Hi Jade, You made me smile. And I was too busy focusing on other things to pay attention to the very James Dean thing going on with the brick wall!
And SL, you can “rant” on my blog anytime. xo SF
September 4th, 2008 @ 3:17 pm
Oh my. Wonderful!
September 12th, 2008 @ 3:04 pm
p.s. so I know, sugarbutch that you've been wanting do to a femme 'eye candy' spot as well, how about a butch/femme 'eye candy' (like, together?) I think that would be cute….just a thought.
October 17th, 2008 @ 6:32 am
i'm a latecomer to this entry, but my god, those eyes are absolutely arresting. how can i get my hands on that?