Comments on: August’s masthead: combating lesbian bed death http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/08/augusts-masthead-combating-lesbian-bed-death/ The sex, gender, and relationship adventures of a kinky queer butch top Thu, 09 Feb 2012 16:09:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: kat http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/08/augusts-masthead-combating-lesbian-bed-death/comment-page-1/#comment-3839 kat Sat, 09 Aug 2008 19:52:54 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=953#comment-3839 this article hit home...i find that sex and intimacy are seperate in my relationship...we either have sex with no intimacy or vs. versa..and right now i can say i haven't been fucked in 4 months...talking about it never accomplishes anything because then if we do have sex it feels like we're trying too hard or forcing it..and i'm so not down with guilt sex so i'm still trying to figure out if its this relationship, or all relationships... this article hit home…i find that sex and intimacy are seperate in my relationship…we either have sex with no intimacy or vs. versa..and right now i can say i haven't been fucked in 4 months…talking about it never accomplishes anything because then if we do have sex it feels like we're trying too hard or forcing it..and i'm so not down with guilt sex

so i'm still trying to figure out if its this relationship, or all relationships…

]]> By: Femme Gender http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/08/augusts-masthead-combating-lesbian-bed-death/comment-page-1/#comment-3834 Femme Gender Sat, 09 Aug 2008 04:30:11 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=953#comment-3834 The masthead is delicious! mmmmmmmmm! The masthead is delicious! mmmmmmmmm!

]]> By: Angel http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/08/augusts-masthead-combating-lesbian-bed-death/comment-page-1/#comment-3802 Angel Fri, 08 Aug 2008 07:43:19 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=953#comment-3802 Your erotica makes me want to go play with you. *blush* Your erotica makes me want to go play with you. *blush*

]]> By: Rose http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/08/augusts-masthead-combating-lesbian-bed-death/comment-page-1/#comment-3797 Rose Fri, 08 Aug 2008 02:24:28 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=953#comment-3797 I've got quite a few ideas for the sugarbutch star contest too.......... I've got quite a few ideas for the sugarbutch star contest too……….

]]> By: alisha http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/08/augusts-masthead-combating-lesbian-bed-death/comment-page-1/#comment-3795 alisha Thu, 07 Aug 2008 22:49:59 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=953#comment-3795 i have TOO many ideas for the sugarbutch star contest.. i have TOO many ideas for the sugarbutch star contest..

]]> By: the femme top http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/08/augusts-masthead-combating-lesbian-bed-death/comment-page-1/#comment-3784 the femme top Thu, 07 Aug 2008 19:20:09 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=953#comment-3784 re: male & female sexualities, a comment from last night, post-sex: "We're such fags!" This was referring to the fact that we had known each other for three hours at the time I was putting my clothes back on. I knew what my partner meant. I, too, thought that the speed at which we jumped into bed was a pretty male thing to do. What's considered male sexuality and what is considered female sexuality is so ingrained in us, even if we <i>know</i> different. re: male & female sexualities, a comment from last night, post-sex:

"We're such fags!"

This was referring to the fact that we had known each other for three hours at the time I was putting my clothes back on.

I knew what my partner meant. I, too, thought that the speed at which we jumped into bed was a pretty male thing to do. What's considered male sexuality and what is considered female sexuality is so ingrained in us, even if we know different.

]]> By: miss sunday http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/08/augusts-masthead-combating-lesbian-bed-death/comment-page-1/#comment-3766 miss sunday Thu, 07 Aug 2008 13:25:38 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=953#comment-3766 yes yes yes yes!! love the masthead, love it. you're fighting the good fight and i am proud of you for it. also: your stories have sent me home to girl steamed up. kudos!!!!! yes yes yes yes!! love the masthead, love it.

you're fighting the good fight and i am proud of you for it.

also: your stories have sent me home to girl steamed up.

kudos!!!!!

]]> By: greg http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/08/augusts-masthead-combating-lesbian-bed-death/comment-page-1/#comment-3764 greg Thu, 07 Aug 2008 13:18:30 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=953#comment-3764 I loooove the August masthead, you look so dapper. I am proud to say that Lesbian Bed Death still seems like a myth to me. I loooove the August masthead, you look so dapper.

I am proud to say that Lesbian Bed Death still seems like a myth to me.

]]> By: Sun http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/08/augusts-masthead-combating-lesbian-bed-death/comment-page-1/#comment-3761 Sun Thu, 07 Aug 2008 12:40:52 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/?p=953#comment-3761 Haha, here's the Youtube clip with Amelie's question: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mnaw7DI1A1g" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mnaw7DI1A1g</a> . Enjoy, everybody! :-) Haha, here's the Youtube clip with Amelie's question: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mnaw7DI1A1g . Enjoy, everybody! :-)

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