dylan – i highly recommend undershirts! as someone whose only use for a bra is to cover up nipples, i've found that an undershirt does almost exactly the same thing as the sort of completely plain bra i wear. you can get boy's ones if the men's aren't tight enough to hold things down =) (note: undershirts are not just for butches – cut the bottom couple inches off and you can wear them under girly-tees and such, too) and, of course, there's the bonus that there is very little sexier than a hot girl in an a-shirt.

To this day, it melts me into a puddled mess of femme.