Archive for May, 2008

… while they’re hot

05/09/2008  |  2 Comments

Okay, on a lighter note? I didn't mention it two weeks ago, when Penny and I had our last date,... more

On misperceiving someone as femme or butch (again)

05/08/2008  |  7 Comments

A couple heated comments about my last post already, and I want to make a couple things clearer. First: I believe it... more

On misperceiving someone as femme or butch

05/08/2008  |  7 Comments

I often have conversations with folks who say that they have been perceived femme or butch, and they really don't... more

Review of Crossdressing: Erotic Stories

05/08/2008  |  3 Comments

Crossdressing: Erotic Stories Edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel "Some people might call this a fantasy, but it's my deepest truth." - from... more

Interview with stylist ariel? ariel!

05/07/2008  |  2 Comments

Ariel has been my style consultant for a while now, and when she's not too busy being a matchmaker, I'm often asking... more

eye candy: triple scorpio

05/07/2008  |  2 Comments

Triple Scorpio. Wanna go for a ride? These shots come from Diane, who adds: "My smokin' hot girlfriend, seven years and counting."

sex and dealbreakers

05/06/2008  |  7 Comments

I want to add something to my response to the question about how to keep passion from waning in a... more

what happened in April

05/06/2008  |  3 Comments

April was incredibly busy! This past month held my 29th birthday, and the second anniversary 0f beginning to write here at... more

Sugarbutch Star: WINNER!

05/06/2008  |  7 Comments

I'm back from Salt Lake City & my short Southwest roadtrip! Lots of catching up to do.   By a landslide: the winner... more

ask me anything: the answers, part 2

05/01/2008  |  4 Comments

I'm in Salt Lake City for the long weekend, so hopefully I'll have some time to catch up on writing... more