Comments on: the sadistic impulse http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/04/the-sadistic-impulse/ The sex, gender, and relationship adventures of a kinky queer butch top Thu, 09 Feb 2012 16:09:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Elenaluz http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/04/the-sadistic-impulse/comment-page-1/#comment-8857 Elenaluz Tue, 15 Sep 2009 07:17:47 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/04/the-sadistic-impulse/#comment-8857 There's nothing wrong with that. It's a misnomer, to call that a male impulse. It's a human impulse - everything is. I've felt that desire too, that urge to rip, to hurt, to cause pain. I think it's why some people like horror movies so much. We identify with those sadistic/aggressive impulses. As long as it's consensual, and it doesn't go too far (ie. cause permanent damage/death), I think it's good to have an outlet, and a safe space, for those kinds of impulses. By the way, I have no personal experience with this, but I can certainly identify with where you're coming from. There's nothing wrong with that. It's a misnomer, to call that a male impulse. It's a human impulse – everything is. I've felt that desire too, that urge to rip, to hurt, to cause pain. I think it's why some people like horror movies so much. We identify with those sadistic/aggressive impulses. As long as it's consensual, and it doesn't go too far (ie. cause permanent damage/death), I think it's good to have an outlet, and a safe space, for those kinds of impulses.

By the way, I have no personal experience with this, but I can certainly identify with where you're coming from.

]]> By: Sapphicslave http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/04/the-sadistic-impulse/comment-page-1/#comment-6567 Sapphicslave Mon, 02 Mar 2009 00:31:40 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2008/04/the-sadistic-impulse/#comment-6567 Ive noticed that in some of the other posting here, where you mention that moment where you have to pull back because you could let loose and hurt her if you didnt......maybe its the masochist in me, but I would definitely be the girl who would do her best to tip you over that edge...just to see what you would do, to see how the animal inside you really wants to devour me. I'd carry the bruises and marks proudly for weeks afterwards too. Ive noticed that in some of the other posting here, where you mention that moment where you have to pull back because you could let loose and hurt her if you didnt……maybe its the masochist in me, but I would definitely be the girl who would do her best to tip you over that edge…just to see what you would do, to see how the animal inside you really wants to devour me. I'd carry the bruises and marks proudly for weeks afterwards too.

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