surrender …
Posted on March 5, 2008 in miscellany | 7 Comments
… Dorothy!
Congratulations to Ms. Snarker over at Dorothy Surrenders – “a gay girl’s guide to pop culture” – for being named The Lesbian Lifestyle Blog of the Year! I really enjoy her smart & sassy commentary on homo-flexible celebreality.
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March 5th, 2008 @ 8:48 am
What she said. Classy, period.
An honor and a pleasure.
March 5th, 2008 @ 9:42 am
(pouting and stomping feet) sigh. ok then, congratulations to her. But you will always be #1 to me!
March 5th, 2008 @ 9:47 am
boo hoo, Sinclair. I wanted you to win!
March 5th, 2008 @ 10:02 am
Thanks all :) I accepted inevitable defeat pretty early on. I think the topics and content here on SBC are just too specific, they don't have the wide-reaching audience that lesbian celebrity pop-culture does, which totally makes sense that Dorothy would win by popular vote. Plus she's a fabulous writer, very amusing and fun.
I was really thrilled to make it to the top 5, what an honor!
March 5th, 2008 @ 11:15 am
Like what Green-eyed Girl said.. I am pouting about this. I even tried to vote twice but got busted.. There is no one like you !
March 5th, 2008 @ 1:38 pm
you’re so classy in defeat :)
March 5th, 2008 @ 9:39 pm
Hey Sinclair,
Thanks for the very gracious congratulations. It was lovely being nominated alongside you. You run an amazing site and I feel lucky to be among such fantastic, thoughtful and — let's be honest — sexy writers. cheers!
Ms. Snarker
[Right back atcha, I am thrilled to be among this final 5 too. Such an honor! -- ss]