If you’d like to be included on the password email list, leave a comment with your email (and blog URL, if you have one) and I will update you with the password when I write a protected post.
I’ve written a few password-protected posts lately, mostly they are private journaling about my own process and thoughts, which is why they aren’t public.They are not some secret smut stories, or half-naked Thursday photos, though they may be, in the future.
I’m sure y’all know that I’m happy to reveal quite a lot about myself, though sometimes my own process feels not only self-indulgent but, occasionally, too intimate for the general internet public. Especially as this little writing project has gotten bigger and bigger, I seek a little more privacy on occasion.
But, on the other hand, personal self-reflection and processing is precisely why I started this writing project almost two years ago, and I gain such tremendous insight through writing out my process and my thoughts, as well as through the useful, constructive, responsive, and supportive comments. Sometimes readers have such insight into what’s up, and I so appreciate that feedback and conversation. Other times, readers tell me they are going exactly through the same thing, or that their girlfriends are just like me, and I find so much value in the sharing of our stories, in the places we are similar.
I don’t want to entirely lose the ability to write through my process here, but I had to do it slightly differently now that this site has grown. Hence, password protection.
Leave a comment if you’d like to be included on the mailing list to receive passwords in the future.
253 responses so far ↓
1 Calliope // Feb 22, 2008 at 12:28 pm
I’d love to be on the password protected list; I’ve been lurking here for a while and your blog is hands down my favorite blog that I read, and I read a few :-)
2 kim // Feb 22, 2008 at 12:59 pm
me too please! and ditto to the sentiment.
3 green-eyed girl // Feb 22, 2008 at 2:37 pm
yes please. lucimi@aol.com
4 Dev // Feb 22, 2008 at 3:00 pm
Please? :-)
5 LJ // Feb 22, 2008 at 3:39 pm
you always make me blush, so I think it’s your duty to include me on your password list.
6 stchick // Feb 22, 2008 at 4:28 pm
I so need to be included on this password list, I am so addicted to your blog.
7 Ezeesd // Feb 22, 2008 at 6:35 pm
Love the blog, I am sooooo glad I found it. I am starting over after being in a 10+ year relationship with a wonderful woman I adored. I tried to make it work but she didn’t get me and never will. So, your blog has been a wonderful inspiration to me as I re-invent myself. I would like to be included on the password list if possible. Thank you very much.
8 Bea // Feb 22, 2008 at 6:46 pm
I’d love to be included on the list, if that’s okay. :) I’m a fairly new reader, but your blog is super awesome.
9 Michelle // Feb 22, 2008 at 9:26 pm
Please, if you would.
10 Artsy Amy // Feb 22, 2008 at 9:32 pm
please include me. I heart reading your site after my loooonnggg days chasing after sweet kiddies at private school. It helps me to remember I am not just defined by one thing.
11 susu // Feb 22, 2008 at 9:40 pm
Hook a girl up. Thanks you are
awesome! And thanks for inspiring Belle to start a blog!
12 Chris H // Feb 22, 2008 at 10:26 pm
Can I have a password, please? I know of no one else who can make me so hot by writing about collar stays.
13 Onion // Feb 22, 2008 at 10:31 pm
So much for lurking…
~O
14 Meridith // Feb 22, 2008 at 10:38 pm
I’d love to be included. Though our blogs don’t have much in common, our thoughts do. I’d like to keep reading yours.
15 sweet // Feb 23, 2008 at 1:06 am
please.
16 E.D // Feb 23, 2008 at 9:19 am
count me in please. :)
17 Molly // Feb 23, 2008 at 2:17 pm
Duh.
18 Nulaanne // Feb 23, 2008 at 3:39 pm
I would love to have a pass word. I enjoy reading what you write.
19 CC // Feb 23, 2008 at 8:26 pm
pretty please? (bats eyelashes)
20 Djoy // Feb 23, 2008 at 9:51 pm
Would be lovely to get extra access to your private words. I feel this whole blog already is such a gift and I’m grateful to read this dialogue. I have much respect that you share so openly. Blessings and joy, D.
21 kt shorb // Feb 23, 2008 at 11:36 pm
me, too.
22 navigator // Feb 24, 2008 at 5:25 am
me too please
23 black and blue // Feb 24, 2008 at 11:40 am
please..thanks!
24 Leni // Feb 24, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Please?
25 Dosia // Feb 24, 2008 at 12:26 pm
If you wouldn’t mind…this blog rocks!
26 victor/victoria // Feb 24, 2008 at 4:39 pm
yes please. your blog always make me think (among other things).
27 conquest // Feb 24, 2008 at 5:19 pm
Yes please! I’m such a lurker but your blog is so amazing! I’ve been raving about you to my friends.
28 Joy // Feb 25, 2008 at 12:54 am
I’d be honored to have access. (But I will not be offended if you decide against it.)
29 Emma // Feb 25, 2008 at 1:54 am
I’d love to be on the list, please.
30 Ivy // Feb 25, 2008 at 3:17 am
I love love love your blog, and would equally love a password.
Thanks!
ivy.shep@gmail.com
31 alisha // Feb 25, 2008 at 5:09 pm
yes please.
perfectgoodbye@gmail.com
32 Sarah // Feb 25, 2008 at 6:18 pm
Would love the secret password - exciting!
33 Shannon // Feb 25, 2008 at 10:19 pm
Clearly.
34 Katerina // Feb 26, 2008 at 1:13 am
I’d love the password!
35 M. Monkey // Feb 26, 2008 at 2:47 am
I, too, would very much like the password. :)
36 Maria // Feb 26, 2008 at 8:29 am
please!
37 Lisa // Feb 26, 2008 at 2:54 pm
Love your blog, can’t believe you have dragged me from my lurkerdome, but I can’t resist, too curious about password protected posts.
38 Marcelle Manhattan // Feb 26, 2008 at 3:57 pm
Absolutely. This blog was my discovery of the week. Really well-written and intelligent.
39 CARLOS CAFÉ // Feb 26, 2008 at 5:59 pm
hi.. very nice…
this is my work.. photos and videos…
http://www.ih23.tumblr.com
If you like you can put the link in your blog..
thanks
CARLOS CAFÉ
Brazil
40 kim // Feb 26, 2008 at 7:25 pm
I personally like all of your writing, smut and personal musings. I never expected the password protected area to include the sexual arena, as that’s what we’ve always counted on when we read the fabulous sinclair sexsmith. I feel special to be included in the inner thoughts and reflections, as they all speak to your faithful readers.
We all live, love, and need to ponder about it all, and count on your ponderings to relate to, reflect on, and identify with…
so never edit yourself, and if you need to protect yourself in the process in this virtual world, do so my dear
kim
41 becky // Feb 26, 2008 at 8:17 pm
love your writing–please add me. depechemode913@gmail.com
42 Zoe // Feb 26, 2008 at 8:51 pm
I would love to be included. Your reflections challenge and inspire me. I don’t have a blog, but I’d be willing to give you my realname email address for collateral :)
43 devon // Feb 26, 2008 at 9:11 pm
Thanks for asking, and yes, please, absolutely. Love your posts; reading them is like receiving little writing gifts. =)
44 Eva // Feb 26, 2008 at 11:05 pm
The password lists grows…and I always enjoy your writing and stories and rants so please add me to the list. Thanks!
45 Batini // Feb 27, 2008 at 9:04 am
Sinclair, I would be so grateful to be included on your personal thoughts. A year and a half ago, I gave up straight life for bliss with a beautiful butch woman, and your ideas about gender and more have already been so helpful to me (been reading about 2 weeks). I don’t want to miss a word.
46 Unnur María // Feb 27, 2008 at 10:40 am
I love your writing, both for the smut and the personal thoughts you process here. I would be grateful for a chance to read more. :)
47 Ada // Feb 27, 2008 at 11:12 am
hi sinclair your thought processes and writing on gender/ identity strike chords with me from time to time (very often, in fact) and i’d love to be in on the list :) thanks
48 Alyson // Feb 27, 2008 at 5:29 pm
I really enjoy reading your blog and would like to read all of your entries. I think (and talk) about gender and sexuality a lot and am always interested in your thoughts! Thanks.
49 Joye // Feb 27, 2008 at 10:58 pm
Thanks in advance!
50 SuperSoftStud // Feb 28, 2008 at 12:31 am
sinclair. i’d love to read more of your writing.
on another note, i took your recommendations. i purchased both the feeldoe and Mr. Silky. I packed for the first time ever last weekend, and on a first date no less! it was fabulously arousing to me. i never thought that it would feel so much a part of me. i found myself touching myself through my jeans, leaning into counters, shifting my stance and no lie, i felt every ripple, every brief touch as if the dick had been mine all my life! my clit ached at any contact!
i have found that i now have a heightened masculine energy that seeks to “penetrate” the women i’m seeing. a hunger to “have” them that is new, overpowering and has me jerking off often. thanks for the reviews and guidance.
S3
[Wow - intense! And SO hot! I'm thrilled to hear that you're having a good time with the Silky and packing - feel free to send more details or update me/us in the future. How'd the date go? :) - ss]
51 missmonkey // Feb 28, 2008 at 1:33 am
Still thinking over your post (about a week after reading it) re: butch/femme dynamics as it would apply to me, a newly-out Latina who is trying to get away from the overt femininity demanded by my ethnicity. I wonder if I will ever choose to be feminine again or if I will embrace the masculine, as you have. Please keep writing. Your posts are incredibly thought-provoking.
[Thank you! Keep in mind of course that there are many, many different parts of the gender galaxy, and you certainly don't have to be one-or-the-other in part of the masculine/feminine binary. Obviously I've got a bit of a binary-gender-fetish, but that's just me, that's certainly not everyone. And, in fact, I'm definitely in the minority when it comes to the dyke communities. // My advice (not that you asked for it) is to play with it, try it on, dress up, do what feels good, and let it be fluid, because it might change at any time. The experimenting can be fun! People will probably give you shit about it, but fuck them. // Oh, & one more thing - this makes me think of this quote I have on my fridge: "Believe nothing, no matter who said it, not even if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense." (I believe that's attributed to the Buddha.) -- ss]
52 elsafemme // Feb 28, 2008 at 11:45 am
I am a great admirer of your writing and would very much like to have the password, if that’s ok?
Thankyou!
53 smartypants // Feb 28, 2008 at 1:21 pm
another lurker here, pretty please may i have a password?
54 challenge // Feb 28, 2008 at 2:52 pm
I just recently found your blog and would love to be included on the password protected list.
up4achallenge@hotmail.com
Thanks,
challenge
55 Jeremy // Feb 28, 2008 at 3:54 pm
Ooh! Ooh! Pick me! Can I know the secret password?
I’ve been reading for a short while, and I look forward to hearing your thoughts. It’s lovely to hear such eloquent thoughts on the gender binary, and such hot thoughts on last thursday.
Thanks for sharing!
56 deep south // Feb 28, 2008 at 10:57 pm
password, yes. luv, mikey
57 L // Feb 29, 2008 at 1:53 am
I enjoy your writing… thanks for sharing.
58 ra // Feb 29, 2008 at 8:29 am
i love your blog. password please. thanks, ra
59 clinton // Feb 29, 2008 at 2:59 pm
please add me to ur password list.
60 lori // Feb 29, 2008 at 6:17 pm
I’d be honored to be included.
61 She Said // Feb 29, 2008 at 11:40 pm
I don’t think I’ve ever seen this many comments on someone’s blog before!
Anyway — yes, please let me know the password as well.
Thanks!
62 erika // Mar 1, 2008 at 12:31 am
i enjoy your blog a lot and would love to be have the password, if that’s alright. :)
63 linky // Mar 1, 2008 at 3:28 pm
pick me please.
64 Sair // Mar 1, 2008 at 6:40 pm
I’ve only recently found your blog, but I have really enjoyed your writing and your views on femme, butch, gender in general, sex, et cetera. It would please me greatly to have the password for your protected posts.
Many thanks,
Sair
65 Clarke // Mar 1, 2008 at 7:07 pm
Found your blog a couple of months ago, and really enjoy reading you. Can I also be added?
66 Just Me // Mar 2, 2008 at 2:51 am
I would like to read them, if you will allow me to. I have been reading along for a few months and you’ve given me a lot to think about.
67 rmpl // Mar 2, 2008 at 12:00 pm
ditto
68 Diane // Mar 2, 2008 at 12:27 pm
Progressing is good!
69 fridaypeach // Mar 2, 2008 at 1:06 pm
Yes please.
70 LeOwner // Mar 2, 2008 at 7:30 pm
DJoy did me the largest favor by introducing me to your really really potent writting. Cheers, M
71 red // Mar 2, 2008 at 7:55 pm
I would like to read them too, if that’s cool with you. Your blog is a recent find for me but its a keeper…
72 wlderose // Mar 2, 2008 at 7:57 pm
Yes please x
73 Lin // Mar 2, 2008 at 8:01 pm
please include me, if you could.
74 Jack // Mar 2, 2008 at 9:59 pm
I’d love to be passworded in.
75 jetgirl // Mar 3, 2008 at 3:32 am
Love your blog and would love to be on the super secret list of password secretude!
76 Eileen // Mar 3, 2008 at 5:47 am
I really wanted to make a “show me yours I’ll show you mine” joke here, but you’ve already seen mine. Damn.
77 Leander // Mar 3, 2008 at 5:33 pm
I’d love to be passworded in.
78 Bleu // Mar 3, 2008 at 9:24 pm
I think that you’re amazing! Please send me password updates:-)
79 linaria // Mar 4, 2008 at 10:13 am
yes, please?
80 what happened in February // Mar 4, 2008 at 11:43 am
[...] couple of password protected posts discussing my latest lover, and the end of that [...]
81 Rona // Mar 4, 2008 at 2:35 pm
If you would not mind, I would like to be able to read your password protected posts. Not only am I a huge fan of your blog, but both times I’ve met you I’ve been quite impressed with _you_. You’re good folks.
82 Kelit // Mar 4, 2008 at 7:24 pm
I think what you are doing here is starting a dialogue and revealing thoughts about the grey areas not many people notice, but for those who live in them, every new dimension revealed is multifaceted and wonderful. Your blog has been a favorite spot of mine for a while, to both enjoy and ponder. It would be an honor to continue reading.
83 llucky // Mar 4, 2008 at 11:33 pm
I love your blog, it’s a great way for me to get into the mind of a true butch. Now if only I could find one just like you! But until then could this femme also be included in your password protected updates please?
84 jmw // Mar 5, 2008 at 12:30 am
another long-time lurker looking to be added!
85 warhol // Mar 5, 2008 at 11:38 am
long time reader, first time responding..pls add me your stories are so intens and honest..I love them!
86 Lilian // Mar 5, 2008 at 4:21 pm
I’d love to have a password
87 tempcontretemps // Mar 5, 2008 at 6:39 pm
total lurker, but please add me?
88 jody // Mar 5, 2008 at 9:42 pm
i’d love to get the password. am a big fan. thanks.
89 laurynx // Mar 6, 2008 at 4:19 am
I love your blog. Your thoughts and musings are very interesting to a baby femme.
Thanks.
90 Kanza // Mar 6, 2008 at 12:01 pm
I like the website… I’d love to get a password, although I’m not the participatiest of folk. ^^
91 tempcontretemps // Mar 6, 2008 at 12:52 pm
can I get the password for the earlier posts, too?
love the blog!
novack_r[at]yahoo.com
92 katwoman // Mar 6, 2008 at 7:47 pm
Can I please have the passwords for the protected posts
93 Kirby // Mar 6, 2008 at 8:00 pm
I would love to be on your super secret list. I love your style!
94 Jack // Mar 6, 2008 at 11:12 pm
i would really like the password, if that’s ok. i absolutely adore reading your blog. ^^
95 Avah // Mar 7, 2008 at 12:24 pm
I’d like to be included too!
96 Nic // Mar 8, 2008 at 5:16 pm
I was trying to not ask for the pasword. I figured if you wanted everyone to read it, it wouldn’t be password protected. But curiosity killed the cat. I would love to have it, if I may? I should have known I couldn’t hold out for too long. *sigh* =)
97 francesca // Mar 8, 2008 at 5:32 pm
more stunning writing? and lusty tales of woe and wet? count me IN.
98 aJenniferOriginal // Mar 8, 2008 at 9:43 pm
Yes, yes please.
99 Boymeat // Mar 9, 2008 at 6:21 pm
I’m late to the game, but may I be included?
100 Patism // Mar 9, 2008 at 7:11 pm
Send it on.
101 Christophe // Mar 10, 2008 at 1:25 pm
I’m a fan, would love the password.
102 loria // Mar 10, 2008 at 8:51 pm
wow i’ve been behind on this site. i would very much like the insight into your protected entries but leave it up to you to decide.
103 bittersweet // Mar 10, 2008 at 10:50 pm
Sinclair–
I, too, am late in the game. And I, too, would be honored. Because I’ve loved this site ever since I first stumbled across it, and because my gender questioning/femme-loving self delights. (I find it funny that despite your very easy-going attitude towards the passwords, it took me several beers to get up the courage to post a comment and ask if I could read what you have written.)
Oh so many thanks.
104 Julia // Mar 11, 2008 at 10:54 pm
Getting the passwords would be super cool. No, really, super cool.
105 Jacqui // Mar 12, 2008 at 7:27 am
Can I become number 104 and ask to subscribe your rightly so protected entries?
Can I suggest that breaking up is even harder when your country recoginses you as a common law couple? There are moments when I pause and wonder if there were no such laws, breaking up would be afar simpler process.
Thank you
106 carys // Mar 13, 2008 at 8:29 am
if you don’t mind, i’d really like to be able to read your protected posts. i already take too much time out of my work day to read your blog, why not go all the way.
my blog’s in norwegian, by the way. yes, you have international fans!
107 tempcontretemps // Mar 13, 2008 at 3:38 pm
…
108 icarus // Mar 13, 2008 at 8:07 pm
i’m in.
109 wordchef // Mar 14, 2008 at 12:40 pm
hvala lepa - thanks
110 jes // Mar 14, 2008 at 1:22 pm
please.
111 MsF // Mar 14, 2008 at 5:30 pm
Hey Sinclair,
Also late in the game: my curiosity can’t be contained anymore: I’d love the password!
Thanks!
ps: Your blog is the first thing I read in the morning, after checking my email! Keep it up!
112 samantha // Mar 14, 2008 at 5:32 pm
password, please :)
113 jenny // Mar 14, 2008 at 9:38 pm
Your blog is part of my drinking coffee and waking up in the morning routine!
114 Single White Femme // Mar 15, 2008 at 12:00 pm
Add me, por favor.
115 Babs // Mar 15, 2008 at 2:19 pm
Hi Sinclair,
Could I have the password, please? Love your blog. Thanks! :-)
116 Ramona // Mar 15, 2008 at 10:10 pm
I’d like to be on the list, please, thank you.
117 conquest // Mar 16, 2008 at 3:38 pm
I totally lost the password :(
118 Cecily // Mar 16, 2008 at 5:09 pm
Yes, please. :)
119 Kate // Mar 16, 2008 at 10:35 pm
Yes please. Love your blog! Thanks!
120 claude cahun // Mar 17, 2008 at 9:48 am
yes, please!
121 Kari // Mar 17, 2008 at 1:14 pm
Yes, please. thanks!
122 smalltowndyke // Mar 17, 2008 at 3:05 pm
please add me to your list
123 rascalgrrl // Mar 17, 2008 at 6:06 pm
I’d love to be on your password list. I’m so very glad to find a place where labels are claimed proudly. I’m a femme and I love my butchgrrl. I wouldn’t change our dynamic at all, though I’ve gotten hassled for being in the “dark ages”.
124 aag // Mar 17, 2008 at 7:57 pm
Yes please?
125 Jade // Mar 18, 2008 at 6:02 am
I just adore reading your blogs.
I devour them as quickly as possible.
Then go back for seconds.
And thirds.
Orrrr whenever the mood strikes.
Please scribble me onto that password list.
ps
I am looooooving the pictures of the butches!!
126 Nora // Mar 18, 2008 at 4:56 pm
Oh, let me get on the bottom of that list too! (no pun intended.)
Keep writing!
127 Janet // Mar 19, 2008 at 9:58 pm
Password?
128 apple // Mar 20, 2008 at 3:34 pm
me too !
129 dls // Mar 21, 2008 at 11:33 am
Intrigued.
130 zingrrl // Mar 22, 2008 at 11:23 pm
Just listened to the Saturday night replay on Diana’s show. Wow! Please please please allow me to view your password protected blogs. I submit to your will…
131 mouse // Mar 23, 2008 at 1:19 pm
please, me
132 The Divine // Mar 23, 2008 at 11:49 pm
me too, please.
133 des // Mar 25, 2008 at 5:08 pm
please and thank you!
134 meg // Mar 25, 2008 at 7:45 pm
oh, yes! i can’t believe it took me this long to ask for it.
135 Chicory // Mar 25, 2008 at 11:33 pm
I, too, would like a password. I’ve been lurking on your site since Lesbiandad linked to you (if you’ve been wondering who from the US Securities and Exchange Commission has been hanging around, that would be me). I also introduced you to some friends in Maine.
136 Daddy's Princess // Mar 26, 2008 at 9:43 pm
You have made me laugh, cry and blush. I miss your thoughts. Please may I have a password.
137 sascha // Mar 27, 2008 at 11:11 am
may I be added please?
138 Shaz // Mar 27, 2008 at 6:02 pm
As you seem so often to write about the ideas my butch friends and I discuss (butch flight indeed), I think it only fair that I have a password - just to see how similarly “this gender stuff” translates across the Pacific…
139 Al // Mar 27, 2008 at 6:11 pm
I’d love the password, I always look forward to your new posts with eager anticipation.
140 laura luna // Mar 28, 2008 at 8:01 pm
yes please fridakahlo78@hotmail.com :D
141 Sara // Mar 28, 2008 at 11:45 pm
Got around to posting any of those half-naked Thursday photos yet? Either way, I’d be both interested and honored to share some of you more private posts.
Sara
142 ocean eyes // Mar 30, 2008 at 7:19 am
I absolutely love your writing and your take on butch-femme - would love to be added to the password list. thankyou!
143 Imogen // Mar 30, 2008 at 11:19 am
Oh, please include me on the password list, I adore your blog. Always look forward to what you have to say.
144 Patience // Mar 31, 2008 at 1:14 am
Yes please? I just found you, and I already have a feeling you’ll be at the top of my favourite blogs by, um, the end of tomorrowish.
145 jesse // Mar 31, 2008 at 11:45 am
Am an unabashed lurker, but would love to have the password–lots of good thinking here.
146 kaye // Mar 31, 2008 at 5:22 pm
Yes Please? I recently just found your blog and I love it.
147 Jan // Mar 31, 2008 at 8:22 pm
Hi Sinclair,
you sent me a password a few weeks ago, but it didn’t seem to work today?! it was:
w*** s****
If there is a new password, please send it to me. Thanks!
148 Jan // Mar 31, 2008 at 8:25 pm
OOPS! thought I’d try the password again and it worked. Sorry for any confusion.
149 Voyager // Mar 31, 2008 at 10:14 pm
Just a lurker and I don’t have a blog myself, but I love reading yours. Would like to get a password. Thanks!
150 debbie // Apr 1, 2008 at 12:44 am
awesome awesome site. please add me to your list, please.
151 what happened in March // Apr 1, 2008 at 11:24 am
[...] to Sugarbutch Chronicles via RSS, leave your email address to receive the password for protected posts, or subscribe via email (in the [...]
152 Wendy D // Apr 2, 2008 at 3:30 pm
delurking for a password, please.
153 drBombay // Apr 2, 2008 at 3:57 pm
best darn queer site, ever! i would love to gain access to your entire site–thanks
154 Scout // Apr 2, 2008 at 10:39 pm
Great blog! I love hearing thoughts and stories that are so familiar. Please include me in your password list.
Thanks!
155 OhYeaDaddy // Apr 2, 2008 at 11:28 pm
You are bringing life to a California Butch in Kansas!
156 Donna // Apr 3, 2008 at 1:52 am
Password?
157 Jenny // Apr 3, 2008 at 11:36 pm
Yes, please. Thanks
158 carolinagrrrl // Apr 4, 2008 at 8:38 am
I can’t believe I have never asked to be included in this before. :)
159 Kelley // Apr 4, 2008 at 7:00 pm
May I have a password please? Thanks.
160 folkswitch // Apr 5, 2008 at 1:17 pm
I would love to be counted among the password privy. I have been subscribed to your blog for some time and enjoy your writings so much. I simply can no longer resist…
Blessings.
161 Lisa // Apr 6, 2008 at 8:36 pm
I would love to have the password. This blog rocks my socks off!
162 way // Apr 6, 2008 at 10:11 pm
please send me your password
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Bad Bad Girl has put up a great picture
of her for your Birthday
163 shira // Apr 6, 2008 at 11:45 pm
Beautiful site. I’ve been wandering around here and miss your more intimate posts. Hoping you’ll include me on the password list. Voyeurist, but in the best most thoughtful ways.
164 Phyz // Apr 7, 2008 at 10:15 pm
Wow. I am so completely late to the party here. Grad school needs to stop kicking my ass so I can post things on time…or it just needs to stop kicking my ass. Whichever. ;-)
165 Carly // Apr 7, 2008 at 11:23 pm
Me too, please!
166 Sonya // Apr 8, 2008 at 12:58 pm
Please include me also. I have enjoyed reading your blog. Thank-you for sharing your life with us.
Sonya
167 Jill // Apr 8, 2008 at 9:37 pm
Por favor?
168 Deb // Apr 9, 2008 at 11:47 am
I just discovered your site, but I immediately became one of the “thousand girls sighing”. Please add me to the list.
169 weenis // Apr 9, 2008 at 4:17 pm
Thanks!
170 Lina // Apr 10, 2008 at 6:46 am
Yes please Sinclair x
171 vitium // Apr 11, 2008 at 1:37 pm
Great writing, great style.
Thank you!
172 Stephanie // Apr 11, 2008 at 3:44 pm
Please please please me
173 lifes.seduction // Apr 11, 2008 at 10:05 pm
A creeper I have been upon your breathtaking words and intellect… allow me to feel less creepy and grant me your gracious permission for a password.
174 Perdy // Apr 12, 2008 at 5:55 pm
I like to feel special.
175 r.y. // Apr 18, 2008 at 6:47 pm
add me. please.
176 Robin // Apr 21, 2008 at 4:59 pm
I think I tried this before, but I don’t think I ever got a password. Mebbe I did it wrong? Here’s me trying again. :)
177 Alea // Apr 24, 2008 at 8:50 pm
Oh, please please please may I have a password?
I’ll beg more if you want. But, really, I just recently found your blog and have fallen face-first in love. I’ve been reading your new posts even as I work my way backward, messing with chronology in a way that pleases my subversive nature.
Thank you! And, for the love of all things deliciously sexy, please keep writing! You’re wonderful.
178 Perdy // Apr 26, 2008 at 3:18 am
I forgots
179 Caitlyn // Apr 28, 2008 at 1:44 pm
Your blog is beautifully and intelligently written. Please add me to your password list!
180 Jaclyn // Apr 28, 2008 at 10:30 pm
I’d like to be included.
181 angelica // Apr 29, 2008 at 12:02 am
please add me to your password list!
182 Lori // Apr 29, 2008 at 3:40 pm
Hi SB, Sure would love to read those - didn’t get a password with my early request.
183 sk // Apr 30, 2008 at 1:15 am
i enjoy your writing greatly. may i have a password to read more?
184 Shaila // May 2, 2008 at 8:43 pm
I am intrigued… and I have spent the last hour reading various parts of your blog. May I have the honor?
185 boigal // May 3, 2008 at 11:28 pm
Love your writing, your boldness and honesty. Can I be added to your password list please?
186 radicaldoula // May 6, 2008 at 3:19 pm
Big fan of the blog, especially your discussions of masculinity, gender and relationships. Would love to learn more!
187 lovergirl // May 6, 2008 at 9:21 pm
Would you be so kind as to add me? I have read your blog for some time, I love waiting for each new posting. Thank you!!
188 JR // May 7, 2008 at 7:44 pm
Will you please add me to the password email list?
189 Daisy // May 8, 2008 at 12:47 am
Me too, if that’s okay. Love the blog.
190 alice // May 8, 2008 at 2:15 pm
i’d love to have the password. love what i’ve read so far.
191 Felice Newman // May 8, 2008 at 5:30 pm
Really enjoy your site!
Felice Newman
Cleis Press
192 em // May 10, 2008 at 2:51 pm
Reading you is helping me to focus myself. Thank you.
193 twoladiesinwaiting // May 12, 2008 at 9:56 am
Yet another lurker who wants more. Hee!
194 Kytherea // May 12, 2008 at 5:55 pm
Add me please. I really enjoy reading your blog. It feeds the bi-curious side of me. When the opportunity presents itself, the curious part will change to bi-WOW. lol
Ky
195 susan // May 12, 2008 at 7:01 pm
Yes, please, I would like to read more!
196 g8rlane // May 15, 2008 at 5:57 am
Yes! Add me please! Thanks!
197 Summer // May 15, 2008 at 11:42 am
I’ve been deployed for awhile and missed you & your writing….please add me.
198 Perdy // May 15, 2008 at 12:45 pm
Please I forgot it.
199 Miss Kimberly // May 16, 2008 at 12:15 am
Hi, queer femme here in Seattle that is a new reader to your blog….I would be honoured to be on your list. Thanks much!
200 lucrece // May 16, 2008 at 7:01 am
i would so love to have the password too!
201 bzzzzgrrrl // May 18, 2008 at 4:53 pm
Yes, please. I’m new to your blog, too, and just really love it.
202 eth // May 18, 2008 at 9:57 pm
enjoy your blog and would love a password.
203 l // May 20, 2008 at 2:06 am
hey, i would love to be added to your password protected list.
204 Natascia // May 20, 2008 at 2:26 am
I started a mock blog on Marjane Satrapi’s Persepolis for a school project, and that’s how I found you. I’ve since thought of starting a personal blog. I love the information about the community you provide. I live in Noho, and believe it or not, things are not good here.
So, pretty please, add me?
Smooches,
N
205 'ree // May 25, 2008 at 6:46 am
I’ve been reading your blog for a while now, Sinclair. I’m straight, but love to read about all things ..ehm…stimulating?
We could all learn a lot from each other. Please may I have a password?
Thanks..
‘ree
206 Luv2Lurk // May 29, 2008 at 12:37 am
been a lurker for awhile, would like to be on the list.
207 Eve // May 29, 2008 at 7:57 am
Love your writing, would love to read more.
208 Blue in the Sky // May 29, 2008 at 10:45 am
Me, me, me! I would love to be added to the list.
209 Ally // Jun 1, 2008 at 11:15 pm
i stumbled across your site the other night and spent about 4 hours reading older posts. as someone who’s been struggling to really own my femme/bottom identity, its been really great to check out your writings on gender binaries and labels. thanks so much for sharing your thoughts!
… and the erotica is fabulous too :)
210 ruby // Jun 2, 2008 at 12:35 am
password, please?
211 Maria // Jun 3, 2008 at 11:07 am
I would love to be allowed to read your password protected post.
212 Zoe // Jun 3, 2008 at 1:15 pm
Pretty please? This latest string of conversation just makes me more curious to see the whole picture. I promise to always/never comment, whichever you prefer.
213 Harri // Jun 3, 2008 at 4:04 pm
hi,
i’d like a password if that’d be ok. i’m really enjoying reading your blog.
h.
214 what happened in may // Jun 3, 2008 at 5:19 pm
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215 el cyd // Jun 3, 2008 at 6:17 pm
please.
216 Leah // Jun 3, 2008 at 11:39 pm
I love your site so much! Please add me!
217 sifier // Jun 4, 2008 at 1:23 am
pretty much i love you.
218 shiv // Jun 4, 2008 at 2:12 am
I started reading a few weeks ago, and I’m enjoying your words immensely…i would love to read all of them. Though I am a lurker, so if a password is out of the question, I fully understand.
219 Allison // Jun 4, 2008 at 5:32 am
I would love to be on the password protected list.
220 J9 // Jun 4, 2008 at 1:31 pm
Please and thank you…
221 AB // Jun 6, 2008 at 12:31 am
I would love to be added, please.
Thank you.
222 jaleelah // Jun 6, 2008 at 12:39 pm
I left my comment for getting the password in your post about all that happened in may, and then I wondered if I was supposed to leave it here instead. Anyway, I would love it since you’re still offering!
223 Paige // Jun 7, 2008 at 6:36 pm
Hi, I would love to have the password to access some of those protected entries. They’ve come highly recommended by friends as material that I would enjoy. Thanks!
224 Veronica // Jun 7, 2008 at 7:00 pm
I would love to know the password. I enjoy reading your material~~V
225 tattooedheart1 // Jun 8, 2008 at 11:34 pm
you might like to have a look at my musings at myspace and then you might even want to add me..
love your page and will visit again when I have some time to read everything…
Ms B
226 Jero // Jun 9, 2008 at 9:03 pm
What’s up man? I’m here to sign up to be #226, LOL. Thanks for all of the work you put into keeping this blog going. It’s a great queer resource and you should be proud.
Ciao, brother.
J
227 Desde // Jun 10, 2008 at 3:08 pm
If you wouldn’t mind, I would love to be on the password list, thanks.
Desde
228 MM // Jun 12, 2008 at 2:39 am
I’m glad I bumped into this blog. Can this intrigued femme have a password pretty please?
229 RJ // Jun 12, 2008 at 10:29 pm
Love your page…wish I was so brave…but I’d love a password
230 londonfemme // Jun 13, 2008 at 4:59 pm
Top! In the very British sense of the word. And in every other sense that really counts. Your password please, mister. Thanks awfully.
231 Cocoa // Jun 13, 2008 at 6:15 pm
I have been reading your blog for a while, and I am impressed with your writing and your expressions on what you think about being femme or butch. I would love to be added to the password list please.
232 Bevin // Jun 14, 2008 at 10:38 pm
I can’t believe Molly never told me about your blog! And also, you MUST listen to episode 2 of my podcast, the first segment is all about how important it is for queers to share our narratives and relationships and. Anyway. Your blog is fabulous and I am totally absorbed by it. xoxo!
233 Stephanie // Jun 15, 2008 at 5:08 pm
I just discovered your site today and I adore your voice. I’d love to read the password posts.
Thanks.
234 misstressp // Jun 15, 2008 at 10:24 pm
let me in… you know you wanna….
235 pb // Jun 16, 2008 at 12:30 am
your blog rocks! gives me lots to think about and about my own process. would love to read your pwd posts.
236 omnivore // Jun 16, 2008 at 9:50 pm
Just found your blog and enjoy reading about butches who appreciate femmes. Would love to be added to your top-seekrit posts.
237 pammo // Jun 16, 2008 at 11:33 pm
your writing is a pleasure…
238 likehoney // Jun 17, 2008 at 3:50 am
i just discovered you and your site and i adore. would love to be added to the password posts, thanks!
239 TCsPalace // Jun 18, 2008 at 2:24 am
I’m new to your site & I have been very entertained by your writing I’d like to see what else your thinking…
240 Jzosh // Jun 20, 2008 at 3:58 am
I am quite enamored of your blog, which never fails to give me something wonderful to think about.
241 ozpiratequeen // Jun 21, 2008 at 6:17 pm
Yes, please, count me in. The way you share your thinking helps me reflect on similar things in my own life and I really appreciate it. Plus scrolling through this list of women saying, “Please,” is a real turn-on…
242 Shelby