password protection
Posted on February 22, 2008 in colophon | 353 Comments
If you’d like to be included on the password email list, leave a comment with your email (and blog URL, if you have one) and I will update you with the password when I write a protected post.
I’ve written a few password-protected posts lately, mostly they are private journaling about my own process and thoughts, which is why they aren’t public.They are not some secret smut stories, or half-naked Thursday photos, though they may be, in the future.
I’m sure y’all know that I’m happy to reveal quite a lot about myself, though sometimes my own process feels not only self-indulgent but, occasionally, too intimate for the general internet public. Especially as this little writing project has gotten bigger and bigger, I seek a little more privacy on occasion.
But, on the other hand, personal self-reflection and processing is precisely why I started this writing project almost two years ago, and I gain such tremendous insight through writing out my process and my thoughts, as well as through the useful, constructive, responsive, and supportive comments. Sometimes readers have such insight into what’s up, and I so appreciate that feedback and conversation. Other times, readers tell me they are going exactly through the same thing, or that their girlfriends are just like me, and I find so much value in the sharing of our stories, in the places we are similar.
I don’t want to entirely lose the ability to write through my process here, but I had to do it slightly differently now that this site has grown. Hence, password protection.
Leave a comment if you’d like to be included on the mailing list to receive passwords in the future.
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February 22nd, 2008 @ 7:59 am
me too please! and ditto to the sentiment.
February 22nd, 2008 @ 10:39 am
you always make me blush, so I think it's your duty to include me on your password list.
February 22nd, 2008 @ 12:28 pm
I’d love to be on the password protected list; I’ve been lurking here for a while and your blog is hands down my favorite blog that I read, and I read a few :-)
February 22nd, 2008 @ 11:28 am
I so need to be included on this password list, I am so addicted to your blog.
February 22nd, 2008 @ 1:35 pm
Love the blog, I am sooooo glad I found it. I am starting over after being in a 10+ year relationship with a wonderful woman I adored. I tried to make it work but she didn't get me and never will. So, your blog has been a wonderful inspiration to me as I re-invent myself. I would like to be included on the password list if possible. Thank you very much.
February 22nd, 2008 @ 2:37 pm
yes please. lucimi@aol.com
February 22nd, 2008 @ 1:46 pm
I'd love to be included on the list, if that's okay. :) I'm a fairly new reader, but your blog is super awesome.
February 22nd, 2008 @ 3:00 pm
Please? :-)
February 22nd, 2008 @ 4:26 pm
Please, if you would.
February 22nd, 2008 @ 4:32 pm
please include me. I heart reading your site after my loooonnggg days chasing after sweet kiddies at private school. It helps me to remember I am not just defined by one thing.
February 22nd, 2008 @ 4:40 pm
Hook a girl up. Thanks you are
awesome! And thanks for inspiring Belle to start a blog!
February 22nd, 2008 @ 5:31 pm
So much for lurking…
~O
February 22nd, 2008 @ 10:26 pm
Can I have a password, please? I know of no one else who can make me so hot by writing about collar stays.
February 22nd, 2008 @ 10:38 pm
I’d love to be included. Though our blogs don’t have much in common, our thoughts do. I’d like to keep reading yours.
February 23rd, 2008 @ 1:06 am
please.
February 23rd, 2008 @ 9:19 am
count me in please. :)
February 23rd, 2008 @ 9:17 am
Duh.
February 23rd, 2008 @ 10:39 am
I would love to have a pass word. I enjoy reading what you write.
February 23rd, 2008 @ 4:51 pm
Would be lovely to get extra access to your private words. I feel this whole blog already is such a gift and I'm grateful to read this dialogue. I have much respect that you share so openly. Blessings and joy, D.
February 23rd, 2008 @ 6:36 pm
me, too.
February 23rd, 2008 @ 8:26 pm
pretty please? (bats eyelashes)
February 24th, 2008 @ 12:25 am
me too please
February 24th, 2008 @ 6:40 am
please..thanks!
February 24th, 2008 @ 7:20 am
Please?
February 24th, 2008 @ 7:26 am
If you wouldn't mind…this blog rocks!
February 24th, 2008 @ 11:39 am
yes please. your blog always make me think (among other things).
February 24th, 2008 @ 12:19 pm
Yes please! I'm such a lurker but your blog is so amazing! I've been raving about you to my friends.
February 24th, 2008 @ 7:54 pm
I'd be honored to have access. (But I will not be offended if you decide against it.)
February 24th, 2008 @ 8:54 pm
I'd love to be on the list, please.
February 24th, 2008 @ 10:17 pm
I love love love your blog, and would equally love a password.
Thanks!
ivy.shep@gmail.com
February 25th, 2008 @ 12:09 pm
yes please.
perfectgoodbye@gmail.com
February 25th, 2008 @ 1:18 pm
Would love the secret password – exciting!
February 25th, 2008 @ 5:19 pm
Clearly.
February 25th, 2008 @ 8:13 pm
I'd love the password!
February 25th, 2008 @ 9:47 pm
I, too, would very much like the password. :)
February 26th, 2008 @ 3:29 am
please!
February 26th, 2008 @ 9:54 am
Love your blog, can't believe you have dragged me from my lurkerdome, but I can't resist, too curious about password protected posts.
February 26th, 2008 @ 10:57 am
Absolutely. This blog was my discovery of the week. Really well-written and intelligent.
February 26th, 2008 @ 12:59 pm
hi.. very nice…
this is my work.. photos and videos…
http://www.ih23.tumblr.com
If you like you can put the link in your blog..
thanks
CARLOS CAFÉ
Brazil
February 26th, 2008 @ 2:25 pm
I personally like all of your writing, smut and personal musings. I never expected the password protected area to include the sexual arena, as that's what we've always counted on when we read the fabulous sinclair sexsmith. I feel special to be included in the inner thoughts and reflections, as they all speak to your faithful readers.
We all live, love, and need to ponder about it all, and count on your ponderings to relate to, reflect on, and identify with…
so never edit yourself, and if you need to protect yourself in the process in this virtual world, do so my dear
kim
February 26th, 2008 @ 3:17 pm
love your writing–please add me. depechemode913@gmail.com
February 26th, 2008 @ 3:51 pm
I would love to be included. Your reflections challenge and inspire me. I don't have a blog, but I'd be willing to give you my realname email address for collateral :)
February 26th, 2008 @ 4:11 pm
Thanks for asking, and yes, please, absolutely. Love your posts; reading them is like receiving little writing gifts. =)
February 26th, 2008 @ 6:05 pm
The password lists grows…and I always enjoy your writing and stories and rants so please add me to the list. Thanks!
February 27th, 2008 @ 4:04 am
Sinclair, I would be so grateful to be included on your personal thoughts. A year and a half ago, I gave up straight life for bliss with a beautiful butch woman, and your ideas about gender and more have already been so helpful to me (been reading about 2 weeks). I don't want to miss a word.
February 27th, 2008 @ 5:40 am
I love your writing, both for the smut and the personal thoughts you process here. I would be grateful for a chance to read more. :)
February 27th, 2008 @ 6:12 am
hi sinclair your thought processes and writing on gender/ identity strike chords with me from time to time (very often, in fact) and i'd love to be in on the list :) thanks
February 27th, 2008 @ 12:29 pm
I really enjoy reading your blog and would like to read all of your entries. I think (and talk) about gender and sexuality a lot and am always interested in your thoughts! Thanks.
February 27th, 2008 @ 5:58 pm
Thanks in advance!
February 27th, 2008 @ 8:33 pm
Still thinking over your post (about a week after reading it) re: butch/femme dynamics as it would apply to me, a newly-out Latina who is trying to get away from the overt femininity demanded by my ethnicity. I wonder if I will ever choose to be feminine again or if I will embrace the masculine, as you have. Please keep writing. Your posts are incredibly thought-provoking.
[Thank you! Keep in mind of course that there are many, many different parts of the gender galaxy, and you certainly don't have to be one-or-the-other in part of the masculine/feminine binary. Obviously I've got a bit of a binary-gender-fetish, but that's just me, that's certainly not everyone. And, in fact, I'm definitely in the minority when it comes to the dyke communities. // My advice (not that you asked for it) is to play with it, try it on, dress up, do what feels good, and let it be fluid, because it might change at any time. The experimenting can be fun! People will probably give you shit about it, but fuck them. // Oh, & one more thing - this makes me think of this quote I have on my fridge: "Believe nothing, no matter who said it, not even if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense." (I believe that's attributed to the Buddha.) -- ss]
February 28th, 2008 @ 12:31 am
sinclair. i’d love to read more of your writing.
on another note, i took your recommendations. i purchased both the feeldoe and Mr. Silky. I packed for the first time ever last weekend, and on a first date no less! it was fabulously arousing to me. i never thought that it would feel so much a part of me. i found myself touching myself through my jeans, leaning into counters, shifting my stance and no lie, i felt every ripple, every brief touch as if the dick had been mine all my life! my clit ached at any contact!
i have found that i now have a heightened masculine energy that seeks to “penetrate” the women i’m seeing. a hunger to “have” them that is new, overpowering and has me jerking off often. thanks for the reviews and guidance.
S3
[Wow - intense! And SO hot! I'm thrilled to hear that you're having a good time with the Silky and packing - feel free to send more details or update me/us in the future. How'd the date go? :) - ss]
February 28th, 2008 @ 6:45 am
I am a great admirer of your writing and would very much like to have the password, if that's ok?
Thankyou!
February 28th, 2008 @ 8:21 am
another lurker here, pretty please may i have a password?
February 28th, 2008 @ 9:52 am
I just recently found your blog and would love to be included on the password protected list.
up4achallenge@hotmail.com
Thanks,
challenge
February 28th, 2008 @ 10:54 am
Ooh! Ooh! Pick me! Can I know the secret password?
I've been reading for a short while, and I look forward to hearing your thoughts. It's lovely to hear such eloquent thoughts on the gender binary, and such hot thoughts on last thursday.
Thanks for sharing!
February 28th, 2008 @ 5:57 pm
password, yes. luv, mikey
February 28th, 2008 @ 8:53 pm
I enjoy your writing… thanks for sharing.
February 29th, 2008 @ 8:29 am
i love your blog. password please. thanks, ra
February 29th, 2008 @ 9:59 am
please add me to ur password list.
February 29th, 2008 @ 1:17 pm
I'd be honored to be included.
February 29th, 2008 @ 6:40 pm
I don't think I've ever seen this many comments on someone's blog before!
Anyway — yes, please let me know the password as well.
Thanks!
February 29th, 2008 @ 7:31 pm
i enjoy your blog a lot and would love to be have the password, if that's alright. :)
March 1st, 2008 @ 10:28 am
pick me please.
March 1st, 2008 @ 1:40 pm
I've only recently found your blog, but I have really enjoyed your writing and your views on femme, butch, gender in general, sex, et cetera. It would please me greatly to have the password for your protected posts.
Many thanks,
Sair
March 1st, 2008 @ 7:07 pm
Found your blog a couple of months ago, and really enjoy reading you. Can I also be added?
March 2nd, 2008 @ 2:51 am
I would like to read them, if you will allow me to. I have been reading along for a few months and you’ve given me a lot to think about.
March 2nd, 2008 @ 12:00 pm
ditto
March 2nd, 2008 @ 12:27 pm
Progressing is good!
March 2nd, 2008 @ 1:06 pm
Yes please.
March 2nd, 2008 @ 4:59 pm
I'd love to be passworded in.
March 2nd, 2008 @ 7:30 pm
DJoy did me the largest favor by introducing me to your really really potent writting. Cheers, M
March 2nd, 2008 @ 7:55 pm
I would like to read them too, if that’s cool with you. Your blog is a recent find for me but its a keeper…
March 2nd, 2008 @ 7:57 pm
Yes please x
March 2nd, 2008 @ 8:01 pm
please include me, if you could.
March 2nd, 2008 @ 10:32 pm
Love your blog and would love to be on the super secret list of password secretude!
March 3rd, 2008 @ 12:47 am
I really wanted to make a "show me yours I'll show you mine" joke here, but you've already seen mine. Damn.
March 3rd, 2008 @ 12:33 pm
I’d love to be passworded in.
March 3rd, 2008 @ 4:24 pm
I think that you're amazing! Please send me password updates:-)
March 4th, 2008 @ 5:13 am
yes, please?
March 4th, 2008 @ 2:35 pm
If you would not mind, I would like to be able to read your password protected posts. Not only am I a huge fan of your blog, but both times I’ve met you I’ve been quite impressed with _you_. You’re good folks.
March 4th, 2008 @ 2:24 pm
I think what you are doing here is starting a dialogue and revealing thoughts about the grey areas not many people notice, but for those who live in them, every new dimension revealed is multifaceted and wonderful. Your blog has been a favorite spot of mine for a while, to both enjoy and ponder. It would be an honor to continue reading.
March 4th, 2008 @ 6:33 pm
I love your blog, it's a great way for me to get into the mind of a true butch. Now if only I could find one just like you! But until then could this femme also be included in your password protected updates please?
March 4th, 2008 @ 7:30 pm
another long-time lurker looking to be added!
March 5th, 2008 @ 6:38 am
long time reader, first time responding..pls add me your stories are so intens and honest..I love them!
March 5th, 2008 @ 11:21 am
I'd love to have a password
March 5th, 2008 @ 1:39 pm
total lurker, but please add me?
March 5th, 2008 @ 4:42 pm
i'd love to get the password. am a big fan. thanks.
March 5th, 2008 @ 11:19 pm
I love your blog. Your thoughts and musings are very interesting to a baby femme.
Thanks.
March 6th, 2008 @ 7:01 am
I like the website… I'd love to get a password, although I'm not the participatiest of folk. ^^
March 6th, 2008 @ 7:52 am
can I get the password for the earlier posts, too?
love the blog!
novack_r[at]yahoo.com
March 6th, 2008 @ 2:47 pm
Can I please have the passwords for the protected posts
March 6th, 2008 @ 3:00 pm
I would love to be on your super secret list. I love your style!
March 6th, 2008 @ 6:12 pm
i would really like the password, if that's ok. i absolutely adore reading your blog. ^^
March 7th, 2008 @ 7:24 am
I'd like to be included too!
March 8th, 2008 @ 5:16 pm
I was trying to not ask for the pasword. I figured if you wanted everyone to read it, it wouldn’t be password protected. But curiosity killed the cat. I would love to have it, if I may? I should have known I couldn’t hold out for too long. *sigh* =)
March 8th, 2008 @ 5:32 pm
more stunning writing? and lusty tales of woe and wet? count me IN.
March 8th, 2008 @ 9:43 pm
Yes, yes please.
March 9th, 2008 @ 6:21 pm
I’m late to the game, but may I be included?
March 9th, 2008 @ 7:11 pm
Send it on.
March 10th, 2008 @ 8:25 am
I'm a fan, would love the password.
March 10th, 2008 @ 3:51 pm
wow i've been behind on this site. i would very much like the insight into your protected entries but leave it up to you to decide.
March 10th, 2008 @ 10:50 pm
Sinclair–
I, too, am late in the game. And I, too, would be honored. Because I’ve loved this site ever since I first stumbled across it, and because my gender questioning/femme-loving self delights. (I find it funny that despite your very easy-going attitude towards the passwords, it took me several beers to get up the courage to post a comment and ask if I could read what you have written.)
Oh so many thanks.
March 11th, 2008 @ 10:54 pm
Getting the passwords would be super cool. No, really, super cool.
March 12th, 2008 @ 2:27 am
Can I become number 104 and ask to subscribe your rightly so protected entries?
Can I suggest that breaking up is even harder when your country recoginses you as a common law couple? There are moments when I pause and wonder if there were no such laws, breaking up would be afar simpler process.
Thank you
March 13th, 2008 @ 3:29 am
if you don't mind, i'd really like to be able to read your protected posts. i already take too much time out of my work day to read your blog, why not go all the way.
my blog's in norwegian, by the way. yes, you have international fans!
March 13th, 2008 @ 3:38 pm
…
March 13th, 2008 @ 3:07 pm
i'm in.
March 14th, 2008 @ 7:40 am
hvala lepa – thanks
March 14th, 2008 @ 1:22 pm
please.
March 14th, 2008 @ 5:30 pm
Hey Sinclair,
Also late in the game: my curiosity can’t be contained anymore: I’d love the password!
Thanks!
ps: Your blog is the first thing I read in the morning, after checking my email! Keep it up!
March 14th, 2008 @ 5:32 pm
password, please :)
March 14th, 2008 @ 4:38 pm
Your blog is part of my drinking coffee and waking up in the morning routine!
March 15th, 2008 @ 7:00 am
Add me, por favor.
March 15th, 2008 @ 9:19 am
Hi Sinclair,
Could I have the password, please? Love your blog. Thanks! :-)
March 15th, 2008 @ 5:10 pm
I'd like to be on the list, please, thank you.
March 16th, 2008 @ 10:38 am
I totally lost the password :(
March 16th, 2008 @ 12:09 pm
Yes, please. :)
March 16th, 2008 @ 10:35 pm
Yes please. Love your blog! Thanks!
March 17th, 2008 @ 4:48 am
yes, please!
March 17th, 2008 @ 8:14 am
Yes, please. thanks!
March 17th, 2008 @ 10:05 am
please add me to your list
March 17th, 2008 @ 1:06 pm
I'd love to be on your password list. I'm so very glad to find a place where labels are claimed proudly. I'm a femme and I love my butchgrrl. I wouldn't change our dynamic at all, though I've gotten hassled for being in the "dark ages".
March 17th, 2008 @ 2:57 pm
Yes please?
March 18th, 2008 @ 1:02 am
I just adore reading your blogs.
I devour them as quickly as possible.
Then go back for seconds.
And thirds.
Orrrr whenever the mood strikes.
Please scribble me onto that password list.
ps
I am looooooving the pictures of the butches!!
March 18th, 2008 @ 4:56 pm
Oh, let me get on the bottom of that list too! (no pun intended.)
Keep writing!
March 19th, 2008 @ 4:58 pm
Password?
March 20th, 2008 @ 10:34 am
me too !
March 21st, 2008 @ 6:33 am
Intrigued.
March 22nd, 2008 @ 6:23 pm
Just listened to the Saturday night replay on Diana's show. Wow! Please please please allow me to view your password protected blogs. I submit to your will…
March 23rd, 2008 @ 8:19 am
please, me
March 23rd, 2008 @ 6:49 pm
me too, please.
March 25th, 2008 @ 12:08 pm
please and thank you!
March 25th, 2008 @ 2:45 pm
oh, yes! i can't believe it took me this long to ask for it.
March 25th, 2008 @ 6:33 pm
I, too, would like a password. I've been lurking on your site since Lesbiandad linked to you (if you've been wondering who from the US Securities and Exchange Commission has been hanging around, that would be me). I also introduced you to some friends in Maine.
March 26th, 2008 @ 4:43 pm
You have made me laugh, cry and blush. I miss your thoughts. Please may I have a password.
March 27th, 2008 @ 6:11 am
may I be added please?
March 27th, 2008 @ 1:02 pm
As you seem so often to write about the ideas my butch friends and I discuss (butch flight indeed), I think it only fair that I have a password – just to see how similarly "this gender stuff" translates across the Pacific…
March 27th, 2008 @ 1:11 pm
I'd love the password, I always look forward to your new posts with eager anticipation.
March 28th, 2008 @ 3:01 pm
yes please fridakahlo78@hotmail.com :D
March 28th, 2008 @ 6:45 pm
Got around to posting any of those half-naked Thursday photos yet? Either way, I'd be both interested and honored to share some of you more private posts.
Sara
March 30th, 2008 @ 2:19 am
I absolutely love your writing and your take on butch-femme – would love to be added to the password list. thankyou!
March 30th, 2008 @ 6:19 am
Oh, please include me on the password list, I adore your blog. Always look forward to what you have to say.
March 30th, 2008 @ 8:14 pm
Yes please? I just found you, and I already have a feeling you'll be at the top of my favourite blogs by, um, the end of tomorrowish.
March 31st, 2008 @ 6:45 am
Am an unabashed lurker, but would love to have the password–lots of good thinking here.
March 31st, 2008 @ 12:22 pm
Yes Please? I recently just found your blog and I love it.
March 31st, 2008 @ 3:22 pm
Hi Sinclair,
you sent me a password a few weeks ago, but it didn't seem to work today?! it was:
w*** s****
If there is a new password, please send it to me. Thanks!
March 31st, 2008 @ 3:25 pm
OOPS! thought I'd try the password again and it worked. Sorry for any confusion.
March 31st, 2008 @ 5:14 pm
Just a lurker and I don't have a blog myself, but I love reading yours. Would like to get a password. Thanks!
March 31st, 2008 @ 7:44 pm
awesome awesome site. please add me to your list, please.
April 2nd, 2008 @ 10:57 am
best darn queer site, ever! i would love to gain access to your entire site–thanks
April 2nd, 2008 @ 3:30 pm
delurking for a password, please.
April 2nd, 2008 @ 6:28 pm
You are bringing life to a California Butch in Kansas!
April 2nd, 2008 @ 8:52 pm
Password?
April 2nd, 2008 @ 10:39 pm
Great blog! I love hearing thoughts and stories that are so familiar. Please include me in your password list.
Thanks!
April 3rd, 2008 @ 6:36 pm
Yes, please. Thanks
April 4th, 2008 @ 3:38 am
I can't believe I have never asked to be included in this before. :)
April 4th, 2008 @ 2:00 pm
May I have a password please? Thanks.
April 5th, 2008 @ 8:17 am
I would love to be counted among the password privy. I have been subscribed to your blog for some time and enjoy your writings so much. I simply can no longer resist…
Blessings.
April 6th, 2008 @ 3:36 pm
I would love to have the password. This blog rocks my socks off!
April 6th, 2008 @ 5:11 pm
please send me your password
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Bad Bad Girl has put up a great picture
of her for your Birthday
April 6th, 2008 @ 6:45 pm
Beautiful site. I've been wandering around here and miss your more intimate posts. Hoping you'll include me on the password list. Voyeurist, but in the best most thoughtful ways.
April 7th, 2008 @ 5:15 pm
Wow. I am so completely late to the party here. Grad school needs to stop kicking my ass so I can post things on time…or it just needs to stop kicking my ass. Whichever. ;-)
April 7th, 2008 @ 6:23 pm
Me too, please!
April 8th, 2008 @ 7:58 am
Please include me also. I have enjoyed reading your blog. Thank-you for sharing your life with us.
Sonya
April 8th, 2008 @ 4:37 pm
Por favor?
April 9th, 2008 @ 6:47 am
I just discovered your site, but I immediately became one of the "thousand girls sighing". Please add me to the list.
April 9th, 2008 @ 11:17 am
Thanks!
April 10th, 2008 @ 1:46 am
Yes please Sinclair x
April 11th, 2008 @ 8:37 am
Great writing, great style.
Thank you!
April 11th, 2008 @ 10:44 am
Please please please me
April 11th, 2008 @ 5:05 pm
A creeper I have been upon your breathtaking words and intellect… allow me to feel less creepy and grant me your gracious permission for a password.
April 12th, 2008 @ 12:55 pm
I like to feel special.
April 18th, 2008 @ 1:47 pm
add me. please.
April 21st, 2008 @ 11:59 am
I think I tried this before, but I don't think I ever got a password. Mebbe I did it wrong? Here's me trying again. :)
April 24th, 2008 @ 3:50 pm
Oh, please please please may I have a password?
I'll beg more if you want. But, really, I just recently found your blog and have fallen face-first in love. I've been reading your new posts even as I work my way backward, messing with chronology in a way that pleases my subversive nature.
Thank you! And, for the love of all things deliciously sexy, please keep writing! You're wonderful.
April 26th, 2008 @ 3:18 am
I forgots
April 28th, 2008 @ 1:44 pm
Your blog is beautifully and intelligently written. Please add me to your password list!
April 28th, 2008 @ 10:30 pm
I’d like to be included.
April 29th, 2008 @ 12:02 am
please add me to your password list!
April 29th, 2008 @ 3:40 pm
Hi SB, Sure would love to read those – didn’t get a password with my early request.
April 30th, 2008 @ 1:15 am
i enjoy your writing greatly. may i have a password to read more?
May 2nd, 2008 @ 3:43 pm
I am intrigued… and I have spent the last hour reading various parts of your blog. May I have the honor?
May 3rd, 2008 @ 6:28 pm
Love your writing, your boldness and honesty. Can I be added to your password list please?
May 6th, 2008 @ 10:19 am
Big fan of the blog, especially your discussions of masculinity, gender and relationships. Would love to learn more!
May 6th, 2008 @ 4:21 pm
Would you be so kind as to add me? I have read your blog for some time, I love waiting for each new posting. Thank you!!
May 7th, 2008 @ 2:44 pm
Will you please add me to the password email list?
May 7th, 2008 @ 7:47 pm
Me too, if that's okay. Love the blog.
May 8th, 2008 @ 12:30 pm
Really enjoy your site!
Felice Newman
Cleis Press
May 8th, 2008 @ 2:15 pm
i’d love to have the password. love what i’ve read so far.
May 10th, 2008 @ 9:51 am
Reading you is helping me to focus myself. Thank you.
May 12th, 2008 @ 4:56 am
Yet another lurker who wants more. Hee!
May 12th, 2008 @ 12:55 pm
Add me please. I really enjoy reading your blog. It feeds the bi-curious side of me. When the opportunity presents itself, the curious part will change to bi-WOW. lol
Ky
May 12th, 2008 @ 2:01 pm
Yes, please, I would like to read more!
May 15th, 2008 @ 12:57 am
Yes! Add me please! Thanks!
May 15th, 2008 @ 6:42 am
I've been deployed for awhile and missed you & your writing….please add me.
May 15th, 2008 @ 7:45 am
Please I forgot it.
May 15th, 2008 @ 7:15 pm
Hi, queer femme here in Seattle that is a new reader to your blog….I would be honoured to be on your list. Thanks much!
May 16th, 2008 @ 2:01 am
i would so love to have the password too!
May 18th, 2008 @ 11:53 am
Yes, please. I'm new to your blog, too, and just really love it.
May 18th, 2008 @ 4:57 pm
enjoy your blog and would love a password.
May 19th, 2008 @ 9:06 pm
hey, i would love to be added to your password protected list.
May 19th, 2008 @ 9:26 pm
I started a mock blog on Marjane Satrapi's Persepolis for a school project, and that's how I found you. I've since thought of starting a personal blog. I love the information about the community you provide. I live in Noho, and believe it or not, things are not good here.
So, pretty please, add me?
Smooches,
N
May 25th, 2008 @ 1:46 am
I've been reading your blog for a while now, Sinclair. I'm straight, but love to read about all things ..ehm…stimulating?
We could all learn a lot from each other. Please may I have a password?
Thanks..
'ree
May 28th, 2008 @ 7:37 pm
been a lurker for awhile, would like to be on the list.
May 29th, 2008 @ 2:57 am
Love your writing, would love to read more.
May 29th, 2008 @ 5:45 am
Me, me, me! I would love to be added to the list.
June 1st, 2008 @ 6:15 pm
i stumbled across your site the other night and spent about 4 hours reading older posts. as someone who's been struggling to really own my femme/bottom identity, its been really great to check out your writings on gender binaries and labels. thanks so much for sharing your thoughts!
… and the erotica is fabulous too :)
June 1st, 2008 @ 7:35 pm
password, please?
June 3rd, 2008 @ 6:07 am
I would love to be allowed to read your password protected post.
June 3rd, 2008 @ 8:15 am
Pretty please? This latest string of conversation just makes me more curious to see the whole picture. I promise to always/never comment, whichever you prefer.
June 3rd, 2008 @ 11:04 am
hi,
i'd like a password if that'd be ok. i'm really enjoying reading your blog.
h.
June 3rd, 2008 @ 1:17 pm
please.
June 3rd, 2008 @ 6:39 pm
I love your site so much! Please add me!
June 3rd, 2008 @ 8:23 pm
pretty much i love you.
June 3rd, 2008 @ 9:12 pm
I started reading a few weeks ago, and I'm enjoying your words immensely…i would love to read all of them. Though I am a lurker, so if a password is out of the question, I fully understand.
June 4th, 2008 @ 12:32 am
I would love to be on the password protected list.
June 4th, 2008 @ 8:31 am
Please and thank you…
June 5th, 2008 @ 7:31 pm
I would love to be added, please.
Thank you.
June 6th, 2008 @ 7:39 am
I left my comment for getting the password in your post about all that happened in may, and then I wondered if I was supposed to leave it here instead. Anyway, I would love it since you're still offering!
June 7th, 2008 @ 1:36 pm
Hi, I would love to have the password to access some of those protected entries. They've come highly recommended by friends as material that I would enjoy. Thanks!
June 7th, 2008 @ 2:00 pm
I would love to know the password. I enjoy reading your material~~V
June 8th, 2008 @ 6:34 pm
you might like to have a look at my musings at myspace and then you might even want to add me..
love your page and will visit again when I have some time to read everything…
Ms B
June 9th, 2008 @ 4:03 pm
What's up man? I'm here to sign up to be #226, LOL. Thanks for all of the work you put into keeping this blog going. It's a great queer resource and you should be proud.
Ciao, brother.
J
June 10th, 2008 @ 10:08 am
If you wouldn't mind, I would love to be on the password list, thanks.
Desde
June 11th, 2008 @ 9:39 pm
I'm glad I bumped into this blog. Can this intrigued femme have a password pretty please?
June 12th, 2008 @ 5:29 pm
Love your page…wish I was so brave…but I'd love a password
June 13th, 2008 @ 11:59 am
Top! In the very British sense of the word. And in every other sense that really counts. Your password please, mister. Thanks awfully.
June 13th, 2008 @ 1:15 pm
I have been reading your blog for a while, and I am impressed with your writing and your expressions on what you think about being femme or butch. I would love to be added to the password list please.
June 15th, 2008 @ 12:08 pm
I just discovered your site today and I adore your voice. I'd love to read the password posts.
Thanks.
June 15th, 2008 @ 5:24 pm
let me in… you know you wanna….
June 15th, 2008 @ 7:30 pm
your blog rocks! gives me lots to think about and about my own process. would love to read your pwd posts.
June 16th, 2008 @ 4:50 pm
Just found your blog and enjoy reading about butches who appreciate femmes. Would love to be added to your top-seekrit posts.
June 16th, 2008 @ 6:33 pm
your writing is a pleasure…
June 16th, 2008 @ 10:50 pm
i just discovered you and your site and i adore. would love to be added to the password posts, thanks!
June 17th, 2008 @ 9:24 pm
I'm new to your site & I have been very entertained by your writing I'd like to see what else your thinking…
June 19th, 2008 @ 10:58 pm
I am quite enamored of your blog, which never fails to give me something wonderful to think about.
June 21st, 2008 @ 6:17 pm
Yes, please, count me in. The way you share your thinking helps me reflect on similar things in my own life and I really appreciate it. Plus scrolling through this list of women saying, “Please,” is a real turn-on…
June 23rd, 2008 @ 12:55 am
Would love to join those who get to read all you share. Have really enjoyed reading all the honesty and heat so far. Thanks for putting yourself out there
June 23rd, 2008 @ 11:33 pm
darlin’ i’d love to be password protected and privy to all the dirty little secrets or not so secrets you like to share. love to get to know more about a fellow exhibitionist.
June 25th, 2008 @ 12:09 pm
Yes please! I'd love to have the password.
June 26th, 2008 @ 11:27 am
I would love to have the password.
June 27th, 2008 @ 1:37 pm
it did work.
now it doesn’t!
is there a new one?
June 27th, 2008 @ 2:25 pm
I am officially addicted. May I have the password? Pretty please with strappy sandals on top?
June 27th, 2008 @ 5:35 pm
Yes, please.
June 27th, 2008 @ 6:32 pm
You're blog is wonderful, but your poetry, when you share with us, is sublime.
Would be honored to be added to your password protected posts.
Yours,
Zofia
June 28th, 2008 @ 4:14 pm
pretty please?
June 28th, 2008 @ 5:34 pm
Please may I have the password?
June 29th, 2008 @ 12:24 pm
you mean there is more? then i definitely want more. please?
June 30th, 2008 @ 8:20 am
I love reading your blog, could I have the password for more?
July 4th, 2008 @ 9:49 am
I'd like to read the password-protected posts. What's in there? {knock knock}
July 5th, 2008 @ 3:36 am
Please send me a password!!!!
July 5th, 2008 @ 6:53 am
Would love to be on the list. This is HOT HOT HOT ! Also I finely linked to this site from my site.
THANKS FOR CREATING THIS WONDERFUL SPACE!!!
butchlove
July 5th, 2008 @ 6:58 am
Hello Sinclair, it's me again I could'nt fined your e-mai to let you know I put a link up at my site for you .I also pulled your top graphic for the link i hope thats ok?
Thanks again
July 5th, 2008 @ 6:39 pm
Been lurking for a couple months and your blog has become a favorite read. I'd certainly love the password. :]
July 6th, 2008 @ 11:28 am
Yes please! I have been lurking on your blog for a while now and find it interesting and thought provoking.
July 7th, 2008 @ 8:56 pm
Hello! I think you are relentlessly sexy! I want to read everything!
July 8th, 2008 @ 2:49 pm
I adore your blog: the compelling conversation, brilliant insights, and smart, shining style. and the hot, hot sex.
You have me curious and I want to read it all!
(and, wow, I completely botched my lj address the first attempt!)
July 8th, 2008 @ 4:08 pm
i can't get enough. i want more.
July 9th, 2008 @ 4:19 am
Hey Sinclair,
Would love to be included in your password protected writings. Been lurking for some time and always marvel at how you stimulate my mind and my crutch far better than any other blog I know …
July 9th, 2008 @ 7:15 am
I'd love to be on your password list… your site is fast becoming one of my favourites.
July 10th, 2008 @ 9:13 am
Hi there :) I'd love to be included on the list if you don't mind.
July 10th, 2008 @ 4:23 pm
oh you bet i want to have the password…i'm a writer of erotic experience as well and love your work
July 10th, 2008 @ 11:55 pm
Hey, I absolutely adore the blog and would love to be on the password list if possible. Thanks! :)
July 11th, 2008 @ 12:57 pm
yes please, can't wait to read more
July 12th, 2008 @ 6:26 am
LOVE your blog! Your erotica writing is incredibly hot and far surpasses the book of lesbian erotica I just ordered from Babeland. I also appreciate your discourse on gender identity–I love that I can come here and get either physically OR mentally stimulated.
Can I please, please have the password?
thank you!
xoxo, sylvie
July 12th, 2008 @ 9:55 am
Please send me a password
July 12th, 2008 @ 3:18 pm
may i please have a password for your private blogs?
July 13th, 2008 @ 3:46 pm
I've been devouring so many posts today, my first day reading here. Would love to see more.
July 15th, 2008 @ 5:42 pm
i just found your blog. it's fantastic to read other insights on gender issues. thanks so much for sharing!
July 17th, 2008 @ 9:59 pm
Yes please.
July 18th, 2008 @ 8:22 am
love the blog and would love to read more!
July 18th, 2008 @ 11:34 am
Hey ShuGah…I feel yo' flow…and would respectfully like to be added…peace!!!
July 19th, 2008 @ 12:04 pm
Just great. Love your style of writing. Cant seem to get enough. Would like to be added to the private blogs. Thanks for sharing.
July 20th, 2008 @ 4:17 pm
Fairly new to your site, but your writing is engaging and powerful. I'd love to be added to the password list so I can continue to read!
Thanks in advance!
July 20th, 2008 @ 5:56 pm
long time listener first time caller. thank you for your writing these last few years.
July 21st, 2008 @ 7:39 pm
I just found this blog and I've really enjoyed reading it. You give a lot of food for thought, especially as I've been playing with my own gender more recently. I find that I've been identifying more and more with femme expression, and reconciling that with some of my older tendencies has been an interesting and enlightening experience.
Thanks for all that you put out there !
July 22nd, 2008 @ 4:49 am
Could I be on there too please?
July 22nd, 2008 @ 6:32 pm
This femme is intrigued. Pretty please, may I see more?
July 22nd, 2008 @ 6:42 pm
Your writing is inspirational and empowering. My confidence has grown through your experiences. Thank you for sharing.
July 23rd, 2008 @ 12:34 pm
Your writing is a delicious treasure and deeply satisfying to me. May I please have the password?
July 24th, 2008 @ 11:59 am
after reading your words day in and day out, i'm as curious as can be. satiate me. (please.)
July 27th, 2008 @ 5:42 pm
Love, Love, Love your blog. Just found it a few days ago and have been reading non stop. PLEASE include me for passwords!! Thx.
July 28th, 2008 @ 8:45 am
Please add me to the list.
And if you have a livejournal account, please let me know your username. All my juicy stuff (especially my smutty outfit pictures, hooray!) is locked to my LJ friends only.
Thanks. :)
Peggy Sue
July 30th, 2008 @ 9:58 am
if you have a livejournal account friend me and i'll put you on mine too.
August 1st, 2008 @ 7:56 am
Great blog. Just read your Bully story after your last post. Very hot! Thanks for sharing!
Would love to be allowed to read the password-protected posts as well.
August 1st, 2008 @ 4:37 pm
Hey Sinclair, I’m so hooked to your writing I feel unfaithfull to the woman I’m in love with, I’m not so sure the password is a good idea for me, but it’s late and I’ve had a bit too much champagne, so please, please – and even without the password, sincerely – THANK YOU. Where I live we don’t make such gender distinctions but you’ve given me some much needed insights into the “butch” mental scheme – that’s awfully generalizing sorry – but I’m so “femme” I could be a trans, and again, where I live there’s no other way to be, and suddenly, I see some answers, and explanations… and what you write is fucking hot, which is rare in a woman. Please more.
August 4th, 2008 @ 10:54 am
hi sugarbutch,
love your blog. would love to get the password and to read more hot wunderful inspiring stuff about live, love, passion and other odds and ends.
greets, lilly*
August 4th, 2008 @ 8:59 pm
i'd love to be added to the list too! thanks!
August 7th, 2008 @ 12:46 pm
thanks!
August 7th, 2008 @ 1:24 pm
I'd love to be added to your password list.
August 8th, 2008 @ 3:06 pm
I have been finally pouring over your blog for the last few hours. I've been reading recent stuff for a little while now, but the new Contest has me reading more of your erotica.
I just came reading the winner of last year's contest.
May I please be added to the list? Thank you..
August 15th, 2008 @ 5:23 am
Mmm……Pretty please, with lollipops on top? ;)
August 15th, 2008 @ 5:19 pm
please please please include me on your password email list. at 45, I have recently met a femme who has knocked my socks off so far that I am realizing how I have suppressed my butch self most of my adult life…and I have so much to learn and embrace…your blog and my feelings for this girl have really opened my eyes. thanks.
August 16th, 2008 @ 6:46 am
I'd love to be added to the list. I recently discovered this blog and I love it :) Thank you!
August 16th, 2008 @ 9:36 am
i just found your site and love the way you write – definitely wanna be on the password list.
August 19th, 2008 @ 7:06 pm
i totally want to be added…thanks
August 20th, 2008 @ 9:05 am
yes please, love your writing!
August 20th, 2008 @ 11:52 am
Would hate to think I couldn't be privy to every part of your beautiful words.
Please add me?
Betty
August 23rd, 2008 @ 2:40 pm
May I have the password please?
Your writing is amazing.
Were you at the Femme Conference?
Did I meet you?
August 24th, 2008 @ 1:03 am
Love your blog! I want to read all of it :)
August 24th, 2008 @ 6:51 pm
Recently discovered the value of writing, but a few message boards and a blog comment here and there is all I can brave so far.
Don't have a url/blog yet. I'm still too scared.
Your openess blows my mind
and leaves me wanting more.
Password please?
August 25th, 2008 @ 4:45 am
Just found you and would love to be added to your password list. Can't wait to read more.
August 26th, 2008 @ 11:55 am
glad you liked the pic's . If you need more . please add me to the password list
August 27th, 2008 @ 9:21 pm
I'm a new – and enamored! – reader who would love to be added to your password list.
August 28th, 2008 @ 1:21 pm
I love your work! I would love to learn more about you. Please do add me to your password protected list.
August 29th, 2008 @ 8:04 pm
love this site it has quickley become my favorite site online
August 31st, 2008 @ 2:15 pm
Add me to the list, I’ve often stumbled across your site while searching for butch related things and now I’m rather on the addicted side.
August 31st, 2008 @ 10:34 pm
Hey, I heard your interview with Ellie at Bedroom Radio and I found it fascinating.
I am an erotica author and I find that lately my stories have begun to poke into questions of sex and gender, so I’d like to have access to your private posts.
September 1st, 2008 @ 8:43 am
There was a young lass called Gerlinky
Who was partial to things that were kinky
Wrote a note to Sinclair
Requesting permission to share
But heard nowt … should I have asked a little more meekly?
OK, it's lame.
But I'm in such limbo.
Do I need to go down … and beg?
September 1st, 2008 @ 4:54 pm
Love the site it has quickley become my favorite site online
September 4th, 2008 @ 9:18 am
Please add me to your password protected list. I found you because I was looking for a bra, read your post on breasts, then an hour & many posts later read the post where you talked about the gender galaxy. I love that you referenced Dylan’s (yeah trannymal!) gender ideas and am an enthusiast of multi-gendered identities. You are smart and funny…all good!
September 6th, 2008 @ 7:44 am
I'd love to be added to the password protected list. I really enjoy your site, particularly the gender explorations you go through. As a femme who is only recently being consistently read as visibly lesbian, mainly through hanging out in queer spaces, I really loved the post about the recent femme conference. Wish I could have gone, but transatlantic flights aren't exactly affordable for me right now =0)
September 8th, 2008 @ 4:52 am
OMG, I just love reading your blog! I came across it from the Advocate blog I read and your writing is amazing. Please add me to your password protected list. I find myself checking your blog before any of the others I subscribe to. You have such insights into the gendered world and I find it easy to relate to all you have written (that I've read so far) and so much of it explains things that go on in my life. Thank you!
September 10th, 2008 @ 5:05 am
I'd like to be added to the list. Your writing has really helped me to understand the gender issues my girlfriend works through on a regular basis. For me, gender is natural and easy; for her, it's constructed and complicated. Thus, your writings on what it is to be butch, and to desire femmes, has given me insight. Your smut, well, that's just an added bonus.
September 10th, 2008 @ 7:05 am
Congratulations on your win. Appreciate if I can be added to the mailing list for the password protected reads. Thanks and keep up the great and captivating writing!
September 10th, 2008 @ 5:26 pm
Hi there.
Having been a reader for a little while now (via google reader) I would love to be added to the password protected list, if that's acceptable to you. I very much enjoy reading your thoughts and thought processes… mine are on the blog url attached.
~doffs cap~
DK (also a gender related post, poster)
September 11th, 2008 @ 3:57 pm
yes please?
September 12th, 2008 @ 10:54 am
I've just discovered your blog, it was suggested to me by GoogleReader..
Through my girlfriend (HS sweethearts reunited after 25 years), I've been exploring my gender identity in all it's plurality and have also been writing erotic scenes .. some of which we play out .. very hot! I find in you a kindred spirit and I'm very happy to have found you and this community.
My blog isn't gender or sexuality related, I am also a software development geek active in that community and Bugsplat reflects that outward facing identity.
tx, Kyle
September 14th, 2008 @ 3:34 pm
I'd like to be on the protected list now. I've read for a while, and am very interested. I started a new blog to discuss all of my gender/sexuality questions and if you have a minute, take a look? I have no one who understands it and I'm on the lookout for more queer bloggers.
September 14th, 2008 @ 7:59 pm
i ve been exploring my gender identity for quite some time now Your writing has really helped me to understand my gender issues I’d and to like to be added to the list if you want to
September 15th, 2008 @ 1:50 pm
There is no particular reason for you to add me, you don't know me. However your tags mention redheaded armies, which sounds intriguing, and I've read for a long time.
September 15th, 2008 @ 1:54 pm
As a young butch stuck in a small town, this website is a god (goddess?) send! I love reading about your adventures, opinions, etc. and I'd consider it an honor to be on the password-protected list. If not, I understand and respect your right to privacy.
Thank You!
September 15th, 2008 @ 2:35 pm
Please add me to your password protected list. Thanks!
September 15th, 2008 @ 3:02 pm
I've been reading your blog for awhile now and have really enjoyed it. I'd like to be added to the password protected list as well.
Thanks!
September 15th, 2008 @ 4:36 pm
Pretty please?
September 15th, 2008 @ 4:50 pm
Am delurking to ask to be added to the password list.
Thanks.
September 15th, 2008 @ 8:36 pm
Hi, I'd love to be added. I am a new reader and am enjoying what I have read so far-thanks..
September 16th, 2008 @ 3:17 am
:D
Long time lurker, coming out of the shadows! Could I have the password?
Many thanks!
September 16th, 2008 @ 5:54 am
Hi there. I have enjoyed reading your blog and would love to have the all access pass! My own blog has not "moved up in the world" so to speak so that I could have a password protected portion, but it's nice to think of that as an option at some point. Great idea. Great writing. Thanks!
September 16th, 2008 @ 6:28 am
Would love to be included! Thanks!
September 16th, 2008 @ 6:29 am
Hi,
I'm a long time lurker as well (for about a year), emerging to finally ask for a password.
Thanks!
September 16th, 2008 @ 6:55 am
i promise to stop lurking and start commenting on how much in love i am with your words.
September 16th, 2008 @ 10:05 am
Yet another lurker looking for a deeper level of commitment from you.
Password, please.
Thanks, man.
September 16th, 2008 @ 11:04 am
Hi Sinclair,
I've enjoyed reading your blog. You have a strong voice, which I like, and something to say, which I like even more. I would very much appreciate reading your password protected posts… if you feel like sharing that privilege with me.
Thanks!
September 16th, 2008 @ 11:26 am
Sinclair, I really would love to have a password to these protected entries. I love your blog!
September 16th, 2008 @ 12:02 pm
great site! I will be sending this to all of my friends! Please add me to your password protect site
Thanks Sly
September 17th, 2008 @ 4:45 am
i love your stories. password please!
September 20th, 2008 @ 12:26 pm
hey, i would love to be able to have a password
thanks
love the webiste!!
meg
September 25th, 2008 @ 1:51 pm
Hi, I read your blog regularly and find it very interesting and thought-provoking – and I like your writing style too. It would be great to have a password to see the protected posts. Thanks! x
October 14th, 2008 @ 7:59 pm
Yes Please.
October 16th, 2008 @ 11:12 pm
Matey, from one Butch to another, I miss your most intimate posts – Love your style. Inspirational!
Yes please!
January 1st, 2009 @ 6:37 pm
just discovered your site (through susie bright). wow. fearless and amazing stuff. thanks.
February 27th, 2009 @ 1:48 pm
Hey!
I love you site, I read it all the time. I would love to get the password for the protected posts!
Thanks so much, you're an amazing writer!
Danielle
March 8th, 2009 @ 4:22 pm
I love reading your work. Please give me the password so I can enjoy more.
March 19th, 2009 @ 2:28 pm
Enjoy your musings, process, approach.
Appreciate your openness, look forward to more.
Thx
April 17th, 2009 @ 3:02 pm
i love the name sugarbutch ;o)
April 20th, 2009 @ 9:27 am
Thought provoking website that resonates with some of my own feelings. I'd like 2 B included in your mailing list.
May 20th, 2009 @ 2:27 am
Love your site. Love how you are writing about sex and gender. I would really like to be able to read the password protected posts, and be able to contribute my thoughts. Thanks for the fabulous Matt stories.