Comments on: poll results: my ass is hers http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/ The sex, gender, and relationship adventures of a kinky queer butch top Thu, 09 Feb 2012 16:09:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Essin' Em http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/comment-page-1/#comment-1271 Essin' Em Fri, 28 Dec 2007 14:56:33 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/#comment-1271 I'm asking very nicely...at some point...not to be the first, or second, or third or whatever. Just keep me on a list somewhere :) Your butchness and topness are quite the incredible turn ons, and plus, there just isn't anyone else like you...not in CO, not in Philly. Not anywhere I happen to be. I'm asking very nicely…at some point…not to be the first, or second, or third or whatever.

Just keep me on a list somewhere :) Your butchness and topness are quite the incredible turn ons, and plus, there just isn't anyone else like you…not in CO, not in Philly. Not anywhere I happen to be.

]]> By: blackandblue http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/comment-page-1/#comment-1265 blackandblue Wed, 26 Dec 2007 20:05:47 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/#comment-1265 oh, I guess I would settle for second place ; ) since Madeline is technically "first"... oh, I guess I would settle for second place ; ) since Madeline is technically "first"…

]]> By: Madeline http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/comment-page-1/#comment-1255 Madeline Mon, 24 Dec 2007 03:51:10 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/#comment-1255 Wait, wait. How do you define "met me through Sugarbutch?" How do you define "sleeping with someone?" Wait, wait.
How do you define "met me through Sugarbutch?"
How do you define "sleeping with someone?"

]]> By: Lina http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/comment-page-1/#comment-1254 Lina Mon, 24 Dec 2007 00:37:34 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/#comment-1254 I ABSOLUTELY want to be the first... Call for a comp? x I ABSOLUTELY want to be the first…

Call for a comp?

x

]]> By: lady brett http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/comment-page-1/#comment-1253 lady brett Mon, 24 Dec 2007 00:27:49 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/#comment-1253 not a traitor! *wink* but i'm totally looking forward to reading about it =) really, though, i love what you've posted so far about the idea of bottoming while preserving your butchness/boyishness. i think that's important, and interesting. this whole thing is interesting to me, partly because i don't <i>personally</i> understand being able to switch. (which, to allow myself leeway, is not the same as saying i could never do it...but it seems way out in left field at the moment). oh - and i absolutely volunteer to be the first. i have a friend who wants me to visit up that way anyhow *g* not a traitor! *wink*
but i'm totally looking forward to reading about it =)

really, though, i love what you've posted so far about the idea of bottoming while preserving your butchness/boyishness. i think that's important, and interesting. this whole thing is interesting to me, partly because i don't personally understand being able to switch. (which, to allow myself leeway, is not the same as saying i could never do it…but it seems way out in left field at the moment).

oh – and i absolutely volunteer to be the first. i have a friend who wants me to visit up that way anyhow *g*

]]> By: maymay http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/comment-page-1/#comment-1251 maymay Sun, 23 Dec 2007 19:58:38 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/#comment-1251 I second the notion that bringing a mixed bag to bottoming and submission in the sense of one's gender energies is a fantastic, and OH MY GOD SO HAWT way of approaching playing. It is, in fact, the blending of gender expressions that many of us find erotic in the first place. I couldn't bring myself to vote in the end, but I have to say I'm glad it ended up turning this way. :) But then, bottoms are notoriously mischievous to one another—I think it has something to do with greedily and vicariously enjoying yet-more-bottoming experiences. Or maybe that's just me. I second the notion that bringing a mixed bag to bottoming and submission in the sense of one's gender energies is a fantastic, and OH MY GOD SO HAWT way of approaching playing. It is, in fact, the blending of gender expressions that many of us find erotic in the first place.

I couldn't bring myself to vote in the end, but I have to say I'm glad it ended up turning this way. :) But then, bottoms are notoriously mischievous to one another—I think it has something to do with greedily and vicariously enjoying yet-more-bottoming experiences. Or maybe that's just me.

]]> By: tongue-tied http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/comment-page-1/#comment-1249 tongue-tied Sun, 23 Dec 2007 10:49:19 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/#comment-1249 i really dig the idea of bringing different gender energies to topping & bottoming, esp. the latter. i'd never thought about bottoming in a boyish way! ::: mulls the possibilities ::: i expect, like all power play, it's a private dance, never quite the same wants & needs from person to person, maybe even across one person's own gender spectrum. imagine a state of competence and self-awareness where limitless expressions of self, of power, of gender could be picked up and laid down like surgical tools in an intricate scene - with an equally tuned-in lover. wow! choreography on the fly! that really appeals to me, but then again, i get a little label claustrophobic. anyway, one thing is for sure, you are in for some revelations! i really dig the idea of bringing different gender energies to topping & bottoming, esp. the latter. i'd never thought about bottoming in a boyish way! ::: mulls the possibilities ::: i expect, like all power play, it's a private dance, never quite the same wants & needs from person to person, maybe even across one person's own gender spectrum. imagine a state of competence and self-awareness where limitless expressions of self, of power, of gender could be picked up and laid down like surgical tools in an intricate scene – with an equally tuned-in lover. wow! choreography on the fly! that really appeals to me, but then again, i get a little label claustrophobic.

anyway, one thing is for sure, you are in for some revelations!

]]> By: Miss Avarice http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/comment-page-1/#comment-1247 Miss Avarice Sun, 23 Dec 2007 09:56:32 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/poll-results-my-ass-is-hers/#comment-1247 All this talk of you getting topped is seriously hot. It's got me wondering about another type of scene wherein you're bottoming... All this talk of you getting topped is seriously hot. It’s got me wondering about another type of scene wherein you’re bottoming…

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