Comments on: poll results: my ass is hers

By: Essin' Em

Essin' Em — Fri, 28 Dec 2007 18:56:33 +0000

I’m asking very nicely…at some point…not to be the first, or second, or third or whatever.

Just keep me on a list somewhere :) Your butchness and topness are quite the incredible turn ons, and plus, there just isn’t anyone else like you…not in CO, not in Philly. Not anywhere I happen to be.

By: blackandblue

blackandblue — Thu, 27 Dec 2007 00:05:47 +0000

oh, I guess I would settle for second place ; ) since Madeline is technically “first”…

By: Madeline

Madeline — Mon, 24 Dec 2007 07:51:10 +0000

Wait, wait.
How do you define “met me through Sugarbutch?”
How do you define “sleeping with someone?”

By: Lina

Lina — Mon, 24 Dec 2007 04:37:34 +0000

I ABSOLUTELY want to be the first…

Call for a comp?

By: lady brett

lady brett — Mon, 24 Dec 2007 04:27:49 +0000

not a traitor! *wink*
but i’m totally looking forward to reading about it =)

really, though, i love what you’ve posted so far about the idea of bottoming while preserving your butchness/boyishness. i think that’s important, and interesting. this whole thing is interesting to me, partly because i don’t personally understand being able to switch. (which, to allow myself leeway, is not the same as saying i could never do it…but it seems way out in left field at the moment).

oh – and i absolutely volunteer to be the first. i have a friend who wants me to visit up that way anyhow *g*

By: maymay

maymay — Sun, 23 Dec 2007 23:58:38 +0000

I second the notion that bringing a mixed bag to bottoming and submission in the sense of one’s gender energies is a fantastic, and OH MY GOD SO HAWT way of approaching playing. It is, in fact, the blending of gender expressions that many of us find erotic in the first place.

I couldn’t bring myself to vote in the end, but I have to say I’m glad it ended up turning this way. :) But then, bottoms are notoriously mischievous to one another—I think it has something to do with greedily and vicariously enjoying yet-more-bottoming experiences. Or maybe that’s just me.

By: tongue-tied

tongue-tied — Sun, 23 Dec 2007 14:49:19 +0000

i really dig the idea of bringing different gender energies to topping & bottoming, esp. the latter. i’d never thought about bottoming in a boyish way! ::: mulls the possibilities ::: i expect, like all power play, it’s a private dance, never quite the same wants & needs from person to person, maybe even across one person’s own gender spectrum. imagine a state of competence and self-awareness where limitless expressions of self, of power, of gender could be picked up and laid down like surgical tools in an intricate scene – with an equally tuned-in lover. wow! choreography on the fly! that really appeals to me, but then again, i get a little label claustrophobic.

anyway, one thing is for sure, you are in for some revelations!

By: Miss Avarice

Miss Avarice — Sun, 23 Dec 2007 09:56:32 +0000

All this talk of you getting topped is seriously hot. It’s got me wondering about another type of scene wherein you’re bottoming…