Comments on: Do I pack daily? http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/do-i-pack-daily/ The sex, gender, and relationship adventures of a kinky queer butch top Thu, 09 Feb 2012 16:09:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: The Fellatio Artist http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/do-i-pack-daily/comment-page-1/#comment-1243 The Fellatio Artist Sat, 22 Dec 2007 05:14:19 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/do-i-pack-daily/#comment-1243 Interesting post to me for the gender issues as it relates to the cock. I really liked something about this phrase.."the softie cock I have carefully tucked away into my briefs today like a present" Bit of background I would characterize myself (probably inaccurately, I'm still figuring out my gender issues) as an M-to-F fetishist crossdresser. Unlike some of my sisters (and brothers) under the transgendered umbrella, I don't seem to have much diaspora for my natal gender, just a generalized feeling of affinity towards the other. I never minded my little present as it were. However there is something magical in its absence. With the boys tucked up in safely and the rest of the plumbing securely stowed back, like a kink in a garden hose, there is no or less fluid transfer to the hydraulics upon arousal. this in turn seems to belay some of the aggressiveness that feel in my fully male presenting mode. I can definitely see where the softie cock I have carefully tucked away into my briefs today like a present the weight of the cock, forward and a bit menacing causes one to feel ones manhood in ones core. Conversely sisters I know who do use forms report that leading with bosom into the room feels completely different. I am a natural girl till now relying on the same body that kids thought they wee being cruel when they described it as effeminate, but that now that I have tried actual feminine clothes on that frame I of course see the inherent masculine cues. Perhaps I shall pack for my other gender some time too. Best regards my man, The Geek Interesting post to me for the gender issues as it relates to the cock.

I really liked something about this phrase.."the softie cock I have carefully tucked away into my briefs today like a present"

Bit of background I would characterize myself (probably inaccurately, I'm still figuring out my gender issues) as an M-to-F fetishist crossdresser. Unlike some of my sisters (and brothers) under the transgendered umbrella, I don't seem to have much diaspora for my natal gender, just a generalized feeling of affinity towards the other.

I never minded my little present as it were. However there is something magical in its absence. With the boys tucked up in safely and the rest of the plumbing securely stowed back, like a kink in a garden hose, there is no or less fluid transfer to the hydraulics upon arousal. this in turn seems to belay some of the aggressiveness that feel in my fully male presenting mode.

I can definitely see where the softie cock I have carefully tucked away into my briefs today like a present the weight of the cock, forward and a bit menacing causes one to feel ones manhood in ones core. Conversely sisters I know who do use forms report that leading with bosom into the room feels completely different. I am a natural girl till now relying on the same body that kids thought they wee being cruel when they described it as effeminate, but that now that I have tried actual feminine clothes on that frame I of course see the inherent masculine cues. Perhaps I shall pack for my other gender some time too.

Best regards my man,
The Geek

]]> By: Wendy http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/do-i-pack-daily/comment-page-1/#comment-1238 Wendy Fri, 21 Dec 2007 13:03:29 +0000 http://www.sugarbutch.net/2007/12/do-i-pack-daily/#comment-1238 Despite not identifying as male or butch at any point, (which always sort of surprised me, considering how cock-centric I can be about my own dick) I've considered packing for cock-confidence. Even as a youngin', I used to refer to my 'metaphorical cock', and just the idea of it gave me more confidence. (It was also referred to in arguments - I would win by metaphorically pulling out my dick and slapping it on the table) Maybe I'll go take a look at some packing dicks after the holidays. ("Mom, can I have a new dick for Christmas? I don't need any more sweaters!") Also, I totally voted for Date Dyke's owning your ass. :) Good luck! Despite not identifying as male or butch at any point, (which always sort of surprised me, considering how cock-centric I can be about my own dick) I've considered packing for cock-confidence. Even as a youngin', I used to refer to my 'metaphorical cock', and just the idea of it gave me more confidence. (It was also referred to in arguments – I would win by metaphorically pulling out my dick and slapping it on the table) Maybe I'll go take a look at some packing dicks after the holidays. ("Mom, can I have a new dick for Christmas? I don't need any more sweaters!")

Also, I totally voted for Date Dyke's owning your ass. :) Good luck!

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