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a request

May 8, 2007 | Callie

I’m pretty sure she reads this place. She never told me outright, but I’ve had hints. She could probably pretty easily find it, given the clues. I wish I could ask her, now, to stop.

If you are reading this, please don’t visit any longer. Let me go through this without your eyes.

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